In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.
Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16
We love when things are working in unity. It might be in our workplace, our favorite band, or when things in our church family are going well. We love the moments of connection with others because unity feels right and it’s something we strive for. Paul longs for the church to be united in Christ and throughout this section he writes to that end. Paul encouraged the early church to: “make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” He gave the church a greater vision of unity than they could establish on their own accord. Not only did he teach on unity but on using the gifts we have in God’s family and growing in spiritual maturity.
1) Share about a time when you experienced a powerful moment of unity. It could have been at a sporting event, a concert, or another time when you felt ‘in sync’ with others. What made that experience so meaningful?
2) Read Ephesians 4:1-6. We do not drift into unity in any relationship. If anything we drift out of unity. We have to be intentional to pursue and desire unity. What are some intentional ways we can pursue unity in our families, friendships, and church?
3) Paul invites believers to unity in the church, not uniformity. What’s the difference? In the sermon we had a list of seven ways the church reflects the character of God when live in unity. What one of those stood out most to you?
4) Read Psalm 133:1, John 17:20–23, and Colossians 2:2-4. Paul connected unity with our witness to the world. In what ways can division among Christians damage our credibility? Conversely, how can unity draw people toward the love of Christ?
5) Read Ephesians 4:11-13. Paul ties in unity and our spiritual gifts. How does discovering and using your spiritual gifts strengthen the church’s unity and health?
6) Read these other passages on Spiritual Gifts: Romans 12:6–8, 1 Corinthians 12:4–11; 27–31, Ephesians 4:11, and 1 Peter 4:10–11. How have you seen people in our group use their spiritual gifts?
7) Ephesians 4:14-16. Neal said, “We will never drift toward spiritual maturity.” What are some practical rhythms that help you mature in your faith instead of drift? What are you currently doing to actively grow in your faith and not stagnate?
8) Looking back at the Big Idea — “A healthy church grows in unity, serves with gifts, and matures in Christ.” Use this verse to pray for our church as you close your time.