Small Group Questions | The New Life | Ephesians 4:17-32

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | The New Life | Ephesians 4:17-32

Today we’re continuing our journey through the New Testament letter of Ephesians. In Chapter four we see a shift to spiritual growth in Christ. Through Paul’s ministry, the hope of Jesus spread across Ephesus and transformed countless lives. In this week’s passage, Paul challenges the church to live differently because of what Christ has done. He reminds them to leave behind their old way of life, to walk in the new life God offers, and to show evidence of that transformation in how they speak, think, and treat others. As we talk today, we’ll explore what this transformation looks like for us; how God renews our minds, reshapes our actions, and forms us to be more like Jesus.

1) Placing our faith in Jesus is one of the best decisions a person can make in life. Who would be willing to briefly share their faith story with the group and describe how God has changed your life since following Him?

2) Read Ephesians 4:17–19. Paul reminds the Ephesian believers about their old way of life. Why do you think it was helpful for the early church—and for us today—to remember what life was like before Christ?

3) In Ephesians 4:18 Paul uses the word separated, which in Greek conveys being alienated or estranged from God. How does living in contrast to God’s ways make a person feel distant or disconnected from Him?

4) Read Ephesians 4:20–21. Paul uses the language of “learned” and “taught.” Then read John 14:6, Philippians 3:8–10, and Titus 2:11–12. What have you learned about following Jesus recently that has helped you grow in your faith journey?

5) Read Ephesians 4:22-24. Paul talks about being “made new in the attitude of your minds.” How does changing the way we think lead to lasting spiritual transformation? See: 2 Corinthians 10:4–5, Colossians 3:1–2, and Romans 12:2. 

6) In the sermon we learned how to share our faith story: vs. 22— What my life was like before Christ, vs. 23— How I met Jesus, vs. 24— What my life is like now. How comfortable do you feel using this framework to share your story with someone?

7) Read Ephesians 4:25–32. Which of the six evidences of transformation stood out to you the most, and why? (Speaking truth, controlling anger, working honestly, using words to build up, honoring the Spirit, practicing compassion and forgiveness.)

8) Close your time in prayer by asking the Holy Spirit to give you the strength to “put off the old” and “put on the new.”

Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16

We love when things are working in unity. It might be in our workplace, our favorite band, or when things in our church family are going well. We love the moments of connection with others because unity feels right and it’s something we strive for. Paul longs for the church to be united in Christ and throughout this section he writes to that end. Paul encouraged the early church to: “make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” He gave the church a greater vision of unity than they could establish on their own accord. Not only did he teach on unity but on using the gifts we have in God’s family and growing in spiritual maturity. 

1) Share about a time when you experienced a powerful moment of unity. It could have been at a sporting event, a concert, or another time when you felt ‘in sync’ with others. What made that experience so meaningful? 

2) Read Ephesians 4:1-6. We do not drift into unity in any relationship. If anything we drift out of unity. We have to be intentional to pursue and desire unity. What are some intentional ways we can pursue unity in our families, friendships, and church?

3) Paul invites believers to unity in the church, not uniformity. What’s the difference? In the sermon we had a list of seven ways the church reflects the character of God when live in unity. What one of those stood out most to you? 

4) Read Psalm 133:1, John 17:20–23, and Colossians 2:2-4. Paul connected unity with our witness to the world. In what ways can division among Christians damage our credibility? Conversely, how can unity draw people toward the love of Christ?

5) Read Ephesians 4:11-13. Paul ties in unity and our spiritual gifts. How does discovering and using your spiritual gifts strengthen the church’s unity and health?

6) Read these other passages on Spiritual Gifts: Romans 12:6–8, 1 Corinthians 12:4–11; 27–31, Ephesians 4:11, and 1 Peter 4:10–11. How have you seen people in our group use their spiritual gifts?

7) Ephesians 4:14-16. Neal said, “We will never drift toward spiritual maturity.” What are some practical rhythms that help you mature in your faith instead of drift? What are you currently doing to actively grow in your faith and not stagnate?

8) Looking back at the Big Idea — “A healthy church grows in unity, serves with gifts, and matures in Christ.” Use this verse to pray for our church as you close your time. 

Small Group Questions | Immeasurably More | Ephesians 3:14-21

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Immeasurably More | Ephesians 3:14-21

Just like Redwood trees, Christians were never meant to do life alone. We are called to be connected in a church community with other believers. Today we’re continuing our sermon series through the New Testament Letter of Ephesians. The letter was written by the Apostle Paul who ministered in the city for over three years. Paul lived among the people, experienced the city, and saw life change first hand. Today we’re going to see the pastoral heart of Paul really lived out. Today we’ll see Paul’s pastoral heart: how he prayed for the church, how he invites us into a powerful life of prayer, and how he points us to the God who does superabundantly more.

1) In the beginning of the sermon we learned about how Redwood trees have roots that only go about 10 feet deep but over a hundred feet wide. They are connected to each other. Who are you connected with in your spiritual life? 

2) Read Ephesians 3:14–15. Paul describes a posture of prayer and praying on our knees. Read Daniel 6:1-10. In the sermon we were invited to take the next 30 days to pray on our knees. Have you tried praying on your knees yet?

3) Paul traces our spiritual family tree. Let’s look at three other passages that expand this truth: Read John 1:12, Romans 8:15–16, and Ephesians 2:19. When you think about your life, what makes it so special to be united in the family of God? 

4) Read Ephesians 3:16-19. Paul prays two powerful prayers for the church: They would be strengthened in the power of the Holy Spirit. Because we are rooted and established in love we have power in Christ. How do these encourage you to pray bigger prayers in your daily life? 

5) We learn that Christ will dwell in our hearts through faith. Read: John 14:23 and Colossians 3:16. What does it mean for Christ to “dwell in your heart”? What would it look like to make your heart a more welcoming place for Christ to dwell?

6) Paul mixes metaphors here: rooted like trees, built like a house. Let’s see how the Bible uses both pictures: Read Jeremiah 17:7–8 and Matthew 7:24–25. How do roots and foundations help us picture the Christian life?

7) Read Ephesians 3:20-21. God is able to do “immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.” Where do you need to trust Him for “immeasurably more” right now?

8) Think about your “My Circle” card. How does this passage in Ephesians change your thoughts on praying for others and praying for God to do radical life change?