Small Group Questions | Mutual Submission | Ephesians 5:21-33

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Mutual Submission | Ephesians 5:21-33

As we continue our sermon series through the New Testament letter to the church in Ephesus we see Paul teach on mutual submission in a marriage relationship. This teaching was particularly important for Ephesus because it was a Gentile city; meaning it didn’t have God at the center. In our passage today we read Paul’s instruction on mutual submission for a thriving marriage that honors God. Paul teaches couples have to live the new life in Christ they have received are leaning in to. Paul takes the time to teach on marriage from a Biblical perspective. In today's text we’ll see how submission starts with God and models the mystery of Christ and the Church. 

1) The sermon started with funny quotes on marriage from kids. Which one stood out to you most? Why do you think humor like that helps us talk about serious topics like marriage or relationships?

2) Read Ephesians 5:21. What does “mutual submission” look like in our daily life? How does mutual submission honor God in our marriage, families, friendships, or the workplace? 

3) Genesis 1:27, 2 Corinthians 5:17, and Genesis 2:24. Neal taught that we’re created in God’s image and that our identity is in Christ. How does remembering that truth shape the way we treat others whether in marriage, dating, or singleness?

4) Read Ephesians 5:22-24. Paul invited wives to submit to their husbands “as to the Lord.” What might that look like today? How can trusting in God’s goodness help someone live out challenging passages of Scripture?

5) Read Ephesians 5:25-27. Paul called husbands to love “as Christ loved the church.”  This was a radical idea in this time period. How does Jesus’ sacrificial love challenge all of us, married or not, in how we love people around us?

6) Read Ephesians 5:28-31. Paul repeats his teaching for husbands to love their wives and for wives to respect their husbands. For those who are married, what are some practical ways to live this out? For those who aren’t married, what principles can still apply in your relationships? (see Colossians 3:18–19)? 

7) Read Ephesians 5:31-33. Paul teaches that a husband and wife become “one flesh” and connects this to the mystery of Christ and the church. What is the “mystery” Paul is describing here, and how does it reveal the gospel?

8) Think about your own relationships: marriage, friendships, or future hopes. What is one way you can reflect the gospel through love and surrender this week?

Small Group Questions | Walk in New Life | Ephesians 5:1-13

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Walk in New Life | Ephesians 5:1-13

Today we continue our sermon series through the New Testament letter to the church in Ephesus. This church was started by Paul on his second missionary journey. He spent a considerable amount of time with the church. For example, Paul spent three years in Ephesus and only eighteen months in Corinth. Paul was able to teach this church about the great love of God. The Holy Spirit began working in the life of God’s people and lives were radically changed. In our passage today we’re going to see Paul make a statement and then help the church understand how to live this out for Jesus. He teaches them to walk in God’s love, to walk in righteousness, and to walk in light.

1) Thinking of the story of Jimmy Choi who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease and chose to walk to regain strength. Share about a time when choosing to take small, consistent steps in your faith helped you grow spiritually.

2) Read Ephesians 5:1-2. Paul encouraged the church in Ephesus to: “Follow God’s example… and walk in the way of love.” What does it mean to imitate God’s love in practical, everyday ways?

3) Read Micah 6:8 and Luke 10:25-37. Think about a time when you saw someone reflect Christ’s love through forgiveness or compassion. What impact did their example have on you or on the person who received the love of Jesus? 

4) Read Ephesians 5:3-7. Paul calls believers to live differently from the culture around them. What are some ways our culture normalizes behavior that God calls us to leave behind as we grow in spiritual maturity?

5) In these couple of verses, Paul emphasizes living a life of righteousness. How can we pursue purity, righteousness, and holiness while still showing humility and grace toward others?

6) Read Ephesians 5:3-7. Paul says, “You were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord.” (See also Matthew 5:14–16, Colossians 1:13–14, and 1 Thessalonians 5:5.) How does that truth shape your identity and daily choices?

7) Read Psalm 32:3–5, James 5:16, and 1 John 1:7–9. Confession brings light into dark places. Why do you think confession is so freeing, and what sometimes holds people back from practicing it regularly? 

8) Close your time in prayer with either confession of sin or asking Jesus to help you be light in our darkening world. 

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Small Group Questions | The New Life | Ephesians 4:17-32

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | The New Life | Ephesians 4:17-32

Today we’re continuing our journey through the New Testament letter of Ephesians. In Chapter four we see a shift to spiritual growth in Christ. Through Paul’s ministry, the hope of Jesus spread across Ephesus and transformed countless lives. In this week’s passage, Paul challenges the church to live differently because of what Christ has done. He reminds them to leave behind their old way of life, to walk in the new life God offers, and to show evidence of that transformation in how they speak, think, and treat others. As we talk today, we’ll explore what this transformation looks like for us; how God renews our minds, reshapes our actions, and forms us to be more like Jesus.

1) Placing our faith in Jesus is one of the best decisions a person can make in life. Who would be willing to briefly share their faith story with the group and describe how God has changed your life since following Him?

2) Read Ephesians 4:17–19. Paul reminds the Ephesian believers about their old way of life. Why do you think it was helpful for the early church—and for us today—to remember what life was like before Christ?

3) In Ephesians 4:18 Paul uses the word separated, which in Greek conveys being alienated or estranged from God. How does living in contrast to God’s ways make a person feel distant or disconnected from Him?

4) Read Ephesians 4:20–21. Paul uses the language of “learned” and “taught.” Then read John 14:6, Philippians 3:8–10, and Titus 2:11–12. What have you learned about following Jesus recently that has helped you grow in your faith journey?

5) Read Ephesians 4:22-24. Paul talks about being “made new in the attitude of your minds.” How does changing the way we think lead to lasting spiritual transformation? See: 2 Corinthians 10:4–5, Colossians 3:1–2, and Romans 12:2. 

6) In the sermon we learned how to share our faith story: vs. 22— What my life was like before Christ, vs. 23— How I met Jesus, vs. 24— What my life is like now. How comfortable do you feel using this framework to share your story with someone?

7) Read Ephesians 4:25–32. Which of the six evidences of transformation stood out to you the most, and why? (Speaking truth, controlling anger, working honestly, using words to build up, honoring the Spirit, practicing compassion and forgiveness.)

8) Close your time in prayer by asking the Holy Spirit to give you the strength to “put off the old” and “put on the new.”

Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16

We love when things are working in unity. It might be in our workplace, our favorite band, or when things in our church family are going well. We love the moments of connection with others because unity feels right and it’s something we strive for. Paul longs for the church to be united in Christ and throughout this section he writes to that end. Paul encouraged the early church to: “make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” He gave the church a greater vision of unity than they could establish on their own accord. Not only did he teach on unity but on using the gifts we have in God’s family and growing in spiritual maturity. 

1) Share about a time when you experienced a powerful moment of unity. It could have been at a sporting event, a concert, or another time when you felt ‘in sync’ with others. What made that experience so meaningful? 

2) Read Ephesians 4:1-6. We do not drift into unity in any relationship. If anything we drift out of unity. We have to be intentional to pursue and desire unity. What are some intentional ways we can pursue unity in our families, friendships, and church?

3) Paul invites believers to unity in the church, not uniformity. What’s the difference? In the sermon we had a list of seven ways the church reflects the character of God when live in unity. What one of those stood out most to you? 

4) Read Psalm 133:1, John 17:20–23, and Colossians 2:2-4. Paul connected unity with our witness to the world. In what ways can division among Christians damage our credibility? Conversely, how can unity draw people toward the love of Christ?

5) Read Ephesians 4:11-13. Paul ties in unity and our spiritual gifts. How does discovering and using your spiritual gifts strengthen the church’s unity and health?

6) Read these other passages on Spiritual Gifts: Romans 12:6–8, 1 Corinthians 12:4–11; 27–31, Ephesians 4:11, and 1 Peter 4:10–11. How have you seen people in our group use their spiritual gifts?

7) Ephesians 4:14-16. Neal said, “We will never drift toward spiritual maturity.” What are some practical rhythms that help you mature in your faith instead of drift? What are you currently doing to actively grow in your faith and not stagnate?

8) Looking back at the Big Idea — “A healthy church grows in unity, serves with gifts, and matures in Christ.” Use this verse to pray for our church as you close your time. 

Small Group Questions | Immeasurably More | Ephesians 3:14-21

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Immeasurably More | Ephesians 3:14-21

Just like Redwood trees, Christians were never meant to do life alone. We are called to be connected in a church community with other believers. Today we’re continuing our sermon series through the New Testament Letter of Ephesians. The letter was written by the Apostle Paul who ministered in the city for over three years. Paul lived among the people, experienced the city, and saw life change first hand. Today we’re going to see the pastoral heart of Paul really lived out. Today we’ll see Paul’s pastoral heart: how he prayed for the church, how he invites us into a powerful life of prayer, and how he points us to the God who does superabundantly more.

1) In the beginning of the sermon we learned about how Redwood trees have roots that only go about 10 feet deep but over a hundred feet wide. They are connected to each other. Who are you connected with in your spiritual life? 

2) Read Ephesians 3:14–15. Paul describes a posture of prayer and praying on our knees. Read Daniel 6:1-10. In the sermon we were invited to take the next 30 days to pray on our knees. Have you tried praying on your knees yet?

3) Paul traces our spiritual family tree. Let’s look at three other passages that expand this truth: Read John 1:12, Romans 8:15–16, and Ephesians 2:19. When you think about your life, what makes it so special to be united in the family of God? 

4) Read Ephesians 3:16-19. Paul prays two powerful prayers for the church: They would be strengthened in the power of the Holy Spirit. Because we are rooted and established in love we have power in Christ. How do these encourage you to pray bigger prayers in your daily life? 

5) We learn that Christ will dwell in our hearts through faith. Read: John 14:23 and Colossians 3:16. What does it mean for Christ to “dwell in your heart”? What would it look like to make your heart a more welcoming place for Christ to dwell?

6) Paul mixes metaphors here: rooted like trees, built like a house. Let’s see how the Bible uses both pictures: Read Jeremiah 17:7–8 and Matthew 7:24–25. How do roots and foundations help us picture the Christian life?

7) Read Ephesians 3:20-21. God is able to do “immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.” Where do you need to trust Him for “immeasurably more” right now?

8) Think about your “My Circle” card. How does this passage in Ephesians change your thoughts on praying for others and praying for God to do radical life change? 

Small Group Questions | No Longer Divided | Ephesians 2:11-22

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | No Longer Divided | Ephesians 2:11-22

Throughout time humanity has been great at building walls that divide. Humanity has not only been good at building physical walls, but invisible walls as well. We’ve built invisible barriers around politics. Culturally and socially we’ve built walls around generational differences, barriers between those who live in urban areas and those who live in rural ones for example. We’ve built economic walls, educational walls, and walls that even divide the church. In Ephesians 2:11-22 Paul teaches us the walls in our life can keep us from contact and connection with others. We learn that God came to destroy the walls to seek to divide us.  

1) In the beginning of the sermon Neal talked about two physical walls that brought division to the locations they were built; the Great Wall of China and the Berlin Wall. When you think about walls that divide, what is the first wall that comes to mind? 

2) Read Ephesians 2:11–13. Paul teaches us that at one point there was a wall between us and God but through the blood of Jesus that wall is broken down. Share with your group how Jesus pursued you and brought you into relationship with Him. 

3) Paul describes what our separation from God looked like by using the language of: “foreigners and excluded from citizenship in Heaven.” How do we see Jesus draw people to Himself and invite us to be citizens of Heaven? 

4) Read Ephesians 2:14-16. Jesus came to break down the walls that divide us. Read Acts 10:34–35, Galatians 3:28, and James 2:1. What practical steps can we take as individuals or as a group to live out racial reconciliation and unity in Christ?

5) Paul writes that Jesus came to reconcile us back to the Lord (v. 16). Reconciliation is: to reestablish proper friendly interpersonal relations after these have been disrupted or broken. Is there someone you need to reconcile with? 

6) Read Ephesians 2:14-18. Part of breaking down walls that divide us means living in peace. Read Matthew 5:9, Romans 12:18, and Hebrews 12:14. How can we be a group of people who live in peace with others?  

7) Read Ephesians 2:19-22. How does remembering that our primary citizenship is in heaven shape the way we live as Christians in America?

8) Think about your “My Circle” card. Who in your circle still feels far from God, and how might you pray for or reach out to them this week?

Small Group Questions | From Death to Life | Ephesians 2:1-10

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | From Death to Life | Ephesians 2:1-10

Scripture teaches us that we are completely dead without Christ. Completely separated from God. No pulse. No hope. That’s the bad news. Paul doesn’t leave us hopeless. Paul describes our spiritual condition and then some of the most hope-filled words in the entire Bible show up: “But God…” God steps in and brings the dead back to life. God takes our life, that was dead without Him and brings hope to our current condition. You’re going to see in our passage today that Paul had a vision to see God’s Kingdom built up. Today we’ll see that Paul teaches us we were once dead in our sins, now we are alive in Christ, and we’ve been saved by grace. 

1) Neal shared the Princess Bride illustration when Miracle Max said Westley was: “mostly dead” vs. “completely dead.” Think back to your life before trusting Christ, where can you now see that you were completely dead in your sins? 

2) Read Ephesians 2:1–3. What stands out to you about Paul’s description of our condition before Christ? (read John 10:10, Galatians 5:19-21, and Romans 12:2) How do you see “the world, the flesh, and the devil” at work in today’s culture?

3) Paul uses two words—transgressions (active rebellion) and sins (anything contrary to God’s plan). Which one do you tend to recognize more easily in your own life? 

4) Read Ephesians 2:4–7. What do the words “But God” mean to you personally? Share a moment where God stepped in and brought new life or hope into your story. Read Mark 5:18-20 and Luke 19:9-10. What do these passages teach us about the new life God brings to His people? 

5) Paul says we are “seated with Christ” (v. 6). What does that truth say about our identity and worth in God’s eyes? How does this statement impact our current situation and the future hope we have in Christ?  

6) Read Ephesians 2:8–10. Paul teaches us the importance of remembering that salvation is by grace through faith, not by works (read 2 Timothy 1:9 and Titus 3:5) How does this truth shape the way we relate to others? 

7) Verse 10 says we are God’s workmanship (poema). How does knowing you are God’s masterpiece affect the way you view yourself and others? (see Genesis 1:27)

8) This Sunday, Coastline gave out a new prayer card to write down names of people you want to see come to faith. Who are some of the people God is putting on your heart? How can our group commit to praying with you for them this week? 

Small Group Questions | The Riches of Knowing God | Ephesians 1:15-23

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Riches of Knowing God | Ephesians 1:15-23

This Fall we’re studying the New Testament letter written to the church in Ephesus. Ephesus is a real city in Modern Day Turkey. The Apostle Paul stopped there on his second missionary journey. This is the trip where the gospel first moved to a different continent. Paul lived among the people in a very pagan city; he didn’t avoid the city because of the idol worship, slavery, or pagan culture. Paul chose to invest his life in people who were far from God and lost without the truth of Jesus. So Paul lovingly came in, shared the Gospel, and lived among the people. Paul never stopped praying for this church and maintained his desire for them to live in the power of God.

1) Neal opened with the story of a man and his Bitcoin account he can’t access. How is that similar to how Christians sometimes live in relation to God’s power and presence? Can you relate to that illustration personally?

2) Read Ephesians 1:15. Paul commends the Ephesians for their faith in Jesus and love for others. Where have you seen those two qualities, faith and love, lived out in your own life or in someone else’s? (see Hebrews 11:1 and Mark 12:29-31)

3) Read Ephesians 1:16-17. Paul tells the church he has never stopped praying for them (see 1 Thessalonians 5:17, Romans 12:12, and Colossians 4:2). We learn two things about Paul’s prayer life: Paul prayed continually and with thankfulness. How might you grow in consistency in your own prayer life this week? 

4) Read Ephesians 1:18. Paul highlights hope as central to the Christian life (see Psalm 42:11 and Hebrews 6:19) . In what ways do people around us put their hope in things that ultimately disappoint instead of placing our hope in Christ? 

5) It can be easy to think of an inheritance as something we receive later in life or when someone passes away. Paul teaches that our inheritance in Christ is not just future but present. What difference could that make in the way you live this week?

6) Read Ephesians 1:19-21. Paul describes God’s power toward us as the same power that raised Jesus from the dead. What would it look like for you to live this week connected to that resurrection power instead of “white-knuckling” your faith?

7) Which part of Paul’s prayer do you most need right now: to grow in faith and love, to deepen in hope, to grasp your inheritance, or to live in God’s power? How can the group pray for you specifically in that area?

The Lukewarm Church | Revelation 3:14-22

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Lukewarm Church | Revelation 3:14-22

This week, we close out our study on the seven churches of Revelation by looking at Laodicea, a church that receives no encouragement from Jesus. Instead, He lovingly confronts them for being lukewarm in their faith. This church thought they had it all: wealth, status, resources, and healing. But Jesus reveals that they were actually poor, blind, and in desperate need of Him. This rebuke helps us see how easy it is to fall into a similar pattern of self-reliance, comfort, and spiritual complacency. Jesus isn’t looking for half-hearted faith. He stands at the door and knocks, inviting us into a deeper relationship with Him—a faith that is refined, restored, and fully alive.

1) The sermon started with an illustration of Indianan Jones taking a step of faith; he had all the information he needed to make an educated decision. Share about a time you took a step of faith and what the results were. 

2) Read Revelation 3:14-16. Jesus is: the Amen, the faithful and true witness, and the ruler of God’s Kingdom. Each week we’ve learned more about the character and nature of Jesus. What do these descriptions of Jesus teach us? 

3) The Bible describes people in three different ways. Read Luke 24:32 and Matthew 24:12, Revelation 3:16. Lukewarm faith isn’t faith at all. What does lukewarm faith look like today? How is it different from being cold or on fire for God?

4) Read Revelation 3:17-18. The Laodiceans were materially rich but spiritually poor. In what ways do you see the temptation of self-reliance in your own life? Where are you tempted to say, “I don’t need anything”?

5) Jesus invites the church to “buy gold refined by fire.” Read: 1 Peter 1:6–7 and Hebrews 12:7-11 What does it mean to be spiritually refined by Jesus? Share a time when God used a challenge or correction to grow/shape your faith. 

6) Read Revelation 3:19-20. Why do you think Jesus used this image of Him knocking at the door & patiently waiting to be invited in to share a meal with you? What would it look like to take Neal’s invitation to schedule a meal with Jesus this week? 

7) Read Revelation 3:21-22, Psalm 46:10, and James 1:22. The passage ends with a description of the person is victorious by trusting Jesus, applying His word, and listening to His voice. What hinders you from applying God's word in your life?  

Close in prayer asking Jesus to make us a faithful church to the end. 

The Faithful Church | Revelation 3:7-13

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Faithful Church | Revelation 3:7-13

This week we continue our series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. This week we look at the church in Philadelphia. This is one of the two churches to not receive a rebuke for their actions. Jesus only has an encouragement and promise for this church. The church in Philadelphia was small and experiencing persecution for their faith. They were a faithful church who lived out both the Greatest Commandment and the Great Commission; they were living on mission in their area for the Gospel. Study these questions to learn more about the church in Philadelphia and reflect together on what Jesus is saying to us today.

1) We don’t often make headlines for the thousands of faithful choices we make each day; only for the ones that go wrong. What does faithfulness to the Lord look like in the everyday life of a healthy Christian? Share a few examples from your own walk.

2) Read Revelation 3:7-8. These verses give us three descriptions of Jesus: holy, true, and holding the keys. Take some time to talk about the importance of each description and how they help us grow in our walk with Jesus. 

3) Revelation 3:8 focuses on Jesus’ ability to open and close doors. Read Isaiah 22:22. 1 Corinthians 16:9, Colossians 4:3, and Psalm 37:23–24. What do these verses teach us about looking for opportunities in the doors Jesus opens and closes? 

4) Read Revelation 3:9-10. Jesus speaks of His power to protect His people. The Church in Philadelphia was facing trials. Can you share a time when Jesus strengthened you during a trial and what made His encouragement meaningful?

5) The church in Philadelphia was a faithful church in an unfaithful world. Read: Acts 2:42–47, Acts 6:3–4, Acts 8:1–4, and 1 Peter 2:9-10. Which qualities of a faithful church stood out to you the most? How can we reflect these in our church today?

6) Read Revelation 3:11-13. In a world that can feel like it’s trying to drown us in pressure, temptation, and disappointment, Jesus tells the church in Philadelphia: “I am coming soon.” How does this encourage you today? 

7) Jesus tells the church to “Hold on!” Read Psalm 16:8, Proverbs 4:25-27, Romans 12:1-2, and Hebrews 12:1-3. Do you have a specific verse that helps anchor your faith in Jesus when discouragement sets in? Share it with the group. 

Close in prayer asking Jesus to make us a faithful church to the end. 

The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

Today we continue our seven-week series through the letters to the churches in Revelation. These were real churches, just like ours, trying to follow Jesus in difficult and distracting times. This week we looked at the letter to the church in Sardis—a church that, on the outside, looked alive, but Jesus saw the truth: “You are dead.” Sardis receives no praise, only a piercing rebuke, making this one of the strongest warnings in Revelation 2–3. Yet even here, we find a call to hope: Wake up, repent, and return to life. As we discuss this passage together, let’s invite God to examine our hearts, awaken our spirits, and rekindle a passion for His mission in us and through us.

1) We can all fall into spiritual ruts—settling into rhythms that serve our comfort more than Christ's mission. After reflecting on this week’s message, where do you sense you may have grown complacent in your faith?

2) Read Revelation 3:1a. Jesus is actively involved in His Church—He holds it in His hand. Share a time when you saw Jesus working powerfully in our church and were reminded of His presence. 

3) Jesus mentions the Spirit in His message to Sardis. If the Holy Spirit were active and alive in a church, what signs would you expect to see in the lives of the believers and the church there in Sardis? (See Galatians 5:22–26)

4) Read Revelation 3:1b–3. Jesus tells the church to strengthen what remains. As a group, discuss the differences between a living church and a dead church. What stands out to you about the marks of a living church?

5) Read Revelation 3:3. Jesus calls us to remember what we’ve received and heard. How are you currently connecting with God through His Word? Where are you reading in your Bible right now?

6) Read Revelation 3:4–6. Even in Sardis, there were still faithful followers—there was still hope for the church to have an impact. What are some ways you would encourage our church to keep helping people find and follow Jesus?

7) Jesus promises that those who overcome will have their names written in the Lamb’s Book of Life. Read Philippians 4:3, Hebrews 12:23, Revelation 20:12, 15, and Revelation 21:27. What do these passages reveal about the Book of Life and its significance?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week. Pray Psalm 139:23-24 as a group. 

The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the churches in Revelation. The Roman Emperor Domitian tried to silence John by killing him, but when that failed, he exiled him to the island of Patmos. What Rome meant for isolation, God used for encouragement and revelation. Even in exile, Jesus showed up in power. Pergamum was a significant and influential city, the capital of Asia Minor for nearly 250 years and home to nearly 200,000 residents. It wasn’t just politically powerful, it was spiritually compromised. The people worshiped Caesar and many other false gods. As we study this church, let’s learn how to remain faithful in a compromising culture.

1) Compromise often feels like a shortcut to success or acceptance but it can cost us our integrity or spiritual health. Share a time when you compromised in some area of life. What were the results and what did you learn from this situation?

2) The city of Pergamum was a spiritually dark place with a demonic foothold (Read Revelation 2:12-13). Where do you see spiritual darkness or opposition to faith in  Jesus in our culture today? How should we respond?

3) Jesus encouraged the church to remain true to His name and not renounce their faith in difficult times (following the example of Antipas). What helps you stay faithful to Jesus in the face of pressure or compromise?

4) Read Revelation 2:14-16. Every church has its mistakes or shortcomings. What specific compromises did Jesus call out in Pergamum? How can we, as a church family, guard against those same dangers? What actions can we take today?

5) Jesus rebuked Pergamum for tolerating false teaching in the local church. Read Jude 3, 1 Timothy 4:16, and 2 Timothy 4:3–4. What are some ways we can stay grounded in sound doctrine and avoid being led astray?

6) Read Revelation 2:7, 11, 17. Each of the churches was urged to “hear what the Spirit says.” What helps you recognize and respond to God’s voice in your life? How have you grown in this as you’ve matured in your faith? 

7) Jesus promises the “hidden manna” to those who overcome. Read Isaiah 25:6, Luke 22:30, and Revelation 19:9. What do these passages reveal about the joy and intimacy of feasting with Christ?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

Skyline Trail Joggers by Outdoor Vitals

If you know me well I'm always on the hunt for new gear, that won't break the bank, is durable and functional. Add some bonus points if you show me gear from a rad company. 

I’ve been on the hunt for the perfect hiking pant for years; something lightweight, comfortable, and built to handle real trail conditions. I've tried all types of hiking pants: zip off at the knee, preowned to save a a couple bucks, and I even found a great pair at the REI garage sale one time. Every time though I felt like they were a little too big in the legs for my liking. 

Last year I found the Skyline Trail Joggers from Outdoor Vitals and they have become the only pants I've worn for hiking. I think I’ve finally found them; I think my quest to find the best hiking pants have concluded. 

This is the one pair of hiking pants I brought on the JMT last summer. It was so nice to hike in shorts during the warm summer days but if you've spent any time in the mountains you know those temps can drop at night. Each night it was great to slip into these pants after a long day of hiking. I choose to take these pants because I was able to test them at home before hand and it was an easy decision. 

These joggers have quickly become my favorite trail pants, and here’s why:

1. Ultra-Lightweight for Long Days on Trail

From the moment I put them on, I noticed how incredibly light these joggers feel. Even on warmer hikes, I stayed comfortable without overheating. They breathe well, pack down small, and are perfect for layering with other ultralight gear. Whether I was hiking wide paths, crossing streams, or navigating narrow singletrack in Harmon Canyon, they never weighed me down. 

For those, like me, who like to look at the weight of pants stick around. These joggers come in at a light 6.5oz. I think that is a big deal when you're considering add them them to your pack. They are super light but read the next reason they've become my favorite too. 

2. Surprisingly Durable

I’ve put in several miles with these pants, and several washes, and they’re holding up impressively well. No frayed stitching. No signs of wear. The knee articulation, the reinforced stitching, and the quality materials make me confident they’ll last for many seasons. Outdoor Vitals clearly knows how to blend lightweight design with long-term durability.

One morning I took them hiking on a nearby trail and it was very wet that morning (we live near the ocean). I was walking through brush and the pants handled it SO well. Not only that, they dried quickly. That was a big deal and you can see that quick YouTube short here. 

3. Trail-Tested Versatility

The Skyline Joggers easily adjust to changing trail conditions. On cool mornings, they provide coverage and warmth. As the sun comes out, they have great ventilation that allows for cooling on the warmer days. If you watch the video below you can see how Outdoor Vitals designed these to keep airflow going while keep you protected. Not only that, they have great elastic cuffs at the bottom to keep debris out of your pants while hiking. This is the style of pants I was looking for! 

4. Thoughtful Pocket Design

Let’s talk pockets. I think that pockets matter in pants. I like to put my hands in pockets. I like to carry my essentials in my pockets. I want to know if my hand will slide in easily or if it will take an excavator to get my hands in there. These pants pass the pocket test. 

These pants come with front hand pockets that are just right for your phone, chapstick, or a small knife. But my favorite feature is the zippered back pocket, which gives me peace of mind that my wallet or keys are secure on trail. It’s the kind of functional detail that really matters when you’re miles from the trailhead.

Final Thoughts

After wearing the Skyline Trail Joggers on multiple hikes, washing them, stretching them, and putting them through real-world trail conditions, I can honestly say these are the pants I’ll be reaching for all season long. Whether you’re backpacking through the Sierra or heading out for a local loop, these joggers check all the boxes.

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Small Group Questions | Revelation 2:8-11

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Suffering Church | Revelation 2:8-11

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. The book of Revelation was written by the Apostle John while he was exiled on the Island of Patmos. Most scholars date the letter around 95–96 AD, and it was written to real churches located in what is now modern-day Turkey. While many people associate Revelation with beasts, dragons, and the antichrist, the book begins with something far more personal: Jesus speaking to His Church. This week we study the letter to the church in Smyrna, a suffering church with no rebuke, only hope. Reflect on these questions and consider how Jesus encourages His people to remain faithful in the midst of suffering.

1) The church has always faced suffering and persecution (read Acts 12:1-4). Have you ever been in a situation where standing up for your faith made you uncomfortable or cost you something? What happened?

2) Read Revelation 1:12-16. John has an encounter with the risen Lord and shares with us all the details of what Jesus looks like. Reading at the vivid description of Jesus, what do we learn about our risen Lord and symbols surrounding Him? 

3) Read Revelation 1:17-18 and 2:8. Why do you think Jesus begins by reminding the church in Smyrna that He is "the First and the Last, who died and came to life again"? What does that say to a suffering church? How does that comfort them? 

4) Read Revelation 2:9-10. Jesus tells the church, “I know your affliction and your poverty—yet you are rich!” Too often we mistake what real wealth looks like. Jesus points us to spiritual richness. What does being spiritually rich look like to you? 

5) Neal shared that over 380 million Christians face high levels of persecution today (as of 2024). How does hearing those stats affect the way you think about your own faith or freedoms?

6) Read Revelation 2:11. Jesus tells the early church they will be victorious. What are some practices in our spiritual growth that help us stay connected to Jesus so we can experience this victory in Christ? 

7) Jesus tells the church not to be afraid of suffering and promises they will not be hurt by the second death. What fears are most common in your spiritual life? How can God’s promises strengthen us in those moments?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

The Loveless Church | Revelation 2:1-7

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Loveless Church | Revelation 2:1-7

Today we begin a brand-new sermon series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. The book of Revelation was written by the Apostle John while he was on the Island of Patmos. Most scholars think the letter was written about 95-96AD. The letter was written to real churches in Modern Day Turkey. Most people think of Revelation as: beasts, dragons, and the antichrist. That comes later, but first Jesus wants to address His church. Each church finds an encouragement, a rebuke, and a promise. Study these questions and look at what Jesus spoke to the church in Ephesus about their spiritual formation. 

1) In the beginning of the sermon Neal talked about being afraid to read the book of Revelation and that it took him years to finally read it. What three words would you use to describe how you feel (have felt) about the book of Revelation? 

2) Read Revelation 2:1-3. We read that Jesus saw the hard work and serving nature of the church. Read Matthew 5:16, Acts 2:42-47, and Galatians 5:13. What do these verse teach us about the heart behind serving others? How can we live this out? 

3) The church in Ephesus was encouraged for persevering in their faith. Read Hebrews 11:36-40. What does it look like for us, in the church in America, to persevere in our faith this week, month, and year? 

4) Next, Jesus moves to a rebuke for the church (read Revelation 2:4). What does it mean to lose our love for Christ? How can we recognize that drift early—and what helps us return to the “wild love” of God? 

5) Read Revelation 2:5-6. Jesus invites this church to consider how far they fell. As a group come up with a list of five to ten examples of people in the Bible who also fell from their faith. What, if anything, brought about their restoration? 

6) The church is instructed to repent and do the things they did at first. Share with your group when you felt like your faith was the strongest and most passionate. What did that time look like and how do you return to that type of faith? 

7) Read Revelation 2:7. The promise for the church in Ephesus is to hear the voice of the Spirit and eat from the tree of life. Read 1 Samuel 3:10, John 10:27, Romans 8:14, and Hebrews 3:7–8. What do these verses teach us about the power of hearing the voice of God in our daily life? 

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

Atonement | 2 Corinthians 5:21

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Atonement | 2 Corinthians 5:21

For the final week of our Solid Ground sermon series we looked at: Atonement. We can define Atonement as: The work Christ did in his life and death to earn our salvation. For eight weeks we’ve been talking about building our lives on Jesus as the foundation of our lives. In Matthew 7, Jesus taught what it looks like to build our homes on solid ground and not on sinking sand. Jesus used the illustration of a home as a metaphor for our spiritual lives. Today we’ll see how Jesus took our sins upon Him so we could be the righteousness of God. We’ll see that Jesus conquered death and that because He is alive we can have life in Him.

1) Pastor Neal started our sermon by talking about what Easter was like for him as a child. Think backing to your childhood, what are some of your favorite memories or special things you really enjoyed as a child on Easter? 

2) Read 2 Corinthians 5:21 and Ephesians 2:16. Paul taught the church about how Jesus became sin so we could become the righteousness of God. Discuss the power of Jesus reconciling us back to God. 

3) Jesus didn’t just remove what’s broken, He gave us something brand new and that is life in Him. Share with your group something that Jesus has made new in your life and how that makes life with Him so special. 

4) In Luke 24:1-12 we read about the Tomb being empty. The disciples came to examine the tomb and they find no evidence of Jesus being there. What evidence of Jesus has helped encourage your faith the most? 

5) Read John 3:16-16. The Scriptures teach us that Jesus came to bring us back into right relationship with God. Share about a time in your life when you vividly remember Jesus restoring your relationship with God. 

6) In Luke 24:13-35 we see two of the disciples are completely hopeless. They are so dejected they leave Jerusalem. Share about a time in your life when things didn’t go your way and it hurt your faith in God. 

7) On the road to Emmaus Jesus uses the Old Testament Scriptures to encourage the disciples in their faith. Read Psalm 119:11, 105, Hebrews 4:12 and 2 Timothy 3:16. Share about how reading God’s word has changed your life. 

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand glorification. 

Glorification | Philippians 3:20-21

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Glorification | Philippians 3:20-21

Today we’re in week six of an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. In Matthew 7 Jesus taught the listeners about the power of building their home on a solid foundation. This series is all about making sure our spiritual life is built on Jesus. Today we come to the doctrine of Glorification which causes us to think about heaven and what happens to our earthly bodies as we transition to our eternal home. Here’s a short definition of Glorification— when God completes His work in us. Making us fully like Jesus; perfect, eternal, and whole. Glorification gives us a hope for heaven but we also know there is suffering on this earth. 

1) Our sermon started with what we learn about heaven from the culture around us; it might be from cartoons or characters of God. When you were growing up what shaped your view of Heaven? How has that changed over time? 

2) Read Philippians 3:20-21. Paul taught the believers in Philippi that they are now citizens of heaven (see Ephesians 2:19, John 17:14-16, and Hebrews 11:13-16). What stands out to you about the idea that our citizenship is in heaven?

3) Paul taught the early church that our future glory changes how we live now. He pointed them to eternal thinking. What’s one area of your life that would look different if you truly lived with eternity in mind? How can begin living this out this week? 

4) Read Romans 8:17-18. We learned that we are adopted as children of God and heirs of God’s Kingdom. That means we have something to look forward to in eternity. How does being a child of God change how you live today? 

5) Paul and other New Testament writers teach us that our suffering plays a part in our hope for Heaven (read Romans 5:3–5, James 1:2–4, and Hebrews 12:10–11). Share with your group a story when you suffered and how it shaped you. 

6) In 1 Corinthians 15:42-44 we learned about four contrasting words that help us understand our heavenly bodies. Read this passage and talk about the four contrasting images Paul taught the early church. What do they mean for us?   

7) Jesus’ resurrected body gives us an example of what our resurrected bodies will look like. Read Luke 24:28-32 and John 20:26-27 and 21:4-9. What do these passages teach us about Jesus’ resurrected body? 

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand glorification. 

Regeneration | Titus 3:3-8

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Regeneration | Titus 3:3-8 

Today we’re in week three of our eight-week sermon series called Solid Ground. This series is all about building our lives on a firm spiritual foundation. What if true change wasn’t just about trying harder but about becoming completely new? This Sunday, we’re diving into the incredible truth of regeneration—how God doesn’t just improve us, He transforms us. Through the story of a rockstar’s radical faith and the journey of C.S. Lewis from atheism to belief, we’ll see how God takes even the most reluctant hearts and makes them new. Don’t miss this powerful message of hope, renewal, and the life-changing work of Christ in us. Join us and discover what it truly means to be made new!

1) The sermon started with the story of Brian Welch, a man whose life was radically changed by God. Think about your own journey, what was your life like before you encountered Christ? What changes have you seen since then?

2)Regeneration is completely a work of God. Read John 1:12-13 and Ezekiel 36:26. What do these passages teach us about being born again? Why is it important to understand that we play no active role in our own regeneration?

3) Before we experience regeneration, sin holds a powerful grip on our lives. Read Titus 3:3 and discuss how sin influences people’s thoughts, actions, choices and relationships. Where did sin once have control over your life?

4) In Titus 3:4-5 we learn that salvation comes not because of our righteousness but because of God’s kindness and mercy. How have you experienced God’s kindness in your life? How does His mercy change the way we view others?

5) Read Titus 3:5-6, John 3:5-8, and 1 Peter 1:3. What do these passages say about the role of Jesus and the Holy Spirit in our regeneration? How can we be more aware of the Spirit’s work in our daily lives? 

6) Regeneration isn’t just about forgiveness, it’s about becoming a completely new person in Christ. Read 2 Corinthians 5:17. What does it mean to live as a new creation? What are some practical ways we can reflect this transformation in our everyday lives?

7) C.S. Lewis, once an atheist, was transformed by Christ and became a powerful advocate for the gospel. Who in your life needs to hear about the power of regeneration? Take a moment to pray for them and discuss how you can share your faith with them this week.

Close your time in prayer, thanking God for His transformative power in your lives. 

 

The Trinity | Genesis 1:1-3

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | The Trinity | Genesis 1:1-3 

Today we’re in week two of our eight-week sermon series called Solid Ground. This series is all about building our lives on a firm spiritual foundation. Our theme verse comes from Matthew 7, where Jesus teaches us to build our lives on the rock instead of the shifting sand. We live in a world filled with all kinds of ideas about God; some rooted in truth and others way off base. One of the most important doctrines of the Christian faith is the Trinity. The Trinity is the belief that God exists as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. For some, this may be familiar, while for others, it feels like a confusing mystery. Take some time today to walk through the questions on the Trinity with your group. 

1) The sermon started explaining topics of conversation we are good at having vs. areas we know little about. As we approach the Trinity, quickly have your group share their confidence in being able to describe the Trinity.

2) The concept of the Trinity is present throughout Scripture but “The Trinity”, in written form like this, is never mentioned in Scripture. Read these passages and talk about the Trinity: Genesis 1:1-3, 26-27, Isaiah 6:8, and Matthew 28:18-20. 

3) We looked at Four words to help us understand the Trinity: One— There is only one God, Three— This one God exists as three persons, Diversity— Each person of the Trinity is distinct and Unity— The Trinity functions in perfect harmony. What part of this was most helpful to you? 

4) The Trinity is hard to explain and Christians have used human examples like: the egg, the shamrock, and water. Have you heard any other illustrations that would be helpful in explaining the Trinity to someone? 

5) All throughout the New Testament we see the unity of the Trinity. Read Matthew 3:16–17, John 14:16–17, 2 Corinthians 13:14, and Ephesians 2:18. How do these verses help us see the unity in the Trinity? 

6) In our Christian faith the Trinity matters. Read Romans 5:5–6, Galatians 4:4–6, Ephesians 3:14–19, and 1 John 4:13–14. Discuss how these verses show God expresses His great love to us. What stands out to you? 

7) Part of being loved by God is loving others. Come up with a list of five potential ways you can personally show the love of God to others this week. Next have everyone in your group one way they be intentional to work on this week.  

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand His triune nature. 

Love Your Kids | Ephesians 6:1-4

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love Your Kids | Ephesians 6:1-4

This month, we’re dedicating our time to exploring Biblical love. On Sunday, we talked  about the role of love in parenting: a calling that requires patience, guidance, and grace. In Ephesians 6:1-4, Paul teaches that parenting is about both instruction and nurture, balancing discipline with encouragement. Just as God lovingly leads us, parents are called to lead their children with wisdom, consistency, and a heart that reflects Christ’s love. Parenting can look different for everyone. Our church includes people in various stages of life: parents, grandparents, future parents, and those who support families. As you discuss, please be mindful and sensitive to each person’s experiences.

1) What is one moment from your childhood when you felt deeply loved by a parent or guardian? What specifically made you feel loved? How can we apply those principles in our own parenting or relationships? 

2) Read Ephesians 6:1-3. Paul connects obedience to parents with enjoying long life.  Thinking about your relationship with your parents, how have you seen obedience their instruction in your life lead to blessings in your life?

3) The New Testament offers us a variety of examples of parenting. Read Matthew 3:16-17. At the baptism of Jesus we read about an affirming time for Jesus. Talk about the power of encouraging our children. 

4) Read Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21. Paul warns fathers not to exasperate their children. What are some ways that parents (or authority figures) can unintentionally discourage or embitter children?

5) In the sermon we learned about three ways to ruin a child: Being Overbearing, Being Permissive, or Being Inconsistent. How does your parenting impact your children? Have you modeled a consistent parenting style?

6) Read Deut 6:4-9. Moses instructed God’s people to impress these commandments on their children. What are ways we can enter into spiritual conversations this week? What one thing do you want to focus on this week? 

7) In Matthew 17:14-20 we learned about a father who was willing to do anything for his son and desperate for life change. What is one way you can bring your children to the feet of Jesus this week to be in His presence? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus.