Small Group Questions | Flip the Script | Matthew 5:38-48

This Fall Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Sermon on the Mount. The Sermon on the Mount was preached by Jesus to the disciples and a larger crowd of people. If you have a physical Bible, I want you to notice that every word we’ll be studying for the next couple of months is red. The Sermon on the Mount is found in Matthew chapters 5-7. It is arguably the most famous sermon ever preached. It wasn’t filmed but preached in a way the crowd could understand, retain, and apply it to their lives. Jesus preached this sermon on the North Shore of the Sea of Galilee in the region where His public ministry began. It’s called the Sermon on the Mount because it was preached on the side of the hill here. 

Small Group Questions | Flip the Script | Matthew 5:38-48

In Matthew 5:38–48, Jesus challenges the natural human instinct to retaliate, keep score, and love only those who love us. Instead, He calls His followers to respond differently; to refuse retaliation, love unexpected people, pray for those who oppose us, and increasingly reflect the character of our heavenly Father. This kind of love is not weakness; it is a deliberate choice to break the cycle of anger, revenge, and relational damage. Jesus invites us to “flip the script” by responding to hostility with grace, generosity, mercy, and love. As we study this passage together, consider where God may be inviting you to respond differently in a difficult relationship.

1) The sermon began with an exaggerated picture of revenge and retaliation. Where do you see the same cycle of “you hurt me, so I hurt you” playing out in everyday culture or relationships? Why is retaliation such a natural response for us?

2) Read Matthew 5:38–42 and Leviticus 24:17–22. The Old Testament principle of “eye for eye” was intended to limit retaliation rather than encourage revenge. How does understanding that background change the way you hear Jesus’ words?

3) Read Romans 12:17–21. Paul says, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” What does it look like practically to break the cycle of retaliation without ignoring wrongdoing or pretending that hurt does not matter?

4) Read Matthew 5:43–47 and Luke 6:27–36. Jesus commands His followers to love their enemies and pray for those who mistreat them. Why do you think prayer is such an important part of loving someone who is difficult to love?

5) Jesus points out that almost everyone loves people who love them back. What kinds of people are easiest for you to love? What kinds of people are more difficult? What might “unexpected love” look like toward someone in that second category?

6) Read Matthew 5:45–48 and Ephesians 5:1–2. Jesus points to the Father's generosity toward both the righteous and unrighteous. What does it mean for followers of Jesus to increasingly reflect the character of their heavenly Father?

7) Read Matthew 5:5, 7, and 9, 22:37-40, and John 13:34-35. How do Jesus’ teachings about being meek, merciful, and a peacemaker connect with His teaching here about retaliation and loving enemies? Which of these Beatitudes feels most challenging for you right now?

8) Close your time praying for strength to flip the script and love others.

Small Group Questions | Kingdom Character | Matthew 5:31-37

This Fall Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Sermon on the Mount. The Sermon on the Mount was preached by Jesus to the disciples and a larger crowd of people. If you have a physical Bible, I want you to notice that every word we’ll be studying for the next couple of months is red. The Sermon on the Mount is found in Matthew chapters 5-7. It is arguably the most famous sermon ever preached. It wasn’t filmed but preached in a way the crowd could understand, retain, and apply it to their lives. Jesus preached this sermon on the North Shore of the Sea of Galilee in the region where His public ministry began. It’s called the Sermon on the Mount because it was preached on the side of the hill here. 

Small Group Questions | Kingdom Character | Matthew 5:31-37

In Matthew 5:31–37, Jesus connects the covenant promises of marriage with the ordinary commitments we make every day. Marriage demonstrates the weight our words can carry, but Jesus does not allow integrity to remain at the wedding altar. He brings it into our homes, friendships, workplaces, and every conversation we have. Rather than searching for technical loopholes or relying on exaggerated promises to make our words believable, Kingdom people are called to speak truthfully, honor their commitments, and become people whose simple “yes” or “no” can be trusted. We will not always do this perfectly, but our hope rests in Jesus, the faithful One.

1) The sermon began with Neal talking about making pinky promises as a child. Did you ever use a pinky promise to convince someone that you were serious? Talk about how we use language to convince people we are committed to something. 

2) Read Matthew 5:31–32, Deuteronomy 24:1–4 and Matthew 19:3–9. What distinction does Jesus make between what Moses permitted because of hard hearts and God’s original intention for marriage? 

3) Read Ephesians 5:21–33. What does the relationship between Christ and the Church teach us about covenant faithfulness in marriage? How can Coastline, no matter our relational status, help honor marriage and support healthy relationships?

4) Read Matthew 5:33–36. Jesus mentions heaven, earth, Jerusalem, and even a person’s head. What is He teaching about God’s presence and ownership over every part of life? What modern verbal loopholes do people use to avoid responsibility for their words?

5) The Old Testament teaches us about teach us about vows and commitments. Read: Leviticus 19:12, Numbers 30:2, and Ecclesiastes 5:4–6. Why is it important to think carefully before giving someone our word?

6) Excitement, pressure, fear of disappointing others, and people-pleasing can cause us to say yes too quickly. What makes it difficult for you to set boundaries or make wise commitments? What could help you pause before answering?

7) Read Read Matthew 5:37 and James 5:12. What does it mean to let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no? What would change in our families, friendships, workplaces, and church if people could consistently trust our words?

Close your time praying for wisdom to live the life Jesus invites us to!

Small Group Questions | Inside Out | Matthew 5:21-32

This Fall Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Sermon on the Mount. The Sermon on the Mount was preached by Jesus to the disciples and a larger crowd of people. If you have a physical Bible, I want you to notice that every word we’ll be studying for the next couple of months is red. The Sermon on the Mount is found in Matthew chapters 5-7. It is arguably the most famous sermon ever preached. It wasn’t filmed but preached in a way the crowd could understand, retain, and apply it to their lives. Jesus preached this sermon on the North Shore of the Sea of Galilee in the region where His public ministry began. It’s called the Sermon on the Mount because it was preached on the side of the hill here. 

Small Group Questions | Inside Out | Matthew 5:21-32

In Matthew 5:21–32, Jesus moves beyond outward behavior to expose what is happening inside the human heart. He addresses anger, lust, adultery, and divorce, not to shame broken people, but to show us the kind of healing and transformation His Kingdom brings. Jesus calls His followers to pursue reconciliation, practice integrity, and honor covenant relationships. These topics may touch deeply personal experiences, so approach the conversation with humility, confidentiality, and grace. No one should feel pressured to share more than they are comfortable sharing. As you talk, remember the big idea from Sunday: Kingdom life begins in the heart and reshapes every relationship.

1) The sermon began with the damage termites can cause behind the walls of a home. Why can relational or spiritual problems remain hidden for so long? Share about a time when hidden damage ended up causing more pain in your life. 

2) Read Matthew 5:21–26 and Ephesians 4:26–32. Jesus connects anger, contempt, and broken relationships to the condition of our hearts. What can happen when resentment, bitterness, and anger is left unresolved?

3) Read Romans 12:17–21. What does it mean to pursue peace “as far as it depends on you”? How are forgiveness, reconciliation, and restored trust different? Is there a relationship where God may be asking you to take a faithful step toward peace? 

4) Read Matthew 5:27–30 and Job 31:1. Jesus teaches that sexual sin begins before a physical act takes place. How does lust reduce another person from someone made in God’s image to someone we consume or use?

5) Read 1 Corinthians 6:18–20 and 2 Timothy 2:22. What boundaries, habits, relationships, or forms of accountability can help us pursue integrity? Where might you need to “cut off access” to something that is damaging your heart?

6) Read Matthew 5:31–32 and Genesis 2:18–24. How does God’s design for marriage differ from a view of marriage based primarily on personal convenience or temporary happiness? What do these passages teach us about covenant commitment?

7) Read Galatians 6:1–2, Romans 8:1, and Psalm 82:3–4. What would it look like for our church to honor God’s design for marriage while also becoming a place of grace and healing for people who have experienced abandonment, adultery,  or divorce?

Close your time praying for the strength to seek the Lord this week. 

Small Group Questions | Come to the Waters | Isaiah 55

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Come to the Waters | Isaiah 55

One of the central themes of Isaiah 55 is spiritual thirst. God invites weary and thirsty people to come to Him and receive what only He can provide. The passage reminds us that many of us spend our lives chasing things that never truly satisfy: success, entertainment, comfort, approval, busyness, or temporary pleasures. While God freely offers grace, joy, peace, and life in His presence. This week’s message challenged us to evaluate what we are feeding our souls with and to intentionally seek the Encourage one another, pray for one another, and remember that God is not inviting perfect people to Himself, He is inviting thirsty people to come and be satisfied in Him.

1) The sermon opened with a story about the difference between consuming clean water and dirty water. What are some “dirty water” substitutes people go to instead of seeking the satisfying water God offers us? 

2) Read Isaiah 55:1-2. God invites everyone to come to Him and find spiritual satisfaction in His name. This gif of a meal is grace from God. When have you experienced God’s grace in His loving kindness in your life? (see Ephesians 2:8-10)

3) Read Isaiah Isaiah 55:3-5. We live in a time period where we try to sustain ourselves with things that don’t really satisfy us. Where have you fallen into this trap of pursuing things that don’t satisfy? (see: Luke 12:15 and 1 John 2:15-17)

4) Isaiah 55:6 says, “Seek the Lord while He may be found.” What does it look like to actively pursue God in everyday life?

5) Read Isaiah 55:6-9. Neal talked about Four ways to seek God: (1) We confess our sin before God. (2) We spend time in God’s Word. (3) We communicate with God through prayer. (4) We pursue Christian community. What one of these do you want to practice more this week, month, or year?

6) Read Isaiah 55:10-11. Here at Coastline we love the Bible. How have you seen God use His Word to change someone’s life, including your own? (read Hebrews 4:12, Romans 10:17, and 2 Timothy 3:16–17) 

7) Read Isaiah 55:12-13. The passage ends with peace, joy, and God’s renown.  Where have you personally experienced God bringing peace or transformation into your life? (read 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 5:22–23, and Romans 15:13).

Close your time praying for the strength to seek the Lord this week. 

Small Group Questions | The Obedient Servant | Isaiah 50

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Obedient Servant | Isaiah 50

Isaiah 50 gives us a powerful picture of the Servant of the Lord; one who listens to God, obeys Him fully, suffers faithfully, and trusts Him completely. As we read this passage through the lens of the New Testament, we clearly see Jesus as that Servant. Where Israel failed in disobedience, Jesus remained perfectly obedient, even to the point of death on the cross. This passage not only shows us who Jesus is, but also invites us to consider how we respond to Him. As you discuss these questions, be candid about where you are in your faith journey and open to what God might be showing you. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s growing in trust & obedience to the One who obeyed perfectly.

1) Neal opened the sermon with an illustration about The Sixth Sense and the plot twist in the movie. Share a moment where something suddenly “clicked” and changed how you understood everything (like a movie twist)? What was it?

2) Read Isaiah 50:4-6. Isaiah writes about the Obedient Servant, who we clearly see as Jesus, obeying God’s commands. Does obedience come natural to you or is that personal struggle? (see John 5:19, Philippians 2:5–8, and Hebrews 5:8)

3) Read Isaiah 50:1-3. Jesus was obedient to God the Father while Israel struggled with obedience to the Lord. Where do you struggle in obeying God? (see Romans 5:18–19, 1 Corinthians 15:22, and Deuteronomy 9:6–7)

4) Thinking more about obedience can you share a time in your life where you were obedient to God. How did that work out for you? On the other hand, is there a place you’re currently struggling with obeying God’s commands? 

5) Read Isaiah 50:7–9. Most people avoid suffering at all costs but Jesus choose to suffer so we could have life to the full in Him. What does this passage teach us about Jesus enduring suffering to secure our salvation? (see 1 Peter 2:21–23, Hebrews 12:2–3, and Psalm 16:8–11)

6) Read Isaiah 50:10. Some people are afraid of God and choose to keep their distance. What does it mean to fear the Lord and to have a healthy reverence for His holy name? (see Proverbs 1:7 and Psalm 34:8–9)

7) Read Isaiah 50:11. God’s people were disobedient to the Lord and tired to light their own path instead of walking in the light of God. What’s the difference between walking in God’s light and “lighting your own fire” (see Psalm 119:11 and John 8:12). 

Close your time in prayer asking God to show you how to live an obedient life. 

Small Group Questions | Behold, I Am Doing a New Thing | Isaiah 43

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Behold, I Am Doing a New Thing| Isaiah 43 

Isaiah 43 reminds us that God is faithful even in seasons where life feels uncertain, painful, or overwhelming. In this passage, God speaks hope to fearful people by reminding them that He created them, redeemed them, and still has a future for them. One of the major tensions in this chapter is learning to remember God’s faithfulness in the past without becoming trapped living in the past. God calls His people to trust Him again and to recognize the “new thing” He is doing in their lives. As your group meets this week, take time to encourage one another, reflect honestly about areas of fear or discouragement, and celebrate the ways God has been faithful.

1) The sermon started with a story about Jim and Elisabeth Elliot who served God in Ecuador. Jim was martyred by the very people he came to share Jesus with. The pain was real, deep, and overwhelming. When you have walked through pain? 

2) In Isaiah 43:1-7. God emphasized He created and formed His people. What stands out to you most about the way God speaks to His people in these verses? (see Deuteronomy 31:6, Psalm 139:13–16, and Romans 8:38–39)

3) In Isaiah 40:10. One of the most spoken phrases from God to mankind is a version of: “Do not be afraid.” What are a couple things Israel was afraid of when they read this? What are you afraid of today? (see Joshua 1:9 and John 14:27)

4) Read Isaiah 43:8-13. What does this section teach us about God compared to false idols or misplaced trust? What are some modern things people trust in instead of God? (read Psalm 20:7, Jeremiah 17:5–8, and Matthew 6:19–21)

5) In Isaiah 43:10–12, God calls His people to be His witnesses. Who has been a strong witness for Christ in your life, and what made their faith impactful to you?

6) Read Isaiah 43:14–21. God said He would do a new thing in the life of His people.  What are some things that hinder us from Spiritual Growth and experiencing this new thing God wants to do? What traps people into a life where they rarely experience this new thing? (see Romans 8:1 and 2 Corinthians 5:17)

7) Where do you personally sense God may be inviting you to trust Him more right now? Is there a “new thing” God may be doing in your life, relationships, faith, or calling? (see Galatians 5:1, Ephesians 4:22–24, and Psalm 40:1–3)

Close your time praying for God to do a new thing in your life, your group, our church, our community, our state and our world. 

Small Group Questions | God’s Servant | Isaiah 42:1-9

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | God’s Servant | Isaiah 42:1-9

In Isaiah 42 we are introduced to God’s Servant. He comes into a broken world to bring truth, justice, and salvation. He is not loud or forceful. He is gentle and faithful. He does not crush the weak. He restores them. This passage points us to Jesus, the One who brings light into darkness and life to those who trust Him. As you discuss the questions below, take time to reflect on where you need Jesus to meet you. Where do you need His truth? Where do you need His light? Who in your life needs to hear about Him? Ask God to help you trust Him more, turn from anything that competes for your heart, and walk in the freedom He offers.

1) John Perkins dedicated his life to fighting injustice and helping people experience healing in the Gospel in spite of his personal experience. When you hear the word justice, what comes to mind and where have you seen injustice in our world? 

2) Read Isaiah 42:1-4. God is pleased with His servant and teaches us about the character and nature of Jesus. What characteristic of Jesus stands out most to you in these verses? (see Matthew 12:18–21, Philippians 2:5–8  and John 13:3–5)

3) Verse three teaches us about the gentle nature of Jesus. Think back to a time in your life where you personally experienced the gentleness of Jesus. How did that impact you? (see: Psalm 34:18, Matthew 11:28–30, and Hebrews 4:15–16) 

4) Read Isaiah 42:5. This verse teaches us about what God accomplished in creation. When you look at creation where do you see at work? We never want to worship creation but we do worship God as creator. 

5) Read Isaiah 42:6-7. What does it mean that Jesus is “a light for the Gentiles”? Why is it important that the gospel is for all people, not just a select group? (see Acts 13:47, Luke 2:30–32, and Genesis 12:3) 

6) Isaiah describes people as blind, captive, and in darkness. Where do you see those realities in the world today? How has Jesus brought you from darkness into light?(see Colossians 1:13–14, John 1:4–5, and Ephesians 5:8)

7) Read Isaiah 42:8-9. What are some modern-day “idols” people turn to instead of God (success, comfort, control, approval, etc.)? What do you personally tend to run to when life gets hard? Exodus 20:3–4, Romans 1:21–25, and 1 John 5:21)

Close your time in prayer asking God show you how to trust Him fully. 

Small Group Questions | Wait on the Lord | Isaiah 40:25–31

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Wait on the Lord | Isaiah 40:25–31

Isaiah 40:25–31 reminds us that life with God is not about relying on our own strength but learning to place our hope in the Lord. In this passage, Isaiah speaks to weary people who felt exhausted, discouraged, and uncertain about the future. God responds by reminding His people of His greatness, holiness, and everlasting power. While human strength eventually fades, God never grows weary and He promises renewed strength to those who trust Him. This passage also reminds us that much of the Christian life is not lived in dramatic moments of “soaring,” but in everyday faithfulness as we continue walking with the Lord. As you discuss these questions, be honest about where you feel tired, discouraged, or tempted to rely on yourself instead of God.

1) The sermon started by sharing about Natalie Grabow completing the Ironman World Championship at 80 years old. What is something you’ve done (physically, spiritually, relationally, etc.) that required endurance or perseverance?

2) Read Isaiah 40:25–26. Why do you think God begins this section by reminding His people of His greatness and holiness? How does remembering who God is help us when life feels overwhelming? (see: Psalm 19:1, 147:4–5, and Job 38:31–33)

3) In Isaiah 40:12-24 we read about the Holiness of God: vv. 12-14: God’s power and wisdom, vv. 15-17: God’s greatness, vv. 18-20: One True God, vv. 21-24: God’s supremacy. What part of God’s holiness stands out to you the most right now? 

4) Read Isaiah 40:27–28. Israel complained that God had forgotten them. Have you ever gone through a season where you felt unseen, forgotten, or weary? What truths from this passage encourage you? (see: Psalm 121:1–4, Deuteronomy 31:6, and Hebrews 13:5)

5) The sermon emphasized that “God never grows weary.” Why is that truth so important for weary people to remember? How is God different from us in His strength, wisdom, and endurance? (read: Malachi 3:6, and James 1:17) 

6) Read Isaiah 40:29–31. What do you think it practically means to “hope” or “wait” on the Lord? How is Biblical waiting different from passivity?

7) Which of the four promises from the sermon stands out to you most right now? God renews weary people, God lifts us above despair, God gives endurance for the journey, God sustains us for everyday faithfulness.

Close your time in prayer asking God to exchange exhaustion for endurance. 

Small Group Questions | Leaving a Lasting Legacy | Isaiah 39

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Leaving a Lasting Legacy | Isaiah 39

In Isaiah 39, we see a powerful and sobering moment in the life of King Hezekiah. This is a man who trusted God in crisis, experienced God’s healing, and led well but he dropped his guard. Instead of pointing others to God, he began to build his own story. His choices didn’t destroy everything immediately, but they set a trajectory that impacted the next generation. This passage reminds us that it’s not just how we start that matters, it’s how we finish. Pride can subtly shift our focus from God to ourselves, while trust in God leads to a legacy that lasts. As your group discusses the following questions be honest about where pride can sneak in and what legacy means for you. 

1) Neal opened the sermon with a story about recently speaking at a Celebration of Life. When people talk about your life one day, what do you hope they will say about your faith and impact on others?

2) Read Isaiah 38:1-8. Hezekiah comes face to face with the end of his life and cries out to God. Read Genesis 18:22–33, 1 Samuel 1:10–11, and Jonah 4:2–3. Where are you tempted to barter with God on certain things in your life? 

3) Read Isaiah 38:17. Hezekiah’s suffering brought about a change in perspective in his life. Read 2 Timothy 3:12, Philippians 1:29, and 1 Peter 4:12–13. How has suffering invited you closer to God and helped you grow in your faith? 

4) Read Isaiah 39. Hezekiah missed an opportunity to share the goodness of God with the Babylonian envoy. Can you think of a time in your life where you missed an opportunity to talk about the greatness of God and what did you learn from that? 

5) Read Deuteronomy 6:4-9. God’s word teaches us to start investing in others who are closest to us. Read Psalm 78:4-8, 1 Kings 1:6, and Proverbs 22:6. Who are the people God has already placed in your life that you can begin investing in spiritually?

6) Read Matthew 28:18-20. Jesus calls us to “go and make disciples”. What has held you back from doing this more intentionally? What would it look like for you to take one step forward this week?

7) Read 2 Timothy 2:2. Paul shows us a vision for passing faith from one person to another. Paul was intentional in his life to invest in others for the advancement of the Kingdom. What would it look like for your faith to multiply beyond just you?

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you leave a Godly legacy. 

Small Group Questions | Trust in God Alone | Isaiah 36-37

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Trust in God Alone | Isaiah 36-37

In Isaiah 36–37, we see God’s people facing intense pressure, fear, and uncertainty. A powerful enemy stands before them, using intimidation and lies to shake their confidence in God. In many ways, this mirrors our own lives where voices of fear, doubt, and uncertainty can feel loud and overwhelming. King Hezekiah had a choice: trust in his own strength or run to God. Instead of giving in to fear, he brought his concerns directly to the Lord in prayer. This passage reminds us that when life feels unstable, God invites us to come to Him; not with polished words, but with honest dependence. Study this passage as a group and talk about what it looks like to trust God fully. 

1) When you think back to your childhood, did you ever encounter someone who tried to intimidate or pressure others (like a “bully”)? How did people typically respond?

2) Read Isaiah 36:1-10. The Assyrian Field Commander, Rabshakeh, tries to install fear into the lives of God’s people. When you read this passage what tactics did he use to intimate God’s people? (see Genesis 3:1-5 and John 8:44

3) What are some voices in your life that try to install fear into your life? When do you find those voices to be the loudest and how have you been able to hear the voice of the Lord over those intimating voices? 

4) Read Isaiah 37:1–7. What stands out to you about how Hezekiah responds when faced with fear? How is his response different from how we typically react under pressure? (see Joshua 1:9, Psalm 34:4, and Philippians 4:6-7). 

5) Hezekiah not only goes to the temple but also seeks out Isaiah. Why is it important to involve others when we’re struggling? Who are the people in your life you can go to when things feel overwhelming? (see Hebrews 10:24-25 and Galatians 6:2). 

6) Read Isaiah 37:14-20. Hezekiah prays in three parts: recognizing God’s greatness, sharing his problem, and asking for help. How might your prayer life change if you followed this pattern of prayer? (see Psalm 5:3, 20:7, and 62:8)

7) God ultimately delivers His people in Isaiah 37. What is one area of your life right now where you need to stop trying to control the situation and instead run to God? What would that look like practically this week?

Close your time in prayer asking God to show you how to live an obedient life. 

Small Group Questions | The Coming King | Isaiah 7-11

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Coming King | Isaiah 7-11

In Isaiah 7–11 we see a fearful nation, a king who fails to trust God, and a powerful promise from God to send a better King. Through these chapters, Isaiah points God’s people beyond political fear, spiritual darkness, and human weakness to the coming Messiah. Jesus would be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace. This passage reminds us that when earthly leaders fail and life feels uncertain, our hope is found in Jesus alone. As you discuss the questions below, share honestly on where you are tempted to place your trust, how Christ meets you in your fears, and what it means to live each day under the True King.

1) Neal started the sermon by sharing a gardening experience that surprised him when a plant came back, something he thought was dead was really still alive. Share a time in your life where God surprised you in your faith journey. 

2) Read Isaiah 7:1-4. King Ahaz trusted political alliances instead of trusting in God which resulted in a fearful nation. What are some modern equivalents to trusting in the king instead of trusting in God? (Joshua 1:9, Psalm 20:7 and Jeremiah 17:5–8).

3) Read Isaiah 7:14 and Matthew 1:22–23. The prophecy of the Virgin Birth points us to Jesus the: “Immanuel—God with us”. How does this truth change the way we view God and go about our daily lives? (see John 1:14 and Hebrews 4:14–16)

4) Read Isaiah 9:2. Isaiah describes a people who were walking in darkness and saw a great light. What kind of darkness do people, in the church and outside the church, experience today? (see John 8:12, Ephesians 5:8–9, and 1 Peter 2:9)

5) Read Isaiah 9:6. Isaiah gives four titles for the Coming King. Which title of Jesus do you most need right now: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, or Prince of Peace? Why? (see Colossians 2:3, John 14:27, and Hebrews 13:8)

6) Read Isaiah 11:1. The “stump of Jesse” shows that God brings life from what looks dead. Share with your group where you see Jesus doing a new thing in your life right now and how that spiritual formation is taking place (see Isaiah 43:19). 

7) Read Isaiah 11:2-3. Isaiah describes the Spirit resting on the coming King. How did Jesus demonstrate these qualities: wisdom, counsel, knowledge, and the fear of the Lord during His ministry? Find verses in the New Testament to support your claim. 

Close your time in prayer asking God show you how to trust Him fully. 

Small Group Questions | Holy, Holy, Holy | Isaiah 6:1-13

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Holy, Holy, Holy | Isaiah 6:1-13

In Isaiah 6 we see a powerful moment in the life of Isaiah. When he encounters the holiness of God, while serving in the Temple, everything changes. Isaiah becomes aware of his own sin, receives cleansing from the Lord, and then willingly offers himself to serve God’s mission. This passage reminds us that our view of God shapes the way we see ourselves and the way we live our lives. When we see God rightly, we offer ourselves fully. As you discuss the questions below, take time to reflect on how Isaiah’s experience connects with your own journey of faith. Ask God to help you see Him more clearly and to respond with humility, gratitude, and willingness to serve.

1) Neal shared a story about volunteering to help coach his son’s baseball team that led to years of coaching baseball. Share about a time you volunteered to help with your kids, community, or church. How did that serving role go for you? 

2) Read Isaiah 6:1-4. Isaiah’s encounter with God begins in a moment of uncertainty for Israel. How do times of uncertainty or transition in life sometimes make us more aware of our need for God? (read Psalm 46:1–3 and Hebrews 12:28)

3) Isaiah had a unique encounter with the Lord. What stands out to you about Isaiah’s description of God’s throne room, the song singing “Holy, Holy, Holy” and the shaking of the temple? (read Exodus 15:11, Psalm 99:1–3, and Revelation 4:8)

4) Read Isaiah 6:5. Isaiah’s immediate reaction to the holiness of God is, “Woe is me!”. Why do you think encountering God’s holiness makes Isaiah aware of his sin and how have you seen this to be true in your life? (Luke 5:8–11 and Job 42:5–6)

5) Isaiah confesses that he has “unclean lips” and lives among people with unclean lips. Why is confession an important part of our relationship with God? Did this sermon prompt you to confess something hidden in your life to God? 

6) Read Isaiah 6:6-8. Notice that God takes the initiative to cleanse Isaiah and prepare him for ministry. What does this teach us about God’s grace and forgiveness that we see in our lives? (see Hebrews 9:13–14, Ephesians 1:7 and Titus 3:5–7)

7) Read Isaiah 6:9-11. God invites Isaiah to ministry and he volunteered for the role. In the sermon we talked about how God calls people to serve Him in everyday places: our neighborhoods, workplaces, and communities. Where has God placed you right now to be a witness for Him?

Close your time in prayer asking God show you how to serve Him. 

Small Group Questions | The Heart of God | Isaiah 1:1-20

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Heart of God | Isaiah 1:1-20

The book starts by highlight the rebellion of Israel. We know this book was written by Isaiah because his name is right there in the first sentence. Isaiah means: salvation of the Lord. And this is a key theme in the book of Isaiah. Israel has spurred the ‘Holy One of Israel.’ This is Isaiah’s favor title for God in the book. Isaiah was called to ministry in 739 B.C. the year King Uzziah died. We’ll see that spelled out next week in Chapter 6. He ministered through the reign of several different kings. He preached during the rise of the Assyrian Empire while God’s people continued to drift away from Him. Isaiah had a ministry that spanned a 50 year time period before he died.

1) Neal shared a story about a couple who was married and everything looked great on the outside but internally the marriage was loveless. Share about a time in your walk with Christ when things looked good on the outside but the inside was empty. 

2) Read Isaiah 1:2-4. God calls Israel His “children” but they have abandoned their father. What does this teach us about our relationship with God and how sin impacts that relationship? (see Luke 15:11–24 and Ephesians 4:30)

3) Read Isaiah 1:5-9. Israel experienced the consequences of their sin in the result of pain in their bodies and desolation in their country. What are some of the effects of sin that we see play out in our daily lives? 

4) Read Isaiah 1:10-15. God is sick and tired of heartless worship and longs for His people to return to worship Him. Discuss the difference between religious activity and relational obedience. (read Matthew 15:8-9 and 1 Samuel 15:22).

5) Where is it easiest for you to “go through the motions” spiritually? (see Revelation 2:4–5, Psalm 51:16–17 and John 4:23–24). What helps you move from going through the motions to a heart dedicated to the Lord? 

6)Read Isaiah 1:16-17. God gives very practical commands (defend the oppressed, care for the fatherless, plead for the widow.). Why do you think justice and worship are connected? How can our small group live this passage out in the next month? 

7) Read Isaiah 1:18-20. God says: “If you are willing…” What does willingness look like in your life right now? Is there any area of your life that looks religious on the outside but distant on the inside?

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you have a heart for Him. 

Small Group Questions | The Giving Life | Malachi 3:6-12

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Giving Life | Malachi 3:6-12

The good life is not something we stumble into by accident, it is formed as we learn to grow into the disciples Jesus has invited us to be. In the Old Testament God’s people had robbed Him of the tithes and offerings. The Temple was rebuilt in Israel but it paled in comparison to its former glory. The priesthood was corrupt, tithing was neglected, and widespread social injustice plagued Israel. Malachi speaks on behalf of God, inviting God’s people to worship Him again. Malachi invited God’s people to think about God’s faithfulness in their lives. This same invitation is extended to us today as we study these questions and remember God’s faithfulness in our lives even when we fail God. 

1) Every one of us has bills to pay and financial obligations to meet. Paying bills might be one of the most stressful things some people have to do. What emotions come up for you when you think about spending or giving money?  

2) Read Malachi 3:6–7. God reminds the Nation of Israel of His unchanging character. Why is God’s unchanging character important when we talk about generosity? (see Lamentations 3:22–23, Hebrews 13:8, and James 1:17). 

3) God invites His people to return to Him and in return He will return to them. There are many circumstances why someone would walk away from the Lord, what are the main reasons we see people come back to the Lord? 

4) Read Malachi 3:8-9. Malachi says that God’s people were robbing God. Read Haggai 1:4–9, Matthew 23:23, and Luke 21:1-4. What do you think God was really confronting in the hearts of His people and in our hearts as well? 

5) In the sermon we learned that the practice of tithing has four benefits to our walk with the Lord: Tithing forms me into a disciple who trusts and obeys Jesus, Tithing protects my heart from turning money into an idol, Tithing strengthens my relationship with God as Provider, Tithing partners us with God’s mission through the local church. What one was most impactful to you and why? 

6) Read Malachi 3:10-12. God told His people to test Him with their tithes & offerings. What does that reveal about His heart? (Read Psalm 34:8, Isaiah 55:8–9, and 2 Corinthians 9:6-8. 

7) Neal shared how tithing changed his family. They stopped seeing money as security and saw the Lord as their provider. How has tithing changed you? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you honor Him with your finances. 

Backpacking Gear List from the John Muir Trail

 

In 2024 I embarked on an epic adventure on the John Muir Trail. I wish I could say that I completed that journey but I didn't. I ended up bailing on the trail about half way through because I missed my family too much. Here is a list of the gear I brought on on that hike: 

Here are the items that I brought on the John Muir Trail 
REI Flash Air 50L here-- https://tinyurl.com/flashair50 
Nemo Tensor— https://amzn.to/4cAa8bd 
Fortuis 1p Tent— https://bit.ly/3LxK3xD 
Stormloft Down Topquilt—https://alnk.to/d3CWiOX 
1/8 inch closed cell foam pad— https://alnk.to/eDRzQvc 
REI Pillow— https://alnk.to/1C7vg9R
TREKOLOGY Ultralight Pillow— https://amzn.to/46XQCUS 
Outdoor Vitals Sleeping  Bag liner— https://alnk.to/c08d8jF 

Clothing:
Sahara Shade Hoodie - Men’s— https://alnk.to/31rz6Ja
Darn Tough Socks— https://alnk.to/5FaVOYg 
REI Lightweight Base Layer Long-Sleeve— https://alnk.to/7fpKElD 
Outdoor Vitals NovaUL Jacket— https://alnk.to/hDqswuC 
Lightweight Gloves— https://amzn.to/4fQmz5s 
Skyline Trail Joggers— https://alnk.to/3U1m0Yd 
Hiking Shoes— https://amzn.to/3SHD5ev 
Water shoes— https://amzn.to/46RwvaA

Gear: 
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Hydrapak Stash— https://amzn.to/3WWrCsr 
Jetboil Stash-- https://amzn.to/3XgOIeR  
BV500-- https://amzn.to/3yK5tp9
Nitecore NU25— https://amzn.to/3Enoqgx  
REI Flash Carbon Compact Trekking Poles— https://alnk.to/flwBLX2 
Garmin inReach Mini 2— https://amzn.to/3Mb7ePl
REI Multi Towel Mini— https://alnk.to/hhAWyWP
TOAKS Titanium Long Handle Spoon— https://amzn.to/3AtvCsN
FLEXTAILGEAR ZERO PUMP— https://amzn.to/3STYqko 
VEEKTOMX Mini Power Bank— https://amzn.to/3WLgxdq
REI Lightweight Stuff Sack— https://alnk.to/cHNf3Rj 
John Muir Trail Map- https://amzn.to/4fPNkqw
Insulated Backpacking Meal Cozy— https://www.etsy.com/shop/FindingTrail?ref=l2-about-shopname  
Flip Fuel— https://www.flipfuel.co?sca_ref=4866273.EjbX1UVWCC  
You can use my code: Neal20 to get 20% off your order!  

Hygiene and poop kit: 
Deuce of Spades— https://amzn.to/4dKuEr3 
Porta Wipes— https://amzn.to/47ak4qR 
Toothbrush— https://amzn.to/3Ay7DZB 
Sunscreen— https://amzn.to/3WUUaST 
Sunscreen Chapstick— https://amzn.to/3MdZJHe 

Fishing Gear: 
Fishing Rod— https://amzn.to/3YRouRh 
Fishing Reel— https://amzn.to/3XaeUaE 
Altoids Tackle Fishing Box— https://www.etsy.com/listing/1612146463/altoid-tin-organizer-insert-perfect-for?ref=yr_purchases
Backpackers Pantry— https://backpackerspantry.com/o6dn0o 

If you want to try @drinkLMNT you can use my code and get a free sample pack with your first order! I've been using LMNT for the last four months and love it! 
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Other Gear I love: 
Shadowlight 60L— https://alnk.to/d3G7Qlk 

If you want to get a new backpacking stove make sure to check out Fire Maple Gear. Use the code: Peak to get 10% off your order. 
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Small Group Questions | The Fulfilled Life | Various Proverbs

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Fulfilled Life | Various Proverbs

The good life is not something we stumble into by accident, it is formed as we learn to live into what God teaches us about our hearts and our treasure. Money is never just a financial issue; it is deeply connected to our priorities, our fears, and where we place our trust. Scripture invites us to slow down and examine not only what we spend, but what our spending reveals about what we value most. The wisdom found in Proverbs helps us see how everyday financial decisions shape our character, our freedom, and the legacy we leave behind. These questions are not designed to produce guilt, shame, or pressure, but to create space for reflection, honesty, and growth.

1) Neal opened the sermon by sharing about a financial lesson he learned in college; the lesson of getting into debt with a credit card. When you think about your life, what is a financial lesson that has stayed with you over time? 

2) For the following questions we will look at the five lessons we learned from Proverbs: 

Hard work pays off: Read Proverbs 10:4–5. How did you first learn the value of work? Who shaped that view for you, and how has it influenced how you approach your work today? (see: Proverbs 14:23 and Colossians 3:23–24). 

3) Live within your limits: Read Proverbs 22:7. We live in a  culture that promotes using debt to accomplish our dreams, Where are you most tempted to live beyond your financial means? (Proverbs 21:20 and Luke 14:28). 

4) Set your heart in the right place: Read Proverbs 8:10–11. What are some subtle ways money can begin to shape our desires, decisions, or sense of security without us realizing it? (see: Matthew 6:21 and 1 Timothy 6:6–10) 

5) Leave a Godly legacy: Read Proverbs 13:22. We can easily mistake a legacy for a financial gift, but Scripture paints a broader picture. When you think about the legacy you want to leave behind, what do you hope people remember most about your faith, values, or character? (see Psalm 78:1-8 and Deuteronomy 6:6–9) 

6) Use money as a tool to lift others up: Read Proverbs 22:22–23. In what ways have you seen generosity, either given or received, change your life or someone else’s  life? (see Proverbs 19:17 and 2 Corinthians 9:6–8) 

7) Which of the five principles challenged or impacted you the most? What do you plan on doing differently with your finances because of what you learned from God’s word in this sermon? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you honor Him with your finances. 

Small Group Questions | The Generous Life | Matthew 6:19-24

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Generous Life | Matthew 6:19-24

The good life is not just wishful thinking but living into what Jesus teaches us about our heart and our treasure. Money is not simply a financial issue it is connected to our heart, priorities, and sense of security. Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 6 invites us to slow down and examine what we truly treasure. In this passage, Jesus challenges us to think about where we invest our lives and what those investments are shaping us into. These questions are not meant to produce guilt or pressure, but reflection and honesty. Each of us comes from different backgrounds and experiences with money, which means this conversation may look different for everyone. Move slow and practice kindness. 

1) Neal shared a story about a greedy uncle who wanted his wife to bury him with all of his money. This story makes us think about the contrast between greed and generosity. What makes the love of money and desire to have it so compelling? 

2) Which of the four areas of confusion about money (money is evil, you have to tithe, money equals God’s blessing, or “it’s mine”) do you see most often in yourself or in our culture? What other confusion on money would you add to this list? 

3) Read Matthew 6:19-21. Jesus contrasts storing up treasure on earth with storing up treasure in heaven. What are some practical ways people today “store up treasure on earth” without even realizing it? (see Colossians 3:2 and 1 John 2:15–17)

4) In the sermon we learned there are only four things we can do with our money: save it, spend it, give it away, or invest it. Read 1 Timothy 6:10, Luke 21:1-4, and 2 Corinthians 9:6-8. What does the Bible teach us about money? 

5) Read Matthew 6:22–23 Jesus uses the image of the eye being the lamp of the body. In your own words, what do you think Jesus is teaching with this picture? (see Psalm 119:37, Proverbs 4:25–27, and Hebrews 12:1–2). 

6) Read Matthew 6:24 When Jesus says we cannot serve both God and money, why do you think this is so challenging in everyday life living in Southern California? Where do you see that tension most clearly in your life? 

7) The story from 2 Chronicles 31 about God’s people returning back to Him shows generosity as a response to God’s work, not a requirement to earn His favor. How does that perspective change the way you think about giving or generosity?

Close your time in prayer asking God to give you a persistent prayer life.

Small Group Questions | Persistent Prayer | Luke 18:1-8

As we kick off the New Year, Coastline chose to preach on Bold Prayers. Throughout God's Word we see God's people cry out to Him. This might look like a cry of gratitude or a cry for help. In the New Testament the one thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them was how to pray. They saw the dedication Jesus had and something in His prayer life drew them to want to model what He was doing. We too can learn from the example of Jesus in our prayer life. Not only can we learn from Jesus but we can learn from a humble king, a hurting widow, and many more in the Bible who called out to God. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Persistent Prayer | Luke 18:1-8

We’re dedicating the entire month to studying prayer. The month of January can be a time where many people seek to make changes in their life and what better change can we make then spending more time communicating with God. Not only are we looking at what Scripture teaches on prayer but in Luke 18, Jesus teaches us about praying and never giving up. Studies show that only about 9% of people who set New Year’s resolutions actually stick with them through the year. In addition to that, 23% of resolution-makers quit within the first week, and 43% quit by the end of January. Instead of quitting, let’s study about prayer and learn to grow in spiritual maturity. 

1) Neal shared a story about how he and his son prayed for God to give them a house with an avocado tree. God answered that prayer for them. What is a prayer you  prayed, big or small, that God answered recently in your life? 

2) Read Luke 18:1-3. Jesus taught the disciples to not give up in their prayer life. As you reflect on your Christian walk is there a prayer you gave up on? What caused you to stop praying for this certain thing? 

3) Jesus taught the disciples to engage in continual prayer, not continuous prayer. Read: 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Romans 12:12, and Ephesians 6:18. How do these verses invite us to be persistent in prayer in a way that’s realistic for everyday life?

4) Read Luke 18:4-5. The widow was so persistent in her request that the judge thought she would wear him out. Share with your group a prayer that you really want to see God answer and you are trusting the outcome to Him. 

5) Read Luke 11:1-4. The disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray. Notice that Jesus said: “When you pray” not “if you pray.” How has this sermon series impacted your understanding and has it changed anything about how you pray? 

6) Read Luke 18:6-8. God doesn’t ignore the requests of His people but will come to the aid of His people. Read 1 Samuel 1:9–20, Jonah 2:1–10 and Acts 12:5–17. When you read these instances of God working, how does that increase your faith?  

7) At the end of our passage Jesus didn’t ask if we would be religious but if He would find faith when He returns. Read Hebrews 11:6, Romans 10:17, and Mark 11:24. What do these verses teach us about how faith grows as we continue to pray, even when answers don’t come in our desired timeframe? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to give you a persistent prayer life.

As we kick off the New Year, Coastline chose to preach on Bold Prayers. Throughout God's Word we see God's people cry out to Him. This might look like a cry of gratitude or a cry for help. In the New Testament the one thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them was how to pray. They saw the dedication Jesus had and something in His prayer life drew them to want to model what He was doing. We too can learn from the example of Jesus in our prayer life. Not only can we learn from Jesus but we can learn from a humble king, a hurting widow, and many more in the Bible who called out to God. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Selfless Prayer | 1 Kings 3:1-15

We’re starting the year by looking at what God’s word says about prayer. The month of January can usually be a reset in our life and a time to evaluate how we use our time. Prayer is simply communication with God. It takes time, intentionality, and focus. Sometimes we’re distracted in our prayer life and sometimes we’re extremely focused. In 1 King’s 3:1-15 we learn that Solomon had a divided heart. He loved the Lord but also struggled with the worldly practices around him. He goes to the most important place to worship and has a meaningful interaction with God that really changes his life. Through a humble prayer God gives Solomon what he asked for and even more! 

1) We live in a world with such abundance which makes us think we don’t need to ask God for our daily provision. When you think about everything you have at your fingertips, how does that impact how you choose to pray? 

2) Read 1 Kings 3:1-3. When we read this passage we learn that Solomon had a divided heart. Read Matthew 6:24, Jeremiah 31:33, and James 1:22. What does God’s word teach us about having a divided heart? 

3) Having a divided heart is an age old issue humanity has struggled with for centuries. Share with your group about a time you recognized your heart was divided in choosing the world over choosing the ways of the Lord. 

4) Read 1 Kings 3:4-6. Solomon’s first response to God was thankfulness. Take some time to share what you are thankful for and where you see God’s provision in your life. (see Philippians 4:6, 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Psalm 100:4, and Psalm 107:1).

5) Read 1 Kings 3:7-9. When you read the entirety of Solomon’s response to God, does it follow the pattern of the ACTS prayer model we learned last Sunday? How does the humility of Solomon impact you? (see James 4:6 and Proverbs 22:4).  

6) Neal offered us three ways to remain focused, and not distracted in our prayer life: Put your phone away, create space for times of prayer, and viewing prayer a text thread with God. What one(s) do you plan to implement this week? 

7) Read 1 Kings 3:10-15. God responded to Solomon with abundance. Read Ephesians 3:20, John 10:10, and Psalm 103:8. Share with your group how you’ve seen God’s provision and abundance in your life. 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you grow in spiritual maturity. 

Small Group Questions | Living the New Life | Ephesians 6:1-9

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Living the New Life | Ephesians 6:1-9

This week, our small groups will take a deeper look at what it means for Jesus to be Lord over every relationship in our lives. In Ephesians 6:1–9, Paul reminds us that following Jesus changes how we treat everyone: at home, at work, and in the world. These questions are designed to help you reflect on how the gospel shapes your daily interactions, challenges your attitudes, and strengthens your witness. We all have different relationships where God is at work shaping us to become more like Christ. As you talk together, be honest about what’s hard, celebrate where you’ve seen God at work, and encourage each other to live out your faith in practical, Christ-centered ways.

1) The sermon started with a story about Neal taking his son on a camping trip. Think back to your childhood and share with the group one of your favorite things to do with your parents when you were a child. 

2) Read Ephesians 6:1–3. Paul is helping the church walk in their new life with Christ. What do you notice about the promise attached to honoring our parents? Why do you think God included Exodus 20:12 in the Ten Commandments? 

3) Read Ephesians 6:4, Deuteronomy 6:4-9, Proverbs 22:6, and Colossians 3:21.What are some modern ways parents can unintentionally provoke or discourage their kids intentionally or unintentionally? 

4) Thinking back to your childhood, what are some ways that your parent(s) helped you know the truth of God? As you think about your parenting or future parenting desires, how do you want to help your kids grow in their faith? 

5) Read Ephesians 6:5-8. The modern context would be an employee/employer relationship. Share with your group how you can choose to reflect Christ in your workplace as a way to implement this passage. 

6) Read Colossians 3:12–14, Romans 12:9–10, Philippians 2:3–5. How do you respond when authority feels unfair or frustrating? What do these passages teach us about reflecting God in the workplace (and all areas of our lives)? 

7) Read Ephesians 6:9. Paul has a call for those in leadership or any position of authority. Read Job 31:13–15. What do these passages teach us about humility and modeling the call to serve others? 

Pray for God to help you in the different relationships you find yourself in. 

Small Group Questions | Mutual Submission | Ephesians 5:21-33

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Mutual Submission | Ephesians 5:21-33

As we continue our sermon series through the New Testament letter to the church in Ephesus we see Paul teach on mutual submission in a marriage relationship. This teaching was particularly important for Ephesus because it was a Gentile city; meaning it didn’t have God at the center. In our passage today we read Paul’s instruction on mutual submission for a thriving marriage that honors God. Paul teaches couples have to live the new life in Christ they have received are leaning in to. Paul takes the time to teach on marriage from a Biblical perspective. In today's text we’ll see how submission starts with God and models the mystery of Christ and the Church. 

1) The sermon started with funny quotes on marriage from kids. Which one stood out to you most? Why do you think humor like that helps us talk about serious topics like marriage or relationships?

2) Read Ephesians 5:21. What does “mutual submission” look like in our daily life? How does mutual submission honor God in our marriage, families, friendships, or the workplace? 

3) Genesis 1:27, 2 Corinthians 5:17, and Genesis 2:24. Neal taught that we’re created in God’s image and that our identity is in Christ. How does remembering that truth shape the way we treat others whether in marriage, dating, or singleness?

4) Read Ephesians 5:22-24. Paul invited wives to submit to their husbands “as to the Lord.” What might that look like today? How can trusting in God’s goodness help someone live out challenging passages of Scripture?

5) Read Ephesians 5:25-27. Paul called husbands to love “as Christ loved the church.”  This was a radical idea in this time period. How does Jesus’ sacrificial love challenge all of us, married or not, in how we love people around us?

6) Read Ephesians 5:28-31. Paul repeats his teaching for husbands to love their wives and for wives to respect their husbands. For those who are married, what are some practical ways to live this out? For those who aren’t married, what principles can still apply in your relationships? (see Colossians 3:18–19)? 

7) Read Ephesians 5:31-33. Paul teaches that a husband and wife become “one flesh” and connects this to the mystery of Christ and the church. What is the “mystery” Paul is describing here, and how does it reveal the gospel?

8) Think about your own relationships: marriage, friendships, or future hopes. What is one way you can reflect the gospel through love and surrender this week?