Small Group Questions | The Giving Life | Malachi 3:6-12

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Giving Life | Malachi 3:6-12

The good life is not something we stumble into by accident, it is formed as we learn to grow into the disciples Jesus has invited us to be. In the Old Testament God’s people had robbed Him of the tithes and offerings. The Temple was rebuilt in Israel but it paled in comparison to its former glory. The priesthood was corrupt, tithing was neglected, and widespread social injustice plagued Israel. Malachi speaks on behalf of God, inviting God’s people to worship Him again. Malachi invited God’s people to think about God’s faithfulness in their lives. This same invitation is extended to us today as we study these questions and remember God’s faithfulness in our lives even when we fail God. 

1) Every one of us has bills to pay and financial obligations to meet. Paying bills might be one of the most stressful things some people have to do. What emotions come up for you when you think about spending or giving money?  

2) Read Malachi 3:6–7. God reminds the Nation of Israel of His unchanging character. Why is God’s unchanging character important when we talk about generosity? (see Lamentations 3:22–23, Hebrews 13:8, and James 1:17). 

3) God invites His people to return to Him and in return He will return to them. There are many circumstances why someone would walk away from the Lord, what are the main reasons we see people come back to the Lord? 

4) Read Malachi 3:8-9. Malachi says that God’s people were robbing God. Read Haggai 1:4–9, Matthew 23:23, and Luke 21:1-4. What do you think God was really confronting in the hearts of His people and in our hearts as well? 

5) In the sermon we learned that the practice of tithing has four benefits to our walk with the Lord: Tithing forms me into a disciple who trusts and obeys Jesus, Tithing protects my heart from turning money into an idol, Tithing strengthens my relationship with God as Provider, Tithing partners us with God’s mission through the local church. What one was most impactful to you and why? 

6) Read Malachi 3:10-12. God told His people to test Him with their tithes & offerings. What does that reveal about His heart? (Read Psalm 34:8, Isaiah 55:8–9, and 2 Corinthians 9:6-8. 

7) Neal shared how tithing changed his family. They stopped seeing money as security and saw the Lord as their provider. How has tithing changed you? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you honor Him with your finances. 

Backpacking Gear List from the John Muir Trail

 

In 2024 I embarked on an epic adventure on the John Muir Trail. I wish I could say that I completed that journey but I didn't. I ended up bailing on the trail about half way through because I missed my family too much. Here is a list of the gear I brought on on that hike: 

Here are the items that I brought on the John Muir Trail 
REI Flash Air 50L here-- https://tinyurl.com/flashair50 
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Clothing:
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Gear: 
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Flip Fuel— https://www.flipfuel.co?sca_ref=4866273.EjbX1UVWCC  
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Hygiene and poop kit: 
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Other Gear I love: 
Shadowlight 60L— https://alnk.to/d3G7Qlk 

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Small Group Questions | The Fulfilled Life | Various Proverbs

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Fulfilled Life | Various Proverbs

The good life is not something we stumble into by accident, it is formed as we learn to live into what God teaches us about our hearts and our treasure. Money is never just a financial issue; it is deeply connected to our priorities, our fears, and where we place our trust. Scripture invites us to slow down and examine not only what we spend, but what our spending reveals about what we value most. The wisdom found in Proverbs helps us see how everyday financial decisions shape our character, our freedom, and the legacy we leave behind. These questions are not designed to produce guilt, shame, or pressure, but to create space for reflection, honesty, and growth.

1) Neal opened the sermon by sharing about a financial lesson he learned in college; the lesson of getting into debt with a credit card. When you think about your life, what is a financial lesson that has stayed with you over time? 

2) For the following questions we will look at the five lessons we learned from Proverbs: 

Hard work pays off: Read Proverbs 10:4–5. How did you first learn the value of work? Who shaped that view for you, and how has it influenced how you approach your work today? (see: Proverbs 14:23 and Colossians 3:23–24). 

3) Live within your limits: Read Proverbs 22:7. We live in a  culture that promotes using debt to accomplish our dreams, Where are you most tempted to live beyond your financial means? (Proverbs 21:20 and Luke 14:28). 

4) Set your heart in the right place: Read Proverbs 8:10–11. What are some subtle ways money can begin to shape our desires, decisions, or sense of security without us realizing it? (see: Matthew 6:21 and 1 Timothy 6:6–10) 

5) Leave a Godly legacy: Read Proverbs 13:22. We can easily mistake a legacy for a financial gift, but Scripture paints a broader picture. When you think about the legacy you want to leave behind, what do you hope people remember most about your faith, values, or character? (see Psalm 78:1-8 and Deuteronomy 6:6–9) 

6) Use money as a tool to lift others up: Read Proverbs 22:22–23. In what ways have you seen generosity, either given or received, change your life or someone else’s  life? (see Proverbs 19:17 and 2 Corinthians 9:6–8) 

7) Which of the five principles challenged or impacted you the most? What do you plan on doing differently with your finances because of what you learned from God’s word in this sermon? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you honor Him with your finances. 

Small Group Questions | The Generous Life | Matthew 6:19-24

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Generous Life | Matthew 6:19-24

The good life is not just wishful thinking but living into what Jesus teaches us about our heart and our treasure. Money is not simply a financial issue it is connected to our heart, priorities, and sense of security. Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 6 invites us to slow down and examine what we truly treasure. In this passage, Jesus challenges us to think about where we invest our lives and what those investments are shaping us into. These questions are not meant to produce guilt or pressure, but reflection and honesty. Each of us comes from different backgrounds and experiences with money, which means this conversation may look different for everyone. Move slow and practice kindness. 

1) Neal shared a story about a greedy uncle who wanted his wife to bury him with all of his money. This story makes us think about the contrast between greed and generosity. What makes the love of money and desire to have it so compelling? 

2) Which of the four areas of confusion about money (money is evil, you have to tithe, money equals God’s blessing, or “it’s mine”) do you see most often in yourself or in our culture? What other confusion on money would you add to this list? 

3) Read Matthew 6:19-21. Jesus contrasts storing up treasure on earth with storing up treasure in heaven. What are some practical ways people today “store up treasure on earth” without even realizing it? (see Colossians 3:2 and 1 John 2:15–17)

4) In the sermon we learned there are only four things we can do with our money: save it, spend it, give it away, or invest it. Read 1 Timothy 6:10, Luke 21:1-4, and 2 Corinthians 9:6-8. What does the Bible teach us about money? 

5) Read Matthew 6:22–23 Jesus uses the image of the eye being the lamp of the body. In your own words, what do you think Jesus is teaching with this picture? (see Psalm 119:37, Proverbs 4:25–27, and Hebrews 12:1–2). 

6) Read Matthew 6:24 When Jesus says we cannot serve both God and money, why do you think this is so challenging in everyday life living in Southern California? Where do you see that tension most clearly in your life? 

7) The story from 2 Chronicles 31 about God’s people returning back to Him shows generosity as a response to God’s work, not a requirement to earn His favor. How does that perspective change the way you think about giving or generosity?

Close your time in prayer asking God to give you a persistent prayer life.

Small Group Questions | Persistent Prayer | Luke 18:1-8

As we kick off the New Year, Coastline chose to preach on Bold Prayers. Throughout God's Word we see God's people cry out to Him. This might look like a cry of gratitude or a cry for help. In the New Testament the one thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them was how to pray. They saw the dedication Jesus had and something in His prayer life drew them to want to model what He was doing. We too can learn from the example of Jesus in our prayer life. Not only can we learn from Jesus but we can learn from a humble king, a hurting widow, and many more in the Bible who called out to God. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Persistent Prayer | Luke 18:1-8

We’re dedicating the entire month to studying prayer. The month of January can be a time where many people seek to make changes in their life and what better change can we make then spending more time communicating with God. Not only are we looking at what Scripture teaches on prayer but in Luke 18, Jesus teaches us about praying and never giving up. Studies show that only about 9% of people who set New Year’s resolutions actually stick with them through the year. In addition to that, 23% of resolution-makers quit within the first week, and 43% quit by the end of January. Instead of quitting, let’s study about prayer and learn to grow in spiritual maturity. 

1) Neal shared a story about how he and his son prayed for God to give them a house with an avocado tree. God answered that prayer for them. What is a prayer you  prayed, big or small, that God answered recently in your life? 

2) Read Luke 18:1-3. Jesus taught the disciples to not give up in their prayer life. As you reflect on your Christian walk is there a prayer you gave up on? What caused you to stop praying for this certain thing? 

3) Jesus taught the disciples to engage in continual prayer, not continuous prayer. Read: 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Romans 12:12, and Ephesians 6:18. How do these verses invite us to be persistent in prayer in a way that’s realistic for everyday life?

4) Read Luke 18:4-5. The widow was so persistent in her request that the judge thought she would wear him out. Share with your group a prayer that you really want to see God answer and you are trusting the outcome to Him. 

5) Read Luke 11:1-4. The disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray. Notice that Jesus said: “When you pray” not “if you pray.” How has this sermon series impacted your understanding and has it changed anything about how you pray? 

6) Read Luke 18:6-8. God doesn’t ignore the requests of His people but will come to the aid of His people. Read 1 Samuel 1:9–20, Jonah 2:1–10 and Acts 12:5–17. When you read these instances of God working, how does that increase your faith?  

7) At the end of our passage Jesus didn’t ask if we would be religious but if He would find faith when He returns. Read Hebrews 11:6, Romans 10:17, and Mark 11:24. What do these verses teach us about how faith grows as we continue to pray, even when answers don’t come in our desired timeframe? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to give you a persistent prayer life.

As we kick off the New Year, Coastline chose to preach on Bold Prayers. Throughout God's Word we see God's people cry out to Him. This might look like a cry of gratitude or a cry for help. In the New Testament the one thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them was how to pray. They saw the dedication Jesus had and something in His prayer life drew them to want to model what He was doing. We too can learn from the example of Jesus in our prayer life. Not only can we learn from Jesus but we can learn from a humble king, a hurting widow, and many more in the Bible who called out to God. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Selfless Prayer | 1 Kings 3:1-15

We’re starting the year by looking at what God’s word says about prayer. The month of January can usually be a reset in our life and a time to evaluate how we use our time. Prayer is simply communication with God. It takes time, intentionality, and focus. Sometimes we’re distracted in our prayer life and sometimes we’re extremely focused. In 1 King’s 3:1-15 we learn that Solomon had a divided heart. He loved the Lord but also struggled with the worldly practices around him. He goes to the most important place to worship and has a meaningful interaction with God that really changes his life. Through a humble prayer God gives Solomon what he asked for and even more! 

1) We live in a world with such abundance which makes us think we don’t need to ask God for our daily provision. When you think about everything you have at your fingertips, how does that impact how you choose to pray? 

2) Read 1 Kings 3:1-3. When we read this passage we learn that Solomon had a divided heart. Read Matthew 6:24, Jeremiah 31:33, and James 1:22. What does God’s word teach us about having a divided heart? 

3) Having a divided heart is an age old issue humanity has struggled with for centuries. Share with your group about a time you recognized your heart was divided in choosing the world over choosing the ways of the Lord. 

4) Read 1 Kings 3:4-6. Solomon’s first response to God was thankfulness. Take some time to share what you are thankful for and where you see God’s provision in your life. (see Philippians 4:6, 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Psalm 100:4, and Psalm 107:1).

5) Read 1 Kings 3:7-9. When you read the entirety of Solomon’s response to God, does it follow the pattern of the ACTS prayer model we learned last Sunday? How does the humility of Solomon impact you? (see James 4:6 and Proverbs 22:4).  

6) Neal offered us three ways to remain focused, and not distracted in our prayer life: Put your phone away, create space for times of prayer, and viewing prayer a text thread with God. What one(s) do you plan to implement this week? 

7) Read 1 Kings 3:10-15. God responded to Solomon with abundance. Read Ephesians 3:20, John 10:10, and Psalm 103:8. Share with your group how you’ve seen God’s provision and abundance in your life. 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you grow in spiritual maturity. 

Small Group Questions | Living the New Life | Ephesians 6:1-9

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Living the New Life | Ephesians 6:1-9

This week, our small groups will take a deeper look at what it means for Jesus to be Lord over every relationship in our lives. In Ephesians 6:1–9, Paul reminds us that following Jesus changes how we treat everyone: at home, at work, and in the world. These questions are designed to help you reflect on how the gospel shapes your daily interactions, challenges your attitudes, and strengthens your witness. We all have different relationships where God is at work shaping us to become more like Christ. As you talk together, be honest about what’s hard, celebrate where you’ve seen God at work, and encourage each other to live out your faith in practical, Christ-centered ways.

1) The sermon started with a story about Neal taking his son on a camping trip. Think back to your childhood and share with the group one of your favorite things to do with your parents when you were a child. 

2) Read Ephesians 6:1–3. Paul is helping the church walk in their new life with Christ. What do you notice about the promise attached to honoring our parents? Why do you think God included Exodus 20:12 in the Ten Commandments? 

3) Read Ephesians 6:4, Deuteronomy 6:4-9, Proverbs 22:6, and Colossians 3:21.What are some modern ways parents can unintentionally provoke or discourage their kids intentionally or unintentionally? 

4) Thinking back to your childhood, what are some ways that your parent(s) helped you know the truth of God? As you think about your parenting or future parenting desires, how do you want to help your kids grow in their faith? 

5) Read Ephesians 6:5-8. The modern context would be an employee/employer relationship. Share with your group how you can choose to reflect Christ in your workplace as a way to implement this passage. 

6) Read Colossians 3:12–14, Romans 12:9–10, Philippians 2:3–5. How do you respond when authority feels unfair or frustrating? What do these passages teach us about reflecting God in the workplace (and all areas of our lives)? 

7) Read Ephesians 6:9. Paul has a call for those in leadership or any position of authority. Read Job 31:13–15. What do these passages teach us about humility and modeling the call to serve others? 

Pray for God to help you in the different relationships you find yourself in. 

Small Group Questions | Mutual Submission | Ephesians 5:21-33

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Mutual Submission | Ephesians 5:21-33

As we continue our sermon series through the New Testament letter to the church in Ephesus we see Paul teach on mutual submission in a marriage relationship. This teaching was particularly important for Ephesus because it was a Gentile city; meaning it didn’t have God at the center. In our passage today we read Paul’s instruction on mutual submission for a thriving marriage that honors God. Paul teaches couples have to live the new life in Christ they have received are leaning in to. Paul takes the time to teach on marriage from a Biblical perspective. In today's text we’ll see how submission starts with God and models the mystery of Christ and the Church. 

1) The sermon started with funny quotes on marriage from kids. Which one stood out to you most? Why do you think humor like that helps us talk about serious topics like marriage or relationships?

2) Read Ephesians 5:21. What does “mutual submission” look like in our daily life? How does mutual submission honor God in our marriage, families, friendships, or the workplace? 

3) Genesis 1:27, 2 Corinthians 5:17, and Genesis 2:24. Neal taught that we’re created in God’s image and that our identity is in Christ. How does remembering that truth shape the way we treat others whether in marriage, dating, or singleness?

4) Read Ephesians 5:22-24. Paul invited wives to submit to their husbands “as to the Lord.” What might that look like today? How can trusting in God’s goodness help someone live out challenging passages of Scripture?

5) Read Ephesians 5:25-27. Paul called husbands to love “as Christ loved the church.”  This was a radical idea in this time period. How does Jesus’ sacrificial love challenge all of us, married or not, in how we love people around us?

6) Read Ephesians 5:28-31. Paul repeats his teaching for husbands to love their wives and for wives to respect their husbands. For those who are married, what are some practical ways to live this out? For those who aren’t married, what principles can still apply in your relationships? (see Colossians 3:18–19)? 

7) Read Ephesians 5:31-33. Paul teaches that a husband and wife become “one flesh” and connects this to the mystery of Christ and the church. What is the “mystery” Paul is describing here, and how does it reveal the gospel?

8) Think about your own relationships: marriage, friendships, or future hopes. What is one way you can reflect the gospel through love and surrender this week?

Small Group Questions | Walk in New Life | Ephesians 5:1-13

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Walk in New Life | Ephesians 5:1-13

Today we continue our sermon series through the New Testament letter to the church in Ephesus. This church was started by Paul on his second missionary journey. He spent a considerable amount of time with the church. For example, Paul spent three years in Ephesus and only eighteen months in Corinth. Paul was able to teach this church about the great love of God. The Holy Spirit began working in the life of God’s people and lives were radically changed. In our passage today we’re going to see Paul make a statement and then help the church understand how to live this out for Jesus. He teaches them to walk in God’s love, to walk in righteousness, and to walk in light.

1) Thinking of the story of Jimmy Choi who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease and chose to walk to regain strength. Share about a time when choosing to take small, consistent steps in your faith helped you grow spiritually.

2) Read Ephesians 5:1-2. Paul encouraged the church in Ephesus to: “Follow God’s example… and walk in the way of love.” What does it mean to imitate God’s love in practical, everyday ways?

3) Read Micah 6:8 and Luke 10:25-37. Think about a time when you saw someone reflect Christ’s love through forgiveness or compassion. What impact did their example have on you or on the person who received the love of Jesus? 

4) Read Ephesians 5:3-7. Paul calls believers to live differently from the culture around them. What are some ways our culture normalizes behavior that God calls us to leave behind as we grow in spiritual maturity?

5) In these couple of verses, Paul emphasizes living a life of righteousness. How can we pursue purity, righteousness, and holiness while still showing humility and grace toward others?

6) Read Ephesians 5:3-7. Paul says, “You were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord.” (See also Matthew 5:14–16, Colossians 1:13–14, and 1 Thessalonians 5:5.) How does that truth shape your identity and daily choices?

7) Read Psalm 32:3–5, James 5:16, and 1 John 1:7–9. Confession brings light into dark places. Why do you think confession is so freeing, and what sometimes holds people back from practicing it regularly? 

8) Close your time in prayer with either confession of sin or asking Jesus to help you be light in our darkening world. 

Field Tested: Outdoor Vitals Pursuit Hybrid Fleece

This October, I took my son camping along the Kern River for Fall Break, and it turned out to be the perfect opportunity to test the brand new Outdoor Vitals Pursuit Hybrid Fleece. It ended up being the ideal piece of outerwear for that environment.

Our campsite was right on the river, and as soon as the sun went down, the temps dropped quickly. I needed to throw on an outer layer, and I was immediately thankful to have the Pursuit Hybrid Fleece on hand. I put it on and felt warm almost instantly.

What really stood out to me was how lightweight and comfortable this piece is. It moves with your body and doesn’t feel bulky or restrictive but somehow, it still provides the warmth you're hoping for. I also loved that it has a hoodie built in. Mornings were brisk, and that hood went up the moment I crawled out of the tent.

One of my favorite moments with the fleece was on a fishing morning with my son. It started off chilly, and the fleece kept me warm, but as the sun came up and the day heated up, I was able to vent out excess heat just by unzipping it a bit. The breathability and temperature regulation were spot-on.

I’ve owned several fleeces over the years and am always on the lookout for that perfect outerwear layer. Honestly, I think I found it with the Pursuit Hybrid Fleece from Outdoor Vitals.

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Small Group Questions | The New Life | Ephesians 4:17-32

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | The New Life | Ephesians 4:17-32

Today we’re continuing our journey through the New Testament letter of Ephesians. In Chapter four we see a shift to spiritual growth in Christ. Through Paul’s ministry, the hope of Jesus spread across Ephesus and transformed countless lives. In this week’s passage, Paul challenges the church to live differently because of what Christ has done. He reminds them to leave behind their old way of life, to walk in the new life God offers, and to show evidence of that transformation in how they speak, think, and treat others. As we talk today, we’ll explore what this transformation looks like for us; how God renews our minds, reshapes our actions, and forms us to be more like Jesus.

1) Placing our faith in Jesus is one of the best decisions a person can make in life. Who would be willing to briefly share their faith story with the group and describe how God has changed your life since following Him?

2) Read Ephesians 4:17–19. Paul reminds the Ephesian believers about their old way of life. Why do you think it was helpful for the early church—and for us today—to remember what life was like before Christ?

3) In Ephesians 4:18 Paul uses the word separated, which in Greek conveys being alienated or estranged from God. How does living in contrast to God’s ways make a person feel distant or disconnected from Him?

4) Read Ephesians 4:20–21. Paul uses the language of “learned” and “taught.” Then read John 14:6, Philippians 3:8–10, and Titus 2:11–12. What have you learned about following Jesus recently that has helped you grow in your faith journey?

5) Read Ephesians 4:22-24. Paul talks about being “made new in the attitude of your minds.” How does changing the way we think lead to lasting spiritual transformation? See: 2 Corinthians 10:4–5, Colossians 3:1–2, and Romans 12:2. 

6) In the sermon we learned how to share our faith story: vs. 22— What my life was like before Christ, vs. 23— How I met Jesus, vs. 24— What my life is like now. How comfortable do you feel using this framework to share your story with someone?

7) Read Ephesians 4:25–32. Which of the six evidences of transformation stood out to you the most, and why? (Speaking truth, controlling anger, working honestly, using words to build up, honoring the Spirit, practicing compassion and forgiveness.)

8) Close your time in prayer by asking the Holy Spirit to give you the strength to “put off the old” and “put on the new.”

Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Unity in Christ | Ephesians 4:1-16

We love when things are working in unity. It might be in our workplace, our favorite band, or when things in our church family are going well. We love the moments of connection with others because unity feels right and it’s something we strive for. Paul longs for the church to be united in Christ and throughout this section he writes to that end. Paul encouraged the early church to: “make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” He gave the church a greater vision of unity than they could establish on their own accord. Not only did he teach on unity but on using the gifts we have in God’s family and growing in spiritual maturity. 

1) Share about a time when you experienced a powerful moment of unity. It could have been at a sporting event, a concert, or another time when you felt ‘in sync’ with others. What made that experience so meaningful? 

2) Read Ephesians 4:1-6. We do not drift into unity in any relationship. If anything we drift out of unity. We have to be intentional to pursue and desire unity. What are some intentional ways we can pursue unity in our families, friendships, and church?

3) Paul invites believers to unity in the church, not uniformity. What’s the difference? In the sermon we had a list of seven ways the church reflects the character of God when live in unity. What one of those stood out most to you? 

4) Read Psalm 133:1, John 17:20–23, and Colossians 2:2-4. Paul connected unity with our witness to the world. In what ways can division among Christians damage our credibility? Conversely, how can unity draw people toward the love of Christ?

5) Read Ephesians 4:11-13. Paul ties in unity and our spiritual gifts. How does discovering and using your spiritual gifts strengthen the church’s unity and health?

6) Read these other passages on Spiritual Gifts: Romans 12:6–8, 1 Corinthians 12:4–11; 27–31, Ephesians 4:11, and 1 Peter 4:10–11. How have you seen people in our group use their spiritual gifts?

7) Ephesians 4:14-16. Neal said, “We will never drift toward spiritual maturity.” What are some practical rhythms that help you mature in your faith instead of drift? What are you currently doing to actively grow in your faith and not stagnate?

8) Looking back at the Big Idea — “A healthy church grows in unity, serves with gifts, and matures in Christ.” Use this verse to pray for our church as you close your time. 

Small Group Questions | Immeasurably More | Ephesians 3:14-21

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | Immeasurably More | Ephesians 3:14-21

Just like Redwood trees, Christians were never meant to do life alone. We are called to be connected in a church community with other believers. Today we’re continuing our sermon series through the New Testament Letter of Ephesians. The letter was written by the Apostle Paul who ministered in the city for over three years. Paul lived among the people, experienced the city, and saw life change first hand. Today we’re going to see the pastoral heart of Paul really lived out. Today we’ll see Paul’s pastoral heart: how he prayed for the church, how he invites us into a powerful life of prayer, and how he points us to the God who does superabundantly more.

1) In the beginning of the sermon we learned about how Redwood trees have roots that only go about 10 feet deep but over a hundred feet wide. They are connected to each other. Who are you connected with in your spiritual life? 

2) Read Ephesians 3:14–15. Paul describes a posture of prayer and praying on our knees. Read Daniel 6:1-10. In the sermon we were invited to take the next 30 days to pray on our knees. Have you tried praying on your knees yet?

3) Paul traces our spiritual family tree. Let’s look at three other passages that expand this truth: Read John 1:12, Romans 8:15–16, and Ephesians 2:19. When you think about your life, what makes it so special to be united in the family of God? 

4) Read Ephesians 3:16-19. Paul prays two powerful prayers for the church: They would be strengthened in the power of the Holy Spirit. Because we are rooted and established in love we have power in Christ. How do these encourage you to pray bigger prayers in your daily life? 

5) We learn that Christ will dwell in our hearts through faith. Read: John 14:23 and Colossians 3:16. What does it mean for Christ to “dwell in your heart”? What would it look like to make your heart a more welcoming place for Christ to dwell?

6) Paul mixes metaphors here: rooted like trees, built like a house. Let’s see how the Bible uses both pictures: Read Jeremiah 17:7–8 and Matthew 7:24–25. How do roots and foundations help us picture the Christian life?

7) Read Ephesians 3:20-21. God is able to do “immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.” Where do you need to trust Him for “immeasurably more” right now?

8) Think about your “My Circle” card. How does this passage in Ephesians change your thoughts on praying for others and praying for God to do radical life change? 

Small Group Questions | No Longer Divided | Ephesians 2:11-22

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | No Longer Divided | Ephesians 2:11-22

Throughout time humanity has been great at building walls that divide. Humanity has not only been good at building physical walls, but invisible walls as well. We’ve built invisible barriers around politics. Culturally and socially we’ve built walls around generational differences, barriers between those who live in urban areas and those who live in rural ones for example. We’ve built economic walls, educational walls, and walls that even divide the church. In Ephesians 2:11-22 Paul teaches us the walls in our life can keep us from contact and connection with others. We learn that God came to destroy the walls to seek to divide us.  

1) In the beginning of the sermon Neal talked about two physical walls that brought division to the locations they were built; the Great Wall of China and the Berlin Wall. When you think about walls that divide, what is the first wall that comes to mind? 

2) Read Ephesians 2:11–13. Paul teaches us that at one point there was a wall between us and God but through the blood of Jesus that wall is broken down. Share with your group how Jesus pursued you and brought you into relationship with Him. 

3) Paul describes what our separation from God looked like by using the language of: “foreigners and excluded from citizenship in Heaven.” How do we see Jesus draw people to Himself and invite us to be citizens of Heaven? 

4) Read Ephesians 2:14-16. Jesus came to break down the walls that divide us. Read Acts 10:34–35, Galatians 3:28, and James 2:1. What practical steps can we take as individuals or as a group to live out racial reconciliation and unity in Christ?

5) Paul writes that Jesus came to reconcile us back to the Lord (v. 16). Reconciliation is: to reestablish proper friendly interpersonal relations after these have been disrupted or broken. Is there someone you need to reconcile with? 

6) Read Ephesians 2:14-18. Part of breaking down walls that divide us means living in peace. Read Matthew 5:9, Romans 12:18, and Hebrews 12:14. How can we be a group of people who live in peace with others?  

7) Read Ephesians 2:19-22. How does remembering that our primary citizenship is in heaven shape the way we live as Christians in America?

8) Think about your “My Circle” card. Who in your circle still feels far from God, and how might you pray for or reach out to them this week?

Small Group Questions | From Death to Life | Ephesians 2:1-10

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | From Death to Life | Ephesians 2:1-10

Scripture teaches us that we are completely dead without Christ. Completely separated from God. No pulse. No hope. That’s the bad news. Paul doesn’t leave us hopeless. Paul describes our spiritual condition and then some of the most hope-filled words in the entire Bible show up: “But God…” God steps in and brings the dead back to life. God takes our life, that was dead without Him and brings hope to our current condition. You’re going to see in our passage today that Paul had a vision to see God’s Kingdom built up. Today we’ll see that Paul teaches us we were once dead in our sins, now we are alive in Christ, and we’ve been saved by grace. 

1) Neal shared the Princess Bride illustration when Miracle Max said Westley was: “mostly dead” vs. “completely dead.” Think back to your life before trusting Christ, where can you now see that you were completely dead in your sins? 

2) Read Ephesians 2:1–3. What stands out to you about Paul’s description of our condition before Christ? (read John 10:10, Galatians 5:19-21, and Romans 12:2) How do you see “the world, the flesh, and the devil” at work in today’s culture?

3) Paul uses two words—transgressions (active rebellion) and sins (anything contrary to God’s plan). Which one do you tend to recognize more easily in your own life? 

4) Read Ephesians 2:4–7. What do the words “But God” mean to you personally? Share a moment where God stepped in and brought new life or hope into your story. Read Mark 5:18-20 and Luke 19:9-10. What do these passages teach us about the new life God brings to His people? 

5) Paul says we are “seated with Christ” (v. 6). What does that truth say about our identity and worth in God’s eyes? How does this statement impact our current situation and the future hope we have in Christ?  

6) Read Ephesians 2:8–10. Paul teaches us the importance of remembering that salvation is by grace through faith, not by works (read 2 Timothy 1:9 and Titus 3:5) How does this truth shape the way we relate to others? 

7) Verse 10 says we are God’s workmanship (poema). How does knowing you are God’s masterpiece affect the way you view yourself and others? (see Genesis 1:27)

8) This Sunday, Coastline gave out a new prayer card to write down names of people you want to see come to faith. Who are some of the people God is putting on your heart? How can our group commit to praying with you for them this week? 

Small Group Questions | The Riches of Knowing God | Ephesians 1:15-23

In the Fall of 2025, Coastline began a journey through the book of Ephesians. This letter from the Apostle Paul is packed with timeless truth about who we are in Christ and how we are called to live as His people. From God’s eternal plan of salvation to the call for unity in the church, Ephesians grounds us in the gospel and shows us what it means to walk faithfully in a broken world. As we’ve studied this book together, our congregation has been both encouraged and challenged. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Ephesians with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Riches of Knowing God | Ephesians 1:15-23

This Fall we’re studying the New Testament letter written to the church in Ephesus. Ephesus is a real city in Modern Day Turkey. The Apostle Paul stopped there on his second missionary journey. This is the trip where the gospel first moved to a different continent. Paul lived among the people in a very pagan city; he didn’t avoid the city because of the idol worship, slavery, or pagan culture. Paul chose to invest his life in people who were far from God and lost without the truth of Jesus. So Paul lovingly came in, shared the Gospel, and lived among the people. Paul never stopped praying for this church and maintained his desire for them to live in the power of God.

1) Neal opened with the story of a man and his Bitcoin account he can’t access. How is that similar to how Christians sometimes live in relation to God’s power and presence? Can you relate to that illustration personally?

2) Read Ephesians 1:15. Paul commends the Ephesians for their faith in Jesus and love for others. Where have you seen those two qualities, faith and love, lived out in your own life or in someone else’s? (see Hebrews 11:1 and Mark 12:29-31)

3) Read Ephesians 1:16-17. Paul tells the church he has never stopped praying for them (see 1 Thessalonians 5:17, Romans 12:12, and Colossians 4:2). We learn two things about Paul’s prayer life: Paul prayed continually and with thankfulness. How might you grow in consistency in your own prayer life this week? 

4) Read Ephesians 1:18. Paul highlights hope as central to the Christian life (see Psalm 42:11 and Hebrews 6:19) . In what ways do people around us put their hope in things that ultimately disappoint instead of placing our hope in Christ? 

5) It can be easy to think of an inheritance as something we receive later in life or when someone passes away. Paul teaches that our inheritance in Christ is not just future but present. What difference could that make in the way you live this week?

6) Read Ephesians 1:19-21. Paul describes God’s power toward us as the same power that raised Jesus from the dead. What would it look like for you to live this week connected to that resurrection power instead of “white-knuckling” your faith?

7) Which part of Paul’s prayer do you most need right now: to grow in faith and love, to deepen in hope, to grasp your inheritance, or to live in God’s power? How can the group pray for you specifically in that area?

The Lukewarm Church | Revelation 3:14-22

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Lukewarm Church | Revelation 3:14-22

This week, we close out our study on the seven churches of Revelation by looking at Laodicea, a church that receives no encouragement from Jesus. Instead, He lovingly confronts them for being lukewarm in their faith. This church thought they had it all: wealth, status, resources, and healing. But Jesus reveals that they were actually poor, blind, and in desperate need of Him. This rebuke helps us see how easy it is to fall into a similar pattern of self-reliance, comfort, and spiritual complacency. Jesus isn’t looking for half-hearted faith. He stands at the door and knocks, inviting us into a deeper relationship with Him—a faith that is refined, restored, and fully alive.

1) The sermon started with an illustration of Indianan Jones taking a step of faith; he had all the information he needed to make an educated decision. Share about a time you took a step of faith and what the results were. 

2) Read Revelation 3:14-16. Jesus is: the Amen, the faithful and true witness, and the ruler of God’s Kingdom. Each week we’ve learned more about the character and nature of Jesus. What do these descriptions of Jesus teach us? 

3) The Bible describes people in three different ways. Read Luke 24:32 and Matthew 24:12, Revelation 3:16. Lukewarm faith isn’t faith at all. What does lukewarm faith look like today? How is it different from being cold or on fire for God?

4) Read Revelation 3:17-18. The Laodiceans were materially rich but spiritually poor. In what ways do you see the temptation of self-reliance in your own life? Where are you tempted to say, “I don’t need anything”?

5) Jesus invites the church to “buy gold refined by fire.” Read: 1 Peter 1:6–7 and Hebrews 12:7-11 What does it mean to be spiritually refined by Jesus? Share a time when God used a challenge or correction to grow/shape your faith. 

6) Read Revelation 3:19-20. Why do you think Jesus used this image of Him knocking at the door & patiently waiting to be invited in to share a meal with you? What would it look like to take Neal’s invitation to schedule a meal with Jesus this week? 

7) Read Revelation 3:21-22, Psalm 46:10, and James 1:22. The passage ends with a description of the person is victorious by trusting Jesus, applying His word, and listening to His voice. What hinders you from applying God's word in your life?  

Close in prayer asking Jesus to make us a faithful church to the end. 

The Faithful Church | Revelation 3:7-13

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Faithful Church | Revelation 3:7-13

This week we continue our series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. This week we look at the church in Philadelphia. This is one of the two churches to not receive a rebuke for their actions. Jesus only has an encouragement and promise for this church. The church in Philadelphia was small and experiencing persecution for their faith. They were a faithful church who lived out both the Greatest Commandment and the Great Commission; they were living on mission in their area for the Gospel. Study these questions to learn more about the church in Philadelphia and reflect together on what Jesus is saying to us today.

1) We don’t often make headlines for the thousands of faithful choices we make each day; only for the ones that go wrong. What does faithfulness to the Lord look like in the everyday life of a healthy Christian? Share a few examples from your own walk.

2) Read Revelation 3:7-8. These verses give us three descriptions of Jesus: holy, true, and holding the keys. Take some time to talk about the importance of each description and how they help us grow in our walk with Jesus. 

3) Revelation 3:8 focuses on Jesus’ ability to open and close doors. Read Isaiah 22:22. 1 Corinthians 16:9, Colossians 4:3, and Psalm 37:23–24. What do these verses teach us about looking for opportunities in the doors Jesus opens and closes? 

4) Read Revelation 3:9-10. Jesus speaks of His power to protect His people. The Church in Philadelphia was facing trials. Can you share a time when Jesus strengthened you during a trial and what made His encouragement meaningful?

5) The church in Philadelphia was a faithful church in an unfaithful world. Read: Acts 2:42–47, Acts 6:3–4, Acts 8:1–4, and 1 Peter 2:9-10. Which qualities of a faithful church stood out to you the most? How can we reflect these in our church today?

6) Read Revelation 3:11-13. In a world that can feel like it’s trying to drown us in pressure, temptation, and disappointment, Jesus tells the church in Philadelphia: “I am coming soon.” How does this encourage you today? 

7) Jesus tells the church to “Hold on!” Read Psalm 16:8, Proverbs 4:25-27, Romans 12:1-2, and Hebrews 12:1-3. Do you have a specific verse that helps anchor your faith in Jesus when discouragement sets in? Share it with the group. 

Close in prayer asking Jesus to make us a faithful church to the end. 

The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

Today we continue our seven-week series through the letters to the churches in Revelation. These were real churches, just like ours, trying to follow Jesus in difficult and distracting times. This week we looked at the letter to the church in Sardis—a church that, on the outside, looked alive, but Jesus saw the truth: “You are dead.” Sardis receives no praise, only a piercing rebuke, making this one of the strongest warnings in Revelation 2–3. Yet even here, we find a call to hope: Wake up, repent, and return to life. As we discuss this passage together, let’s invite God to examine our hearts, awaken our spirits, and rekindle a passion for His mission in us and through us.

1) We can all fall into spiritual ruts—settling into rhythms that serve our comfort more than Christ's mission. After reflecting on this week’s message, where do you sense you may have grown complacent in your faith?

2) Read Revelation 3:1a. Jesus is actively involved in His Church—He holds it in His hand. Share a time when you saw Jesus working powerfully in our church and were reminded of His presence. 

3) Jesus mentions the Spirit in His message to Sardis. If the Holy Spirit were active and alive in a church, what signs would you expect to see in the lives of the believers and the church there in Sardis? (See Galatians 5:22–26)

4) Read Revelation 3:1b–3. Jesus tells the church to strengthen what remains. As a group, discuss the differences between a living church and a dead church. What stands out to you about the marks of a living church?

5) Read Revelation 3:3. Jesus calls us to remember what we’ve received and heard. How are you currently connecting with God through His Word? Where are you reading in your Bible right now?

6) Read Revelation 3:4–6. Even in Sardis, there were still faithful followers—there was still hope for the church to have an impact. What are some ways you would encourage our church to keep helping people find and follow Jesus?

7) Jesus promises that those who overcome will have their names written in the Lamb’s Book of Life. Read Philippians 4:3, Hebrews 12:23, Revelation 20:12, 15, and Revelation 21:27. What do these passages reveal about the Book of Life and its significance?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week. Pray Psalm 139:23-24 as a group. 

The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the churches in Revelation. The Roman Emperor Domitian tried to silence John by killing him, but when that failed, he exiled him to the island of Patmos. What Rome meant for isolation, God used for encouragement and revelation. Even in exile, Jesus showed up in power. Pergamum was a significant and influential city, the capital of Asia Minor for nearly 250 years and home to nearly 200,000 residents. It wasn’t just politically powerful, it was spiritually compromised. The people worshiped Caesar and many other false gods. As we study this church, let’s learn how to remain faithful in a compromising culture.

1) Compromise often feels like a shortcut to success or acceptance but it can cost us our integrity or spiritual health. Share a time when you compromised in some area of life. What were the results and what did you learn from this situation?

2) The city of Pergamum was a spiritually dark place with a demonic foothold (Read Revelation 2:12-13). Where do you see spiritual darkness or opposition to faith in  Jesus in our culture today? How should we respond?

3) Jesus encouraged the church to remain true to His name and not renounce their faith in difficult times (following the example of Antipas). What helps you stay faithful to Jesus in the face of pressure or compromise?

4) Read Revelation 2:14-16. Every church has its mistakes or shortcomings. What specific compromises did Jesus call out in Pergamum? How can we, as a church family, guard against those same dangers? What actions can we take today?

5) Jesus rebuked Pergamum for tolerating false teaching in the local church. Read Jude 3, 1 Timothy 4:16, and 2 Timothy 4:3–4. What are some ways we can stay grounded in sound doctrine and avoid being led astray?

6) Read Revelation 2:7, 11, 17. Each of the churches was urged to “hear what the Spirit says.” What helps you recognize and respond to God’s voice in your life? How have you grown in this as you’ve matured in your faith? 

7) Jesus promises the “hidden manna” to those who overcome. Read Isaiah 25:6, Luke 22:30, and Revelation 19:9. What do these passages reveal about the joy and intimacy of feasting with Christ?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

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These joggers have quickly become my favorite trail pants, and here’s why:

1. Ultra-Lightweight for Long Days on Trail

From the moment I put them on, I noticed how incredibly light these joggers feel. Even on warmer hikes, I stayed comfortable without overheating. They breathe well, pack down small, and are perfect for layering with other ultralight gear. Whether I was hiking wide paths, crossing streams, or navigating narrow singletrack in Harmon Canyon, they never weighed me down. 

For those, like me, who like to look at the weight of pants stick around. These joggers come in at a light 6.5oz. I think that is a big deal when you're considering add them them to your pack. They are super light but read the next reason they've become my favorite too. 

2. Surprisingly Durable

I’ve put in several miles with these pants, and several washes, and they’re holding up impressively well. No frayed stitching. No signs of wear. The knee articulation, the reinforced stitching, and the quality materials make me confident they’ll last for many seasons. Outdoor Vitals clearly knows how to blend lightweight design with long-term durability.

One morning I took them hiking on a nearby trail and it was very wet that morning (we live near the ocean). I was walking through brush and the pants handled it SO well. Not only that, they dried quickly. That was a big deal and you can see that quick YouTube short here. 

3. Trail-Tested Versatility

The Skyline Joggers easily adjust to changing trail conditions. On cool mornings, they provide coverage and warmth. As the sun comes out, they have great ventilation that allows for cooling on the warmer days. If you watch the video below you can see how Outdoor Vitals designed these to keep airflow going while keep you protected. Not only that, they have great elastic cuffs at the bottom to keep debris out of your pants while hiking. This is the style of pants I was looking for! 

4. Thoughtful Pocket Design

Let’s talk pockets. I think that pockets matter in pants. I like to put my hands in pockets. I like to carry my essentials in my pockets. I want to know if my hand will slide in easily or if it will take an excavator to get my hands in there. These pants pass the pocket test. 

These pants come with front hand pockets that are just right for your phone, chapstick, or a small knife. But my favorite feature is the zippered back pocket, which gives me peace of mind that my wallet or keys are secure on trail. It’s the kind of functional detail that really matters when you’re miles from the trailhead.

Final Thoughts

After wearing the Skyline Trail Joggers on multiple hikes, washing them, stretching them, and putting them through real-world trail conditions, I can honestly say these are the pants I’ll be reaching for all season long. Whether you’re backpacking through the Sierra or heading out for a local loop, these joggers check all the boxes.

If you're in the market for a lightweight, breathable, and tough pair of trail pants — these are 100% worth checking out.

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