The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

Today we continue our seven-week series through the letters to the churches in Revelation. These were real churches, just like ours, trying to follow Jesus in difficult and distracting times. This week we looked at the letter to the church in Sardis—a church that, on the outside, looked alive, but Jesus saw the truth: “You are dead.” Sardis receives no praise, only a piercing rebuke, making this one of the strongest warnings in Revelation 2–3. Yet even here, we find a call to hope: Wake up, repent, and return to life. As we discuss this passage together, let’s invite God to examine our hearts, awaken our spirits, and rekindle a passion for His mission in us and through us.

1) We can all fall into spiritual ruts—settling into rhythms that serve our comfort more than Christ's mission. After reflecting on this week’s message, where do you sense you may have grown complacent in your faith?

2) Read Revelation 3:1a. Jesus is actively involved in His Church—He holds it in His hand. Share a time when you saw Jesus working powerfully in our church and were reminded of His presence. 

3) Jesus mentions the Spirit in His message to Sardis. If the Holy Spirit were active and alive in a church, what signs would you expect to see in the lives of the believers and the church there in Sardis? (See Galatians 5:22–26)

4) Read Revelation 3:1b–3. Jesus tells the church to strengthen what remains. As a group, discuss the differences between a living church and a dead church. What stands out to you about the marks of a living church?

5) Read Revelation 3:3. Jesus calls us to remember what we’ve received and heard. How are you currently connecting with God through His Word? Where are you reading in your Bible right now?

6) Read Revelation 3:4–6. Even in Sardis, there were still faithful followers—there was still hope for the church to have an impact. What are some ways you would encourage our church to keep helping people find and follow Jesus?

7) Jesus promises that those who overcome will have their names written in the Lamb’s Book of Life. Read Philippians 4:3, Hebrews 12:23, Revelation 20:12, 15, and Revelation 21:27. What do these passages reveal about the Book of Life and its significance?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week. Pray Psalm 139:23-24 as a group. 

The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the churches in Revelation. The Roman Emperor Domitian tried to silence John by killing him, but when that failed, he exiled him to the island of Patmos. What Rome meant for isolation, God used for encouragement and revelation. Even in exile, Jesus showed up in power. Pergamum was a significant and influential city, the capital of Asia Minor for nearly 250 years and home to nearly 200,000 residents. It wasn’t just politically powerful, it was spiritually compromised. The people worshiped Caesar and many other false gods. As we study this church, let’s learn how to remain faithful in a compromising culture.

1) Compromise often feels like a shortcut to success or acceptance but it can cost us our integrity or spiritual health. Share a time when you compromised in some area of life. What were the results and what did you learn from this situation?

2) The city of Pergamum was a spiritually dark place with a demonic foothold (Read Revelation 2:12-13). Where do you see spiritual darkness or opposition to faith in  Jesus in our culture today? How should we respond?

3) Jesus encouraged the church to remain true to His name and not renounce their faith in difficult times (following the example of Antipas). What helps you stay faithful to Jesus in the face of pressure or compromise?

4) Read Revelation 2:14-16. Every church has its mistakes or shortcomings. What specific compromises did Jesus call out in Pergamum? How can we, as a church family, guard against those same dangers? What actions can we take today?

5) Jesus rebuked Pergamum for tolerating false teaching in the local church. Read Jude 3, 1 Timothy 4:16, and 2 Timothy 4:3–4. What are some ways we can stay grounded in sound doctrine and avoid being led astray?

6) Read Revelation 2:7, 11, 17. Each of the churches was urged to “hear what the Spirit says.” What helps you recognize and respond to God’s voice in your life? How have you grown in this as you’ve matured in your faith? 

7) Jesus promises the “hidden manna” to those who overcome. Read Isaiah 25:6, Luke 22:30, and Revelation 19:9. What do these passages reveal about the joy and intimacy of feasting with Christ?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

Skyline Trail Joggers by Outdoor Vitals

If you know me well I'm always on the hunt for new gear, that won't break the bank, is durable and functional. Add some bonus points if you show me gear from a rad company. 

I’ve been on the hunt for the perfect hiking pant for years; something lightweight, comfortable, and built to handle real trail conditions. I've tried all types of hiking pants: zip off at the knee, preowned to save a a couple bucks, and I even found a great pair at the REI garage sale one time. Every time though I felt like they were a little too big in the legs for my liking. 

Last year I found the Skyline Trail Joggers from Outdoor Vitals and they have become the only pants I've worn for hiking. I think I’ve finally found them; I think my quest to find the best hiking pants have concluded. 

This is the one pair of hiking pants I brought on the JMT last summer. It was so nice to hike in shorts during the warm summer days but if you've spent any time in the mountains you know those temps can drop at night. Each night it was great to slip into these pants after a long day of hiking. I choose to take these pants because I was able to test them at home before hand and it was an easy decision. 

These joggers have quickly become my favorite trail pants, and here’s why:

1. Ultra-Lightweight for Long Days on Trail

From the moment I put them on, I noticed how incredibly light these joggers feel. Even on warmer hikes, I stayed comfortable without overheating. They breathe well, pack down small, and are perfect for layering with other ultralight gear. Whether I was hiking wide paths, crossing streams, or navigating narrow singletrack in Harmon Canyon, they never weighed me down. 

For those, like me, who like to look at the weight of pants stick around. These joggers come in at a light 6.5oz. I think that is a big deal when you're considering add them them to your pack. They are super light but read the next reason they've become my favorite too. 

2. Surprisingly Durable

I’ve put in several miles with these pants, and several washes, and they’re holding up impressively well. No frayed stitching. No signs of wear. The knee articulation, the reinforced stitching, and the quality materials make me confident they’ll last for many seasons. Outdoor Vitals clearly knows how to blend lightweight design with long-term durability.

One morning I took them hiking on a nearby trail and it was very wet that morning (we live near the ocean). I was walking through brush and the pants handled it SO well. Not only that, they dried quickly. That was a big deal and you can see that quick YouTube short here. 

3. Trail-Tested Versatility

The Skyline Joggers easily adjust to changing trail conditions. On cool mornings, they provide coverage and warmth. As the sun comes out, they have great ventilation that allows for cooling on the warmer days. If you watch the video below you can see how Outdoor Vitals designed these to keep airflow going while keep you protected. Not only that, they have great elastic cuffs at the bottom to keep debris out of your pants while hiking. This is the style of pants I was looking for! 

4. Thoughtful Pocket Design

Let’s talk pockets. I think that pockets matter in pants. I like to put my hands in pockets. I like to carry my essentials in my pockets. I want to know if my hand will slide in easily or if it will take an excavator to get my hands in there. These pants pass the pocket test. 

These pants come with front hand pockets that are just right for your phone, chapstick, or a small knife. But my favorite feature is the zippered back pocket, which gives me peace of mind that my wallet or keys are secure on trail. It’s the kind of functional detail that really matters when you’re miles from the trailhead.

Final Thoughts

After wearing the Skyline Trail Joggers on multiple hikes, washing them, stretching them, and putting them through real-world trail conditions, I can honestly say these are the pants I’ll be reaching for all season long. Whether you’re backpacking through the Sierra or heading out for a local loop, these joggers check all the boxes.

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Small Group Questions | Revelation 2:8-11

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Suffering Church | Revelation 2:8-11

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. The book of Revelation was written by the Apostle John while he was exiled on the Island of Patmos. Most scholars date the letter around 95–96 AD, and it was written to real churches located in what is now modern-day Turkey. While many people associate Revelation with beasts, dragons, and the antichrist, the book begins with something far more personal: Jesus speaking to His Church. This week we study the letter to the church in Smyrna, a suffering church with no rebuke, only hope. Reflect on these questions and consider how Jesus encourages His people to remain faithful in the midst of suffering.

1) The church has always faced suffering and persecution (read Acts 12:1-4). Have you ever been in a situation where standing up for your faith made you uncomfortable or cost you something? What happened?

2) Read Revelation 1:12-16. John has an encounter with the risen Lord and shares with us all the details of what Jesus looks like. Reading at the vivid description of Jesus, what do we learn about our risen Lord and symbols surrounding Him? 

3) Read Revelation 1:17-18 and 2:8. Why do you think Jesus begins by reminding the church in Smyrna that He is "the First and the Last, who died and came to life again"? What does that say to a suffering church? How does that comfort them? 

4) Read Revelation 2:9-10. Jesus tells the church, “I know your affliction and your poverty—yet you are rich!” Too often we mistake what real wealth looks like. Jesus points us to spiritual richness. What does being spiritually rich look like to you? 

5) Neal shared that over 380 million Christians face high levels of persecution today (as of 2024). How does hearing those stats affect the way you think about your own faith or freedoms?

6) Read Revelation 2:11. Jesus tells the early church they will be victorious. What are some practices in our spiritual growth that help us stay connected to Jesus so we can experience this victory in Christ? 

7) Jesus tells the church not to be afraid of suffering and promises they will not be hurt by the second death. What fears are most common in your spiritual life? How can God’s promises strengthen us in those moments?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

The Loveless Church | Revelation 2:1-7

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Loveless Church | Revelation 2:1-7

Today we begin a brand-new sermon series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. The book of Revelation was written by the Apostle John while he was on the Island of Patmos. Most scholars think the letter was written about 95-96AD. The letter was written to real churches in Modern Day Turkey. Most people think of Revelation as: beasts, dragons, and the antichrist. That comes later, but first Jesus wants to address His church. Each church finds an encouragement, a rebuke, and a promise. Study these questions and look at what Jesus spoke to the church in Ephesus about their spiritual formation. 

1) In the beginning of the sermon Neal talked about being afraid to read the book of Revelation and that it took him years to finally read it. What three words would you use to describe how you feel (have felt) about the book of Revelation? 

2) Read Revelation 2:1-3. We read that Jesus saw the hard work and serving nature of the church. Read Matthew 5:16, Acts 2:42-47, and Galatians 5:13. What do these verse teach us about the heart behind serving others? How can we live this out? 

3) The church in Ephesus was encouraged for persevering in their faith. Read Hebrews 11:36-40. What does it look like for us, in the church in America, to persevere in our faith this week, month, and year? 

4) Next, Jesus moves to a rebuke for the church (read Revelation 2:4). What does it mean to lose our love for Christ? How can we recognize that drift early—and what helps us return to the “wild love” of God? 

5) Read Revelation 2:5-6. Jesus invites this church to consider how far they fell. As a group come up with a list of five to ten examples of people in the Bible who also fell from their faith. What, if anything, brought about their restoration? 

6) The church is instructed to repent and do the things they did at first. Share with your group when you felt like your faith was the strongest and most passionate. What did that time look like and how do you return to that type of faith? 

7) Read Revelation 2:7. The promise for the church in Ephesus is to hear the voice of the Spirit and eat from the tree of life. Read 1 Samuel 3:10, John 10:27, Romans 8:14, and Hebrews 3:7–8. What do these verses teach us about the power of hearing the voice of God in our daily life? 

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

Atonement | 2 Corinthians 5:21

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Atonement | 2 Corinthians 5:21

For the final week of our Solid Ground sermon series we looked at: Atonement. We can define Atonement as: The work Christ did in his life and death to earn our salvation. For eight weeks we’ve been talking about building our lives on Jesus as the foundation of our lives. In Matthew 7, Jesus taught what it looks like to build our homes on solid ground and not on sinking sand. Jesus used the illustration of a home as a metaphor for our spiritual lives. Today we’ll see how Jesus took our sins upon Him so we could be the righteousness of God. We’ll see that Jesus conquered death and that because He is alive we can have life in Him.

1) Pastor Neal started our sermon by talking about what Easter was like for him as a child. Think backing to your childhood, what are some of your favorite memories or special things you really enjoyed as a child on Easter? 

2) Read 2 Corinthians 5:21 and Ephesians 2:16. Paul taught the church about how Jesus became sin so we could become the righteousness of God. Discuss the power of Jesus reconciling us back to God. 

3) Jesus didn’t just remove what’s broken, He gave us something brand new and that is life in Him. Share with your group something that Jesus has made new in your life and how that makes life with Him so special. 

4) In Luke 24:1-12 we read about the Tomb being empty. The disciples came to examine the tomb and they find no evidence of Jesus being there. What evidence of Jesus has helped encourage your faith the most? 

5) Read John 3:16-16. The Scriptures teach us that Jesus came to bring us back into right relationship with God. Share about a time in your life when you vividly remember Jesus restoring your relationship with God. 

6) In Luke 24:13-35 we see two of the disciples are completely hopeless. They are so dejected they leave Jerusalem. Share about a time in your life when things didn’t go your way and it hurt your faith in God. 

7) On the road to Emmaus Jesus uses the Old Testament Scriptures to encourage the disciples in their faith. Read Psalm 119:11, 105, Hebrews 4:12 and 2 Timothy 3:16. Share about how reading God’s word has changed your life. 

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand glorification. 

Glorification | Philippians 3:20-21

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Glorification | Philippians 3:20-21

Today we’re in week six of an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. In Matthew 7 Jesus taught the listeners about the power of building their home on a solid foundation. This series is all about making sure our spiritual life is built on Jesus. Today we come to the doctrine of Glorification which causes us to think about heaven and what happens to our earthly bodies as we transition to our eternal home. Here’s a short definition of Glorification— when God completes His work in us. Making us fully like Jesus; perfect, eternal, and whole. Glorification gives us a hope for heaven but we also know there is suffering on this earth. 

1) Our sermon started with what we learn about heaven from the culture around us; it might be from cartoons or characters of God. When you were growing up what shaped your view of Heaven? How has that changed over time? 

2) Read Philippians 3:20-21. Paul taught the believers in Philippi that they are now citizens of heaven (see Ephesians 2:19, John 17:14-16, and Hebrews 11:13-16). What stands out to you about the idea that our citizenship is in heaven?

3) Paul taught the early church that our future glory changes how we live now. He pointed them to eternal thinking. What’s one area of your life that would look different if you truly lived with eternity in mind? How can begin living this out this week? 

4) Read Romans 8:17-18. We learned that we are adopted as children of God and heirs of God’s Kingdom. That means we have something to look forward to in eternity. How does being a child of God change how you live today? 

5) Paul and other New Testament writers teach us that our suffering plays a part in our hope for Heaven (read Romans 5:3–5, James 1:2–4, and Hebrews 12:10–11). Share with your group a story when you suffered and how it shaped you. 

6) In 1 Corinthians 15:42-44 we learned about four contrasting words that help us understand our heavenly bodies. Read this passage and talk about the four contrasting images Paul taught the early church. What do they mean for us?   

7) Jesus’ resurrected body gives us an example of what our resurrected bodies will look like. Read Luke 24:28-32 and John 20:26-27 and 21:4-9. What do these passages teach us about Jesus’ resurrected body? 

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand glorification. 

Regeneration | Titus 3:3-8

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Regeneration | Titus 3:3-8 

Today we’re in week three of our eight-week sermon series called Solid Ground. This series is all about building our lives on a firm spiritual foundation. What if true change wasn’t just about trying harder but about becoming completely new? This Sunday, we’re diving into the incredible truth of regeneration—how God doesn’t just improve us, He transforms us. Through the story of a rockstar’s radical faith and the journey of C.S. Lewis from atheism to belief, we’ll see how God takes even the most reluctant hearts and makes them new. Don’t miss this powerful message of hope, renewal, and the life-changing work of Christ in us. Join us and discover what it truly means to be made new!

1) The sermon started with the story of Brian Welch, a man whose life was radically changed by God. Think about your own journey, what was your life like before you encountered Christ? What changes have you seen since then?

2)Regeneration is completely a work of God. Read John 1:12-13 and Ezekiel 36:26. What do these passages teach us about being born again? Why is it important to understand that we play no active role in our own regeneration?

3) Before we experience regeneration, sin holds a powerful grip on our lives. Read Titus 3:3 and discuss how sin influences people’s thoughts, actions, choices and relationships. Where did sin once have control over your life?

4) In Titus 3:4-5 we learn that salvation comes not because of our righteousness but because of God’s kindness and mercy. How have you experienced God’s kindness in your life? How does His mercy change the way we view others?

5) Read Titus 3:5-6, John 3:5-8, and 1 Peter 1:3. What do these passages say about the role of Jesus and the Holy Spirit in our regeneration? How can we be more aware of the Spirit’s work in our daily lives? 

6) Regeneration isn’t just about forgiveness, it’s about becoming a completely new person in Christ. Read 2 Corinthians 5:17. What does it mean to live as a new creation? What are some practical ways we can reflect this transformation in our everyday lives?

7) C.S. Lewis, once an atheist, was transformed by Christ and became a powerful advocate for the gospel. Who in your life needs to hear about the power of regeneration? Take a moment to pray for them and discuss how you can share your faith with them this week.

Close your time in prayer, thanking God for His transformative power in your lives. 

 

The Trinity | Genesis 1:1-3

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | The Trinity | Genesis 1:1-3 

Today we’re in week two of our eight-week sermon series called Solid Ground. This series is all about building our lives on a firm spiritual foundation. Our theme verse comes from Matthew 7, where Jesus teaches us to build our lives on the rock instead of the shifting sand. We live in a world filled with all kinds of ideas about God; some rooted in truth and others way off base. One of the most important doctrines of the Christian faith is the Trinity. The Trinity is the belief that God exists as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. For some, this may be familiar, while for others, it feels like a confusing mystery. Take some time today to walk through the questions on the Trinity with your group. 

1) The sermon started explaining topics of conversation we are good at having vs. areas we know little about. As we approach the Trinity, quickly have your group share their confidence in being able to describe the Trinity.

2) The concept of the Trinity is present throughout Scripture but “The Trinity”, in written form like this, is never mentioned in Scripture. Read these passages and talk about the Trinity: Genesis 1:1-3, 26-27, Isaiah 6:8, and Matthew 28:18-20. 

3) We looked at Four words to help us understand the Trinity: One— There is only one God, Three— This one God exists as three persons, Diversity— Each person of the Trinity is distinct and Unity— The Trinity functions in perfect harmony. What part of this was most helpful to you? 

4) The Trinity is hard to explain and Christians have used human examples like: the egg, the shamrock, and water. Have you heard any other illustrations that would be helpful in explaining the Trinity to someone? 

5) All throughout the New Testament we see the unity of the Trinity. Read Matthew 3:16–17, John 14:16–17, 2 Corinthians 13:14, and Ephesians 2:18. How do these verses help us see the unity in the Trinity? 

6) In our Christian faith the Trinity matters. Read Romans 5:5–6, Galatians 4:4–6, Ephesians 3:14–19, and 1 John 4:13–14. Discuss how these verses show God expresses His great love to us. What stands out to you? 

7) Part of being loved by God is loving others. Come up with a list of five potential ways you can personally show the love of God to others this week. Next have everyone in your group one way they be intentional to work on this week.  

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand His triune nature. 

Love Your Kids | Ephesians 6:1-4

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love Your Kids | Ephesians 6:1-4

This month, we’re dedicating our time to exploring Biblical love. On Sunday, we talked  about the role of love in parenting: a calling that requires patience, guidance, and grace. In Ephesians 6:1-4, Paul teaches that parenting is about both instruction and nurture, balancing discipline with encouragement. Just as God lovingly leads us, parents are called to lead their children with wisdom, consistency, and a heart that reflects Christ’s love. Parenting can look different for everyone. Our church includes people in various stages of life: parents, grandparents, future parents, and those who support families. As you discuss, please be mindful and sensitive to each person’s experiences.

1) What is one moment from your childhood when you felt deeply loved by a parent or guardian? What specifically made you feel loved? How can we apply those principles in our own parenting or relationships? 

2) Read Ephesians 6:1-3. Paul connects obedience to parents with enjoying long life.  Thinking about your relationship with your parents, how have you seen obedience their instruction in your life lead to blessings in your life?

3) The New Testament offers us a variety of examples of parenting. Read Matthew 3:16-17. At the baptism of Jesus we read about an affirming time for Jesus. Talk about the power of encouraging our children. 

4) Read Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21. Paul warns fathers not to exasperate their children. What are some ways that parents (or authority figures) can unintentionally discourage or embitter children?

5) In the sermon we learned about three ways to ruin a child: Being Overbearing, Being Permissive, or Being Inconsistent. How does your parenting impact your children? Have you modeled a consistent parenting style?

6) Read Deut 6:4-9. Moses instructed God’s people to impress these commandments on their children. What are ways we can enter into spiritual conversations this week? What one thing do you want to focus on this week? 

7) In Matthew 17:14-20 we learned about a father who was willing to do anything for his son and desperate for life change. What is one way you can bring your children to the feet of Jesus this week to be in His presence? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Love Your Spouse | Ephesians 5:21-33

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love Your Spouse | Ephesians 5:21-33

This month, we’re dedicating our time to exploring Biblical love. On Sunday, we focused on the marriage relationship, which requires submission, sacrifice, and communication—exactly what Paul teaches in Ephesians 5:21-33. This passage can sometimes make people uncomfortable because of its discussion on submission, but when we view it through the lens of Christ’s love, we see that submission isn’t about power, it’s about serving one another with humility and love. Since our church is comprised of people in various stages of life and relationships, some questions may resonate more than others. As you discuss, please be mindful and sensitive to each person’s experiences.

1) The sermon started with a viral story about Otou Katayama who acted extremely childish in his marriage. What are some childish things you’ve seen couples do in their relationship that leaves you shaking your head?  

2) Read Ephesians 5:21. Paul commands married couples to submit to each other out of reverence for Christ. The word submit can get a bad reputation in marriage. How can married couples show a profound respect for each other? 

3) To fully understand the marriage relationship we need to look back to creation. Read Genesis 1:26-27 and 2:20-25. Focusing on these two verses, what do we learn about the way God created mankind in His imagine and the role of marriage?  

4) In Acts we learned about the couple Priscilla and Aquila. Read Acts 18:1-3 and 18-19. What lessons can we draw from this married couple about supporting each other in the gifting God has given to husbands and wives? 

5) Scripture provides us some cautionary tales of marriage. David and Michal’s marriage is one that lacked spiritual unity. Read 1 Samuel 19:10-17 and 2 Samuel 6:16-23. What can we learn from this couple about having a healthy marriage? 

6) Read Ephesians 5:22-33. Paul teaches married couples how to interact with each other in a Godly way. As a group, pull out several examples of what a healthy marriage looks like and discuss how you could move in that relational direction. 

7) For those who are married, come up with a list of several ways you can love and respect your spouse this week. Examples can range from praying for each other, reading Scripture together, or planning a date. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Love God | Mark 12:28-30

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love God | Mark 12:28-30 

On Sunday we kicked off a brand-new sermon series called “I Love You.” These three simple words carry incredible power; they can heal wounds, bring comfort, and soften even the hardest hearts. Today we begin this series by looking at the most important relationship in our entire life, our relationship with God. The Bible is filled with reminders of God’s deep love for us, but what about our love for Him? In Mark 12, Jesus has a conversation about the greatest commandment, and it all starts with making sure our love is directed toward the right place. As we dive into today’s discussion, let’s take a moment to reflect on what it truly means to love God with our entire being 

1) We live in a world longing for love. Share a time when you felt fully loved by family, friends, or God. Take some time to describe the details of that situation, experience, or time with your group. What made it so special?  

2) Read Mark 12:13 and 18. While Jesus is teaching in the Temple courts two groups try to trap Him with their questions. How can we approach Jesus more like the teacher of the law looking to learn from Jesus? 

3) Read Mark 12:28-30. Jesus invites us to love God with our entire heart. Read Matthew 6:19-24. What are some things that compete for your heart’s devotion? What steps can you take to realign your heart to love God fully?

4) Jesus taught us to love God with all our soul. Read Psalm 19:7, 42:2, and 119:8. In today’s fast-paced world, what are some challenges that keep us from caring for our soul, and how can we overcome them?

5) Read Mark 12:30 once more. Jesus teaches us to love God with all our mind. Read 2 Corinthians 10:5 and Romans 12:1-2. What are some distractions or thought patterns that pull us away from this? What are three practical ways you can love God with your mind this week?

6) Read Deuteronomy 6:4-5. Loving God with all our strength means using our time, energy, and abilities for His glory. What does this look like in everyday life? How can you love God with all your strength this week?

7) As you look back on the passages we studied this week, what is God speaking to you about loving Him with your entire being?  

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Serving Others | Matthew 25:31-40

The month of January seems like a great time to get our priorities straight again! For January Coastline Bible Church started a four-week sermon series called; "The Church." In this series we talked about how the church is a living, breathing, organism, on mission for God. We looked what makes the church unique and the role God's people play in the church. We had small group questions for two of the weeks and it made sense to keep sharing them here. 

Small Group Questions | Serving Others | Matthew 25:31-40

Throughout January we’re exploring four key aspects that make the church truly unique. One idea we’ve emphasized in this series is that the church is not merely an organization but a living, breathing organism—a unique community of people on mission for God. This week, we’ll focus on how serving sets the church apart. Think of serving like eating your vegetables: when you’re spiritually immature, you might resist serving because you see life as centered on yourself. But as you grow in your faith, serving others becomes something you eagerly look forward to. Together, we’ll explore an invitation to serve others, our responsibility to serve within the church, and the joy that comes from serving.

1) In the introduction to the sermon Neal gave us an example of how much he disliked eating his vegetables as a kid but learned to eat them as an adult. Thinking of this analogy, how do you feel about serving others? Is it a joy for you or difficult?  

2) Read Matthew 25:31-40. While sitting on the Mount of Olives Jesus taught on several things. One was what would happen when He returned to earth. How does this passage inspire you to live out your faith through serving? 

3) Serving is a practical way to live out our faith. But we live in a fast-paced, schedule paced, world. Take some time as a group to share what holds you back from serving others; it could be time constrains, fears, health issues, or more. 

4) Read Romans 12:6-8. Paul wrote to the church in Rome with this encouragement to serve others. Thinking back on your life, what do you think some of your gifts are to serve the church? Where have people affirmed these gifts in your life? 

5) Look over the entire chapter of 1 Corinthians 12. Paul teaches the early church about the different gifts God has given us. What do we learn about deploying our gifts to serve the church in these passages? 

6) Read 1 Peter 4:8-11. Peter taught the early church about the using whatever gifts they have to faithfully serve the church. Where would you like to grow in the understanding and use of your gifts? 

7) As a group, think of several ways you can serve others this coming week or month. Come up with a list to help you have several ideas and commit to doing those. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Sabbatical Update

The past few years have been intense. I’ve led through the loss of my dad and stepdad, my mom suffering a traumatic brain injury, and the challenges of a global pandemic. On top of that, I’ve spent the last seven years helping rebuild a church that experienced a painful split. My soul was weary, and I was exhausted. Thankfully, our elders approved a ten-week sabbatical, providing the rest I desperately needed.

About a week into my sabbatical, a friend texted me, asking how I was doing. I replied, “I’m more tired than I realized.”In those first days, I took more naps, slept in, and yawned more than I ever imagined. My exhaustion ran deeper than I had known or acknowledged.

I wonder if you might feel the same. Maybe a key staff member recently left your team. Perhaps you’ve navigated the tensions of the latest election cycle or carried the weight of your congregation’s struggles. You go home physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained. Like me, you might be more tired than you realize.

Sabbatical forced me to slow down completely. It felt like pulling over on a long road trip, engaging the emergency brake, and shutting off the engine. I’m not naturally good at rest, but three weeks of stopping entirely brought renewal. For the first time in a long while, I started dreaming again—about ministry, discipleship, and reaching our community.

But God wasn’t done. In the weeks that followed, He did some of His deepest work in my soul. As I spent time alone with Him, He revealed my struggle with control. He reminded me to trust Him fully to care for His church. I realized God cares more about me as a person than about my role as a pastor. He shepherded my soul in ways I hadn’t let Him before.

You might not have ten weeks to take off, but you can still rest. Start with a Sabbath day and allow God to speak to you in your deepest need. 

Lessons on Humility | 1 Kings 21

This Fall our church is preaching through the life of Elijah. We had some great guests start the series out as I was on sabbatical but now that I'm back I want to share these small group questions with you. The life of Elijah is a story of encouragement to life for God when others around you might be living an ungodly life. Elijah learns to deeply depend on God to meet all his needs. His life is a life lived by faith; no retirement plan, no 401K, and no vacation policy. Elijah stands up to point God's people back to their true King during a dark time in the life of Israel. Study these questions by yourself or with others to grow in your faith! 

Small Group Questions | Lessons on Humility | 1 Kings 21

Elijah lived a life dedicated to God while others in Israel were following the idolatrous reign of Ahab and Jezebel. In 1 Kings 21 we read the story of King Ahab’s desire to acquire a vineyard owned by Naboth, a faithful Israelite who refused to sell his ancestral inheritance. Ahab, upset by the refusal, returns to his palace dejected while his wife goes to work at getting the land for her whining husband. With Naboth dead, God sends Elijah to confront the king on his murderous ways. In response, Ahab humbles himself and sees the error of his wicked ways. This chapter highlights themes of injustice, misuse of power, and God’s righteousness in holding wrongdoers accountable.

1) We all experienced a time in our life when we didn’t get our way or things didn’t go as planned. Share a story about a time in your life when things didn’t go your way and share how you responded to this. 

2)Read 1 Kings 21:1-7. Ahab has an extremely immature response to not getting his ways. In what ways do we sometimes act similarly to Ahab and how can we create more contentment in our lives? (read Prov. 11:25, Phil. 4:11-13, and James 3:16)

3) Read 1 Kings 21:7-17. Jezebel's actions to acquire the vineyard were deceptive and manipulative. What are some subtle or overt ways we see manipulation and injustice in our culture? How can we, as followers of Christ, stand against such actions and pursue justice? (see Isaiah 1:17, Amos 5:24, and Micah 6:8)

4) Read 1 Kings 21:17-19. Elijah confronts Ahab with a message from God. What role does boldness play in speaking truth to power, and how can we apply this in our own lives? How does Galatians 6:1 help us navigate difficult conversations with others?

5) Ahab's response to Elijah's prophecy includes repentance ( read 1 Kings 21:27-29). How do we discern genuine repentance in ourselves and others? What does Psalm 51 teach us about the nature of true repentance when we sin?

6) The injustices in this story can resonate with real-life injustices in our community. Read Proverbs 31:8-9, Mark 2:17, and Luke 10:25-37. How can we, as a small group, seek to promote to those who we come in contact with? 

7) In what ways does this passage challenge us to examine our own hearts for areas of greed, envy, or discontent? How can we practice gratitude and trust in God's provision? (See Jeremiah 17:9, Proverbs 4:23, and 1 Timothy 6:6-10)

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Following God | 1 Kings 19:15-21

This Fall our church is preaching through the life of Elijah. We had some great guests start the series out as I was on sabbatical but now that I'm back I want to share these small group questions with you. The life of Elijah is a story of encouragement to life for God when others around you might be living an ungodly life. Elijah learns to deeply depend on God to meet all his needs. His life is a life lived by faith; no retirement plan, no 401K, and no vacation policy. Elijah stands up to point God's people back to their true King during a dark time in the life of Israel. Study these questions by yourself or with others to grow in your faith! 

Small Group Questions | Following God | 1 Kings 19:15-21

Elijah was a prophet in Israel during the terrifying reign of Ahab and Jezebel. Elijah stood up for God when it seemed like many others were bowing to the idols of the day.  In 1 Kings 19 we read how Elijah was disappointed in the spiritual state of Israel. He was exhausted and felt alone. While meeting with God, Elijah is recommissioned to ministry. God gives Elijah clear instructions on his successor. Immediately Elijah goes and invites Elisha to ministry. Elisha is literally willing to burn all his bridges to follow Elijah and this call of God on his life. Study these questions to see where God is calling you to invest in the lives of others for the sake of the Kingdom. 

1) We all have someone who has made a significant impact on our life. This could be a sports coach, an employer, or someone in the church. Looking back, what made this relationship so unique and so impactful in your life?  

2) Read 1 Kings 19:15-18. Elijah was concerned with the spiritual state of Israel and felt alone. We read that God reserved 7000 who had not participated in idol worship. What are some idols that you can easily turn to in your daily life? 

3) We read how God instructed Elijah to anoint Elisha as his successor. The Bible has several stories of leadership transitions (read Deuteronomy 31:7-8, 1 Samuel 10:1, and Acts 1:8). What do these transitions teach us about God’s plan for His people? 

4) Read 1 Kings 19:19-20. Elijah is obedient to find Elisha and invite him to become his successor. Elisha is obedient to follow after Elijah. When thinking about the obedience of these two men, who holds you back from fully obeying God? 

5) The word “kiss” is used only twice in 1 Kings. The people would kiss the idol as their way to associate with idol worship. What is the modern day version of this? For example what do we do to signify our allegiance to God? 

6) Read 1 Kings 19:21. Elisha literally burns all his bridges and invites his neighbors so they will know what he is planning on doing. What are some things that hold you back from following Jesus and how can you get rid of them from your life? 

7) Pastor Neal said that we are a church with Elijah’s and Elisha’s. What one of these people do you resonate with more? How will you take the application of the sermon to invest your life into someone or find someone to disciple you? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Exhausted to Commissioned | 1 Kings 19:1-18

This Fall our church is preaching through the life of Elijah. We had some great guests start the series out as I was on sabbatical but now that I'm back I want to share these small group questions with you. The life of Elijah is a story of encouragement to life for God when others around you might be living an ungodly life. Elijah learns to deeply depend on God to meet all his needs. His life is a life lived by faith; no retirement plan, no 401K, and no vacation policy. Elijah stands up to point God's people back to their true King during a dark time in the life of Israel. Study these questions by yourself or with others to grow in your faith! 

Small Group Questions | Exhausted to Commissioned | 1 Kings 19:1-18

In James 5 we read that Elijah was a man just like us. That statement comes to light in our passage today. In 1 Kings 19 we read that Elijah is exhausted, alone, and ready to quit ministry. Elijah’s life is threatened by the evil ruler Jezebel and he is ready to leave. In his darkest moment we see God comfort and restore Elijah. Elijah chooses to flee Israel and ends up in a cave having a conversation with God.  What seems to be the lowest point of Elijah’s life becomes a moment of finding clarity in the will of God. In the quiet moment God speaks life into the exhausted prophet. If you’ve ever been exhausted or deflated, allow this passage of Scripture be an encouragement to you. 

1) Think of a time in your life when you were exhausted or deflated. You might have been battling a tough time in life or fallen into a time of depression. What was that time in your life like and how did you navigate it? 

2)Read 1 Kings 19:1-9. In this passage we read that Elijah’s life was threatened and God took the time to comfort him in his distress. Share about a time in your life when you were deeply scared and how you overcame that fear. 

3) In his distress we read that God comforted Elijah; God never forgot about Elijah. Read Psalm 23:1-3, Isaiah 40:31, Matthew 11:28-29, and 1 Samuel 30:6. How do we allow God to refresh us in some of our darkest moments? 

4) Read 1 Kings 9-10. Elijah felt alone and discouraged at the spiritual condition of Israel. He longed for God’s people to worship God. Looking at your life, what are some things that can bring deep discouragement in your daily life? 

5) Read 1 Kings 19:11-13a. Many of us would love to hear the voice of God in the same way Elijah did. Read: 1 Samuel 3:10, Psalm 5:3, John 10:27 and Revelation 3:20. How can we posture our lives in a way to hear the voice of God? And how come God never seems to show up in the ways we expect? 

6) Read 1 Kings 19:13a-18. The conclusion of our story is that God recommissioned Elijah back to ministry; God gave Elijah a new ministry assignment. Elijah obeys what God asks of him. Where do you have trouble obeying God’s commands? 

7) One of the things that Elijah complained about was feeling and being alone in ministry. It appears that Elisha will now be a ministry companion. Share with your group how doing life with others has encouraged your faith. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Defined by Prayer | James 5:13-20

This Fall our church is preaching through the life of Elijah. We had some great guests start the series out as I was on sabbatical but now that I'm back I want to share these small group questions with you. The life of Elijah is a story of encouragement to life for God when others around you might be living an ungodly life. Elijah learns to deeply depend on God to meet all his needs. His life is a life lived by faith; no retirement plan, no 401K, and no vacation policy. Elijah stands up to point God's people back to their true King during a dark time in the life of Israel. Study these questions by yourself or with others to grow in your faith! 

Small Group Questions | Defined by Prayer | James 5:13-20

This Fall we’re studying the life of Elijah in the Old Testament. Elijah is known as one of the primary prophets who confronted idol worship in Israel. This Sunday we looked into the New Testament to bring the mission and vision back in front of us. The mission of our church is quite powerful and simple— Helping people find and follow Jesus. Our vision is— Coastline is united in reaching and discipling 1% of our community for Jesus. We have a big vision, a big vision to see life change in our community; marriages healed, kids growing up in Godly homes, people saved from addiction, and so much more. Study these questions to see how we can become a praying church. 

1) Think of a time in your life when you needed to make a big decision. This decision was so big that you really didn’t have the margin to mess it up. Share with your group about that decision and the role prayer played in helping you make the choice. 

2) Read James 5:17. James teaches us that Elijah is a human being just like us. So often in the Christian life we put the heroes of the Bible of a pedestal. How does James teaching help you see yourself differently? 

3) Thinking more about our humanity, share some stories with your group about when you’ve seen God use ordinary people to do extraordinary things for the Kingdom? This might be helping others out, emotional support, or times of prayer. 

4) Read James 5:17. We read that Elijah’s life was defined by earnest prayer. What are some things that you are earnestly praying for God to do right now? What are the things that distract you from earnestly praying? 

5) Throughout the Scriptures we find several examples of regular and faithful prayer. Read Mark 1:35, Psalm 5:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:17 and Daniel 6:10. When looking at these examples of prayer when is the best time for you to commit to praying? 

6) Read James 5:17-18. We read that God answered Elijah’s prayer. God is a God who hears the prayers of His people. Read Jeremiah 33:3, Mark 11:24, and Matthew 7:7-8. What are some prayers that you are longing for God to answer right now? 

7) At the end of his letter James instructs the early church to bring people back from their wandering sin (read James 5:19-20). When you think about sharing your faith what comes to mind? Does it scare you, thrill you, or somewhere in the middle? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Look up, Look down, Look to God | Matthew 6:25-34

We just started a brand new sermon series called: Real Talk. The Bible teaches us that we’re body, mind, and soul. In this new series we’re going to look at what Scripture teaches about: anxiety, fear, and worry. I need you to know that as much counseling I’ve done, I’m not a therapist. I’m not a mental health professional. I'm a pastor and a theologian. During this sermon series we’re going to look at what is happening in our culture surrounding fear, worry, and anxiety. We’re going to see what Scripture teaches us on those subjects. It seemed helpful to share these small group questions for others to view/use. 

Small Group | Look up, Look down, Look to God | Matthew 6:25-34

According to recent data, about 19% of adults were diagnosed with an anxiety disorder this past year and 31% will deal with it sometime in their lifetime. The Bible offers us solutions to deal with our fear, worry, and anxiety. That is why we’re looking at what God’s word says when we are struggling with these things. In this new series we’re going to look at what Scripture teaches about: anxiety, fear, and worry. I’m praying for God to show up in a powerful way in this series. This series isn’t just for us but for those who we are connected with. Today we’re going to look up to the birds, look down to the flowers, and then look to God.

1) According to recent data, about 19% of adults were diagnosed with an anxiety disorder this past year and 31% will deal with it sometime in their lifetime. Share a time in your life when you struggled with anxiety or worry. What/who helped you? 

2) Read Matthew 6:25-27. Jesus begins this section of teaching by instructing us to look at the birds and how God provides for them. Jesus teaches that we are more valuable than the birds, do you believe that? Why or why not? (see Genesis 1:26-27) 

3) Jesus asks us if we can add a single hour of our life by worrying? What are some of things that you find yourself worrying about the most in life and what triggers that worry? Read Matthew 11:28-30, Colossians 3:15, and Psalm 55:22. 

4) Read Matthew 6:28-32. Jesus makes the correlation that our worry reveals a lack of faith in our life. Read Hebrews 11:1, 6, and Romans 10:17. What are some practical steps we can take to reduce our worry and increase our faith in God? 

5) Jesus reminds us that God will provide our most basic needs in life: food and clothing but sometimes that is hard to see given the consumerism taking place around us. Share with your group a personal story of when you saw God provide.

6) Read Matthew 6:33-34. Instead of focusing on what we don’t have or the selfish desires of our heart, we are invited to seek the Kingdom of God first. What are some ways we can seek God’s Kingdom and righteousness on a daily basis? 

7) In the sermon we learned four ways to seek God’s Kingdom First: We live within our means, We focus on what we need and not what we want, We let go of the things of this world, We honor the Sabbath. What one of those would you like to work on the most this week? What one is most difficult for you to apply when you’re worried? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Life in Christ | John 20:30-31

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | Life in Christ | John 20:30-31

This week we finished our sermon series through the Gospel of John. Throughout this year of studying the Gospel we’ve seen the miracles and truth of Jesus. We’ve learned about the teaching of Jesus and what it means to follow Him. We’ve slowly walked through some tough passages that have shaped our faith in a new way this last year. During our journey through the Gospel we came to meet Jesus Christ in a powerful way. Today we’ll conclude with the purpose of John’s writing and we’ll look at the seven “I am” statements of Jesus. As we near the end of the John wants to be certain that the read understands his purpose for writing this account. 

1) Neal shared that we live in a culture that is obsessed with living longer and figuring out the science/data to make that happen. If you did live for a decade longer than you expected what would you do with that ten years?

2) Tucked near the very end of the Gospel we read the purpose: John 20:30-31. John wrote this account so that anyone who reads it would believe in Jesus. How has your faith in Jesus changed over the last year of being in this Gospel account? 

3) Jesus told the crowds that He is the bread of life and the light of the world (read John 6:35 and 8:12). Throughout Scripture we see God provide for His people and illuminate their path (1 Kings 19:3-8 and Psalm 119:105). Share a time when God provided for your needs or bright light to a dark place in your life. 

 

4) Jesus tells us that He is the gate and the Good Shepherd (read John 10:7-11). Jesus is our constant protector and provider (read Psalm 28:7 and Psalm 23). What has changed in your life since letting Jesus be your Good Shepherd? 

5) Jesus is the one who holds the security of our eternal life and points us to the truth in God (read John 11:25-26 and 14:6). We live in a world that is filled with fake news and half-truths. What is one truth of Jesus that you regularly cling to? 

6) Jesus teaches us that He is the true vine. When our lives are connected to Him is when we live in the purpose He has for us (read John 15:1-4). How have you learned to remain or abide in Jesus? How has that changed your life? 

7) John teaches us that the result of believing in Jesus is life in His name. Think about one way that your life has drastically changed since following Jesus. Share that with your group as a way to praise God for the life change He has done in you. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Loving others | John 21:15-25

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | Loving others | John 21:15-25

John 18-21 primarily focus on the arrest, crucifixion, and resurrection of Jesus. In John 21 we read that the disciples went back to fishing. This a common thing for people to return to what is achievable when a perceived failure has occurred. After a horrible night of fishing Jesus appears to the disciples and makes them a meal. John is stressing the point that Jesus resurrected and is giving examples of his encounters with the resurrected Jesus. A primary focus of the second half of John 21 is the restoration of Peter back to the ministry. Jesus has a personal conversation with him that reconfirms his love for Jesus. This conversation is what brings Peter back to ministry. 

1) Think of a time where you wanted to throw in the towel on something (could be work, family, a sport, or ministry). What kept you engaged in that activity? Share details with your group about what kept you from quitting. It could be a Bible verse, a friend, or your spouse. If you did quit, what ultimately led to that decision? 

2) Read John 21:10-14. The disciples had just encountered the most stressful and traumatic week of their life. Their response is to return to fishing. How do you think this meal with Jesus refreshed them on the shoreline of the Sea of Galilee? 

3) While Jesus and Peter are walking down the shoreline Jesus asks Peter three times if Peter loves Him (read John 21:15-17). Even though Peter was hurt by this, how do you think this conversation impacted Peter’s future in ministry? 

4) Jesus told Peter to feed or take care of His sheep. If people are like sheep, how can we show the love of Jesus to those in our circle of influence? Come up with three practical ways your group can love others this week. (see Matthew 22:37-40) 

5) Immediately after Peter is restored to his role as a disciple, Jesus tells him about the kind of death Peter will experience (read John 21:18-23). How can a person glorify God in their life and in their death? What does that practically look like? 

6) Throughout our passage there is line that Jesus repeats: “Follow Me”. This is the same line Jesus said to the disciples in John 1:43. Where are some places you do great at following Jesus and what are some areas you’d like to improve in this area?

7) John concludes the gospel by saying that “Jesus did many other things…” Think about the last year of our time in the Gospel of John. What are some of the things that stand out the most to you? What has shaped your faith the most? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus.