The Faithful Church | Revelation 3:7-13

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Faithful Church | Revelation 3:7-13

This week we continue our series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. This week we look at the church in Philadelphia. This is one of the two churches to not receive a rebuke for their actions. Jesus only has an encouragement and promise for this church. The church in Philadelphia was small and experiencing persecution for their faith. They were a faithful church who lived out both the Greatest Commandment and the Great Commission; they were living on mission in their area for the Gospel. Study these questions to learn more about the church in Philadelphia and reflect together on what Jesus is saying to us today.

1) We don’t often make headlines for the thousands of faithful choices we make each day; only for the ones that go wrong. What does faithfulness to the Lord look like in the everyday life of a healthy Christian? Share a few examples from your own walk.

2) Read Revelation 3:7-8. These verses give us three descriptions of Jesus: holy, true, and holding the keys. Take some time to talk about the importance of each description and how they help us grow in our walk with Jesus. 

3) Revelation 3:8 focuses on Jesus’ ability to open and close doors. Read Isaiah 22:22. 1 Corinthians 16:9, Colossians 4:3, and Psalm 37:23–24. What do these verses teach us about looking for opportunities in the doors Jesus opens and closes? 

4) Read Revelation 3:9-10. Jesus speaks of His power to protect His people. The Church in Philadelphia was facing trials. Can you share a time when Jesus strengthened you during a trial and what made His encouragement meaningful?

5) The church in Philadelphia was a faithful church in an unfaithful world. Read: Acts 2:42–47, Acts 6:3–4, Acts 8:1–4, and 1 Peter 2:9-10. Which qualities of a faithful church stood out to you the most? How can we reflect these in our church today?

6) Read Revelation 3:11-13. In a world that can feel like it’s trying to drown us in pressure, temptation, and disappointment, Jesus tells the church in Philadelphia: “I am coming soon.” How does this encourage you today? 

7) Jesus tells the church to “Hold on!” Read Psalm 16:8, Proverbs 4:25-27, Romans 12:1-2, and Hebrews 12:1-3. Do you have a specific verse that helps anchor your faith in Jesus when discouragement sets in? Share it with the group. 

Close in prayer asking Jesus to make us a faithful church to the end. 

The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Dead Church | Revelation 3:1-6

Today we continue our seven-week series through the letters to the churches in Revelation. These were real churches, just like ours, trying to follow Jesus in difficult and distracting times. This week we looked at the letter to the church in Sardis—a church that, on the outside, looked alive, but Jesus saw the truth: “You are dead.” Sardis receives no praise, only a piercing rebuke, making this one of the strongest warnings in Revelation 2–3. Yet even here, we find a call to hope: Wake up, repent, and return to life. As we discuss this passage together, let’s invite God to examine our hearts, awaken our spirits, and rekindle a passion for His mission in us and through us.

1) We can all fall into spiritual ruts—settling into rhythms that serve our comfort more than Christ's mission. After reflecting on this week’s message, where do you sense you may have grown complacent in your faith?

2) Read Revelation 3:1a. Jesus is actively involved in His Church—He holds it in His hand. Share a time when you saw Jesus working powerfully in our church and were reminded of His presence. 

3) Jesus mentions the Spirit in His message to Sardis. If the Holy Spirit were active and alive in a church, what signs would you expect to see in the lives of the believers and the church there in Sardis? (See Galatians 5:22–26)

4) Read Revelation 3:1b–3. Jesus tells the church to strengthen what remains. As a group, discuss the differences between a living church and a dead church. What stands out to you about the marks of a living church?

5) Read Revelation 3:3. Jesus calls us to remember what we’ve received and heard. How are you currently connecting with God through His Word? Where are you reading in your Bible right now?

6) Read Revelation 3:4–6. Even in Sardis, there were still faithful followers—there was still hope for the church to have an impact. What are some ways you would encourage our church to keep helping people find and follow Jesus?

7) Jesus promises that those who overcome will have their names written in the Lamb’s Book of Life. Read Philippians 4:3, Hebrews 12:23, Revelation 20:12, 15, and Revelation 21:27. What do these passages reveal about the Book of Life and its significance?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week. Pray Psalm 139:23-24 as a group. 

The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group | The Compromising Church | Revelation 2:12-17

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the churches in Revelation. The Roman Emperor Domitian tried to silence John by killing him, but when that failed, he exiled him to the island of Patmos. What Rome meant for isolation, God used for encouragement and revelation. Even in exile, Jesus showed up in power. Pergamum was a significant and influential city, the capital of Asia Minor for nearly 250 years and home to nearly 200,000 residents. It wasn’t just politically powerful, it was spiritually compromised. The people worshiped Caesar and many other false gods. As we study this church, let’s learn how to remain faithful in a compromising culture.

1) Compromise often feels like a shortcut to success or acceptance but it can cost us our integrity or spiritual health. Share a time when you compromised in some area of life. What were the results and what did you learn from this situation?

2) The city of Pergamum was a spiritually dark place with a demonic foothold (Read Revelation 2:12-13). Where do you see spiritual darkness or opposition to faith in  Jesus in our culture today? How should we respond?

3) Jesus encouraged the church to remain true to His name and not renounce their faith in difficult times (following the example of Antipas). What helps you stay faithful to Jesus in the face of pressure or compromise?

4) Read Revelation 2:14-16. Every church has its mistakes or shortcomings. What specific compromises did Jesus call out in Pergamum? How can we, as a church family, guard against those same dangers? What actions can we take today?

5) Jesus rebuked Pergamum for tolerating false teaching in the local church. Read Jude 3, 1 Timothy 4:16, and 2 Timothy 4:3–4. What are some ways we can stay grounded in sound doctrine and avoid being led astray?

6) Read Revelation 2:7, 11, 17. Each of the churches was urged to “hear what the Spirit says.” What helps you recognize and respond to God’s voice in your life? How have you grown in this as you’ve matured in your faith? 

7) Jesus promises the “hidden manna” to those who overcome. Read Isaiah 25:6, Luke 22:30, and Revelation 19:9. What do these passages reveal about the joy and intimacy of feasting with Christ?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

Small Group Questions | Revelation 2:8-11

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Suffering Church | Revelation 2:8-11

Today we continue our sermon series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. The book of Revelation was written by the Apostle John while he was exiled on the Island of Patmos. Most scholars date the letter around 95–96 AD, and it was written to real churches located in what is now modern-day Turkey. While many people associate Revelation with beasts, dragons, and the antichrist, the book begins with something far more personal: Jesus speaking to His Church. This week we study the letter to the church in Smyrna, a suffering church with no rebuke, only hope. Reflect on these questions and consider how Jesus encourages His people to remain faithful in the midst of suffering.

1) The church has always faced suffering and persecution (read Acts 12:1-4). Have you ever been in a situation where standing up for your faith made you uncomfortable or cost you something? What happened?

2) Read Revelation 1:12-16. John has an encounter with the risen Lord and shares with us all the details of what Jesus looks like. Reading at the vivid description of Jesus, what do we learn about our risen Lord and symbols surrounding Him? 

3) Read Revelation 1:17-18 and 2:8. Why do you think Jesus begins by reminding the church in Smyrna that He is "the First and the Last, who died and came to life again"? What does that say to a suffering church? How does that comfort them? 

4) Read Revelation 2:9-10. Jesus tells the church, “I know your affliction and your poverty—yet you are rich!” Too often we mistake what real wealth looks like. Jesus points us to spiritual richness. What does being spiritually rich look like to you? 

5) Neal shared that over 380 million Christians face high levels of persecution today (as of 2024). How does hearing those stats affect the way you think about your own faith or freedoms?

6) Read Revelation 2:11. Jesus tells the early church they will be victorious. What are some practices in our spiritual growth that help us stay connected to Jesus so we can experience this victory in Christ? 

7) Jesus tells the church not to be afraid of suffering and promises they will not be hurt by the second death. What fears are most common in your spiritual life? How can God’s promises strengthen us in those moments?

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

The Loveless Church | Revelation 2:1-7

In late Spring 2025, Coastline began a seven-week journey through the Seven Letters to the Seven Churches in Revelation.When most people think of Revelation, they picture beasts, dragons, strange numbers, and the antichrist. But before all of that, the book opens with something deeply personal: Jesus speaking directly to His Church. This series has been a powerful experience for our congregation—challenging, encouraging, and deeply relevant. As we studied each letter, we created small group questions to help people dive deeper, reflect honestly, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so that others can benefit from them too—whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or walking through Revelation with your church.

Small Group Questions | The Loveless Church | Revelation 2:1-7

Today we begin a brand-new sermon series through the seven letters to the seven churches in Revelation. The book of Revelation was written by the Apostle John while he was on the Island of Patmos. Most scholars think the letter was written about 95-96AD. The letter was written to real churches in Modern Day Turkey. Most people think of Revelation as: beasts, dragons, and the antichrist. That comes later, but first Jesus wants to address His church. Each church finds an encouragement, a rebuke, and a promise. Study these questions and look at what Jesus spoke to the church in Ephesus about their spiritual formation. 

1) In the beginning of the sermon Neal talked about being afraid to read the book of Revelation and that it took him years to finally read it. What three words would you use to describe how you feel (have felt) about the book of Revelation? 

2) Read Revelation 2:1-3. We read that Jesus saw the hard work and serving nature of the church. Read Matthew 5:16, Acts 2:42-47, and Galatians 5:13. What do these verse teach us about the heart behind serving others? How can we live this out? 

3) The church in Ephesus was encouraged for persevering in their faith. Read Hebrews 11:36-40. What does it look like for us, in the church in America, to persevere in our faith this week, month, and year? 

4) Next, Jesus moves to a rebuke for the church (read Revelation 2:4). What does it mean to lose our love for Christ? How can we recognize that drift early—and what helps us return to the “wild love” of God? 

5) Read Revelation 2:5-6. Jesus invites this church to consider how far they fell. As a group come up with a list of five to ten examples of people in the Bible who also fell from their faith. What, if anything, brought about their restoration? 

6) The church is instructed to repent and do the things they did at first. Share with your group when you felt like your faith was the strongest and most passionate. What did that time look like and how do you return to that type of faith? 

7) Read Revelation 2:7. The promise for the church in Ephesus is to hear the voice of the Spirit and eat from the tree of life. Read 1 Samuel 3:10, John 10:27, Romans 8:14, and Hebrews 3:7–8. What do these verses teach us about the power of hearing the voice of God in our daily life? 

Close in prayer, asking God to rekindle your love for Him this week 

Atonement | 2 Corinthians 5:21

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Atonement | 2 Corinthians 5:21

For the final week of our Solid Ground sermon series we looked at: Atonement. We can define Atonement as: The work Christ did in his life and death to earn our salvation. For eight weeks we’ve been talking about building our lives on Jesus as the foundation of our lives. In Matthew 7, Jesus taught what it looks like to build our homes on solid ground and not on sinking sand. Jesus used the illustration of a home as a metaphor for our spiritual lives. Today we’ll see how Jesus took our sins upon Him so we could be the righteousness of God. We’ll see that Jesus conquered death and that because He is alive we can have life in Him.

1) Pastor Neal started our sermon by talking about what Easter was like for him as a child. Think backing to your childhood, what are some of your favorite memories or special things you really enjoyed as a child on Easter? 

2) Read 2 Corinthians 5:21 and Ephesians 2:16. Paul taught the church about how Jesus became sin so we could become the righteousness of God. Discuss the power of Jesus reconciling us back to God. 

3) Jesus didn’t just remove what’s broken, He gave us something brand new and that is life in Him. Share with your group something that Jesus has made new in your life and how that makes life with Him so special. 

4) In Luke 24:1-12 we read about the Tomb being empty. The disciples came to examine the tomb and they find no evidence of Jesus being there. What evidence of Jesus has helped encourage your faith the most? 

5) Read John 3:16-16. The Scriptures teach us that Jesus came to bring us back into right relationship with God. Share about a time in your life when you vividly remember Jesus restoring your relationship with God. 

6) In Luke 24:13-35 we see two of the disciples are completely hopeless. They are so dejected they leave Jerusalem. Share about a time in your life when things didn’t go your way and it hurt your faith in God. 

7) On the road to Emmaus Jesus uses the Old Testament Scriptures to encourage the disciples in their faith. Read Psalm 119:11, 105, Hebrews 4:12 and 2 Timothy 3:16. Share about how reading God’s word has changed your life. 

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand glorification. 

Glorification | Philippians 3:20-21

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Glorification | Philippians 3:20-21

Today we’re in week six of an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. In Matthew 7 Jesus taught the listeners about the power of building their home on a solid foundation. This series is all about making sure our spiritual life is built on Jesus. Today we come to the doctrine of Glorification which causes us to think about heaven and what happens to our earthly bodies as we transition to our eternal home. Here’s a short definition of Glorification— when God completes His work in us. Making us fully like Jesus; perfect, eternal, and whole. Glorification gives us a hope for heaven but we also know there is suffering on this earth. 

1) Our sermon started with what we learn about heaven from the culture around us; it might be from cartoons or characters of God. When you were growing up what shaped your view of Heaven? How has that changed over time? 

2) Read Philippians 3:20-21. Paul taught the believers in Philippi that they are now citizens of heaven (see Ephesians 2:19, John 17:14-16, and Hebrews 11:13-16). What stands out to you about the idea that our citizenship is in heaven?

3) Paul taught the early church that our future glory changes how we live now. He pointed them to eternal thinking. What’s one area of your life that would look different if you truly lived with eternity in mind? How can begin living this out this week? 

4) Read Romans 8:17-18. We learned that we are adopted as children of God and heirs of God’s Kingdom. That means we have something to look forward to in eternity. How does being a child of God change how you live today? 

5) Paul and other New Testament writers teach us that our suffering plays a part in our hope for Heaven (read Romans 5:3–5, James 1:2–4, and Hebrews 12:10–11). Share with your group a story when you suffered and how it shaped you. 

6) In 1 Corinthians 15:42-44 we learned about four contrasting words that help us understand our heavenly bodies. Read this passage and talk about the four contrasting images Paul taught the early church. What do they mean for us?   

7) Jesus’ resurrected body gives us an example of what our resurrected bodies will look like. Read Luke 24:28-32 and John 20:26-27 and 21:4-9. What do these passages teach us about Jesus’ resurrected body? 

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand glorification. 

Regeneration | Titus 3:3-8

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Regeneration | Titus 3:3-8 

Today we’re in week three of our eight-week sermon series called Solid Ground. This series is all about building our lives on a firm spiritual foundation. What if true change wasn’t just about trying harder but about becoming completely new? This Sunday, we’re diving into the incredible truth of regeneration—how God doesn’t just improve us, He transforms us. Through the story of a rockstar’s radical faith and the journey of C.S. Lewis from atheism to belief, we’ll see how God takes even the most reluctant hearts and makes them new. Don’t miss this powerful message of hope, renewal, and the life-changing work of Christ in us. Join us and discover what it truly means to be made new!

1) The sermon started with the story of Brian Welch, a man whose life was radically changed by God. Think about your own journey, what was your life like before you encountered Christ? What changes have you seen since then?

2)Regeneration is completely a work of God. Read John 1:12-13 and Ezekiel 36:26. What do these passages teach us about being born again? Why is it important to understand that we play no active role in our own regeneration?

3) Before we experience regeneration, sin holds a powerful grip on our lives. Read Titus 3:3 and discuss how sin influences people’s thoughts, actions, choices and relationships. Where did sin once have control over your life?

4) In Titus 3:4-5 we learn that salvation comes not because of our righteousness but because of God’s kindness and mercy. How have you experienced God’s kindness in your life? How does His mercy change the way we view others?

5) Read Titus 3:5-6, John 3:5-8, and 1 Peter 1:3. What do these passages say about the role of Jesus and the Holy Spirit in our regeneration? How can we be more aware of the Spirit’s work in our daily lives? 

6) Regeneration isn’t just about forgiveness, it’s about becoming a completely new person in Christ. Read 2 Corinthians 5:17. What does it mean to live as a new creation? What are some practical ways we can reflect this transformation in our everyday lives?

7) C.S. Lewis, once an atheist, was transformed by Christ and became a powerful advocate for the gospel. Who in your life needs to hear about the power of regeneration? Take a moment to pray for them and discuss how you can share your faith with them this week.

Close your time in prayer, thanking God for His transformative power in your lives. 

 

The Trinity | Genesis 1:1-3

Starting in March 2025 Coastline began an eight-week sermon series called: Solid Ground. The series is based on Matthew 7 where Jesus encouraged the listeners to build their home on a firm foundation. For this series we're looking at some of the most important Christian Doctrines. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | The Trinity | Genesis 1:1-3 

Today we’re in week two of our eight-week sermon series called Solid Ground. This series is all about building our lives on a firm spiritual foundation. Our theme verse comes from Matthew 7, where Jesus teaches us to build our lives on the rock instead of the shifting sand. We live in a world filled with all kinds of ideas about God; some rooted in truth and others way off base. One of the most important doctrines of the Christian faith is the Trinity. The Trinity is the belief that God exists as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. For some, this may be familiar, while for others, it feels like a confusing mystery. Take some time today to walk through the questions on the Trinity with your group. 

1) The sermon started explaining topics of conversation we are good at having vs. areas we know little about. As we approach the Trinity, quickly have your group share their confidence in being able to describe the Trinity.

2) The concept of the Trinity is present throughout Scripture but “The Trinity”, in written form like this, is never mentioned in Scripture. Read these passages and talk about the Trinity: Genesis 1:1-3, 26-27, Isaiah 6:8, and Matthew 28:18-20. 

3) We looked at Four words to help us understand the Trinity: One— There is only one God, Three— This one God exists as three persons, Diversity— Each person of the Trinity is distinct and Unity— The Trinity functions in perfect harmony. What part of this was most helpful to you? 

4) The Trinity is hard to explain and Christians have used human examples like: the egg, the shamrock, and water. Have you heard any other illustrations that would be helpful in explaining the Trinity to someone? 

5) All throughout the New Testament we see the unity of the Trinity. Read Matthew 3:16–17, John 14:16–17, 2 Corinthians 13:14, and Ephesians 2:18. How do these verses help us see the unity in the Trinity? 

6) In our Christian faith the Trinity matters. Read Romans 5:5–6, Galatians 4:4–6, Ephesians 3:14–19, and 1 John 4:13–14. Discuss how these verses show God expresses His great love to us. What stands out to you? 

7) Part of being loved by God is loving others. Come up with a list of five potential ways you can personally show the love of God to others this week. Next have everyone in your group one way they be intentional to work on this week.  

Close your time in prayer asking for God to help you understand His triune nature. 

Love Your Kids | Ephesians 6:1-4

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love Your Kids | Ephesians 6:1-4

This month, we’re dedicating our time to exploring Biblical love. On Sunday, we talked  about the role of love in parenting: a calling that requires patience, guidance, and grace. In Ephesians 6:1-4, Paul teaches that parenting is about both instruction and nurture, balancing discipline with encouragement. Just as God lovingly leads us, parents are called to lead their children with wisdom, consistency, and a heart that reflects Christ’s love. Parenting can look different for everyone. Our church includes people in various stages of life: parents, grandparents, future parents, and those who support families. As you discuss, please be mindful and sensitive to each person’s experiences.

1) What is one moment from your childhood when you felt deeply loved by a parent or guardian? What specifically made you feel loved? How can we apply those principles in our own parenting or relationships? 

2) Read Ephesians 6:1-3. Paul connects obedience to parents with enjoying long life.  Thinking about your relationship with your parents, how have you seen obedience their instruction in your life lead to blessings in your life?

3) The New Testament offers us a variety of examples of parenting. Read Matthew 3:16-17. At the baptism of Jesus we read about an affirming time for Jesus. Talk about the power of encouraging our children. 

4) Read Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21. Paul warns fathers not to exasperate their children. What are some ways that parents (or authority figures) can unintentionally discourage or embitter children?

5) In the sermon we learned about three ways to ruin a child: Being Overbearing, Being Permissive, or Being Inconsistent. How does your parenting impact your children? Have you modeled a consistent parenting style?

6) Read Deut 6:4-9. Moses instructed God’s people to impress these commandments on their children. What are ways we can enter into spiritual conversations this week? What one thing do you want to focus on this week? 

7) In Matthew 17:14-20 we learned about a father who was willing to do anything for his son and desperate for life change. What is one way you can bring your children to the feet of Jesus this week to be in His presence? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Love Your Spouse | Ephesians 5:21-33

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love Your Spouse | Ephesians 5:21-33

This month, we’re dedicating our time to exploring Biblical love. On Sunday, we focused on the marriage relationship, which requires submission, sacrifice, and communication—exactly what Paul teaches in Ephesians 5:21-33. This passage can sometimes make people uncomfortable because of its discussion on submission, but when we view it through the lens of Christ’s love, we see that submission isn’t about power, it’s about serving one another with humility and love. Since our church is comprised of people in various stages of life and relationships, some questions may resonate more than others. As you discuss, please be mindful and sensitive to each person’s experiences.

1) The sermon started with a viral story about Otou Katayama who acted extremely childish in his marriage. What are some childish things you’ve seen couples do in their relationship that leaves you shaking your head?  

2) Read Ephesians 5:21. Paul commands married couples to submit to each other out of reverence for Christ. The word submit can get a bad reputation in marriage. How can married couples show a profound respect for each other? 

3) To fully understand the marriage relationship we need to look back to creation. Read Genesis 1:26-27 and 2:20-25. Focusing on these two verses, what do we learn about the way God created mankind in His imagine and the role of marriage?  

4) In Acts we learned about the couple Priscilla and Aquila. Read Acts 18:1-3 and 18-19. What lessons can we draw from this married couple about supporting each other in the gifting God has given to husbands and wives? 

5) Scripture provides us some cautionary tales of marriage. David and Michal’s marriage is one that lacked spiritual unity. Read 1 Samuel 19:10-17 and 2 Samuel 6:16-23. What can we learn from this couple about having a healthy marriage? 

6) Read Ephesians 5:22-33. Paul teaches married couples how to interact with each other in a Godly way. As a group, pull out several examples of what a healthy marriage looks like and discuss how you could move in that relational direction. 

7) For those who are married, come up with a list of several ways you can love and respect your spouse this week. Examples can range from praying for each other, reading Scripture together, or planning a date. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Love God | Mark 12:28-30

The month of February is a time when love is in the air! "I love you" might be the most sentence in the English language... in any language. For the month of February we're focusing in on love. We're doing a sermon series titled: "I love you". In this series we'll look at four unique relationships: Loving God, loving others, loving our spouse, and loving our kids. It seemed like a great idea to share the small group questions here incase you'd like to study one of these topics more. 

Small Group Questions | Love God | Mark 12:28-30 

On Sunday we kicked off a brand-new sermon series called “I Love You.” These three simple words carry incredible power; they can heal wounds, bring comfort, and soften even the hardest hearts. Today we begin this series by looking at the most important relationship in our entire life, our relationship with God. The Bible is filled with reminders of God’s deep love for us, but what about our love for Him? In Mark 12, Jesus has a conversation about the greatest commandment, and it all starts with making sure our love is directed toward the right place. As we dive into today’s discussion, let’s take a moment to reflect on what it truly means to love God with our entire being 

1) We live in a world longing for love. Share a time when you felt fully loved by family, friends, or God. Take some time to describe the details of that situation, experience, or time with your group. What made it so special?  

2) Read Mark 12:13 and 18. While Jesus is teaching in the Temple courts two groups try to trap Him with their questions. How can we approach Jesus more like the teacher of the law looking to learn from Jesus? 

3) Read Mark 12:28-30. Jesus invites us to love God with our entire heart. Read Matthew 6:19-24. What are some things that compete for your heart’s devotion? What steps can you take to realign your heart to love God fully?

4) Jesus taught us to love God with all our soul. Read Psalm 19:7, 42:2, and 119:8. In today’s fast-paced world, what are some challenges that keep us from caring for our soul, and how can we overcome them?

5) Read Mark 12:30 once more. Jesus teaches us to love God with all our mind. Read 2 Corinthians 10:5 and Romans 12:1-2. What are some distractions or thought patterns that pull us away from this? What are three practical ways you can love God with your mind this week?

6) Read Deuteronomy 6:4-5. Loving God with all our strength means using our time, energy, and abilities for His glory. What does this look like in everyday life? How can you love God with all your strength this week?

7) As you look back on the passages we studied this week, what is God speaking to you about loving Him with your entire being?  

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Serving Others | Matthew 25:31-40

The month of January seems like a great time to get our priorities straight again! For January Coastline Bible Church started a four-week sermon series called; "The Church." In this series we talked about how the church is a living, breathing, organism, on mission for God. We looked what makes the church unique and the role God's people play in the church. We had small group questions for two of the weeks and it made sense to keep sharing them here. 

Small Group Questions | Serving Others | Matthew 25:31-40

Throughout January we’re exploring four key aspects that make the church truly unique. One idea we’ve emphasized in this series is that the church is not merely an organization but a living, breathing organism—a unique community of people on mission for God. This week, we’ll focus on how serving sets the church apart. Think of serving like eating your vegetables: when you’re spiritually immature, you might resist serving because you see life as centered on yourself. But as you grow in your faith, serving others becomes something you eagerly look forward to. Together, we’ll explore an invitation to serve others, our responsibility to serve within the church, and the joy that comes from serving.

1) In the introduction to the sermon Neal gave us an example of how much he disliked eating his vegetables as a kid but learned to eat them as an adult. Thinking of this analogy, how do you feel about serving others? Is it a joy for you or difficult?  

2) Read Matthew 25:31-40. While sitting on the Mount of Olives Jesus taught on several things. One was what would happen when He returned to earth. How does this passage inspire you to live out your faith through serving? 

3) Serving is a practical way to live out our faith. But we live in a fast-paced, schedule paced, world. Take some time as a group to share what holds you back from serving others; it could be time constrains, fears, health issues, or more. 

4) Read Romans 12:6-8. Paul wrote to the church in Rome with this encouragement to serve others. Thinking back on your life, what do you think some of your gifts are to serve the church? Where have people affirmed these gifts in your life? 

5) Look over the entire chapter of 1 Corinthians 12. Paul teaches the early church about the different gifts God has given us. What do we learn about deploying our gifts to serve the church in these passages? 

6) Read 1 Peter 4:8-11. Peter taught the early church about the using whatever gifts they have to faithfully serve the church. Where would you like to grow in the understanding and use of your gifts? 

7) As a group, think of several ways you can serve others this coming week or month. Come up with a list to help you have several ideas and commit to doing those. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Following God | 1 Kings 19:15-21

This Fall our church is preaching through the life of Elijah. We had some great guests start the series out as I was on sabbatical but now that I'm back I want to share these small group questions with you. The life of Elijah is a story of encouragement to life for God when others around you might be living an ungodly life. Elijah learns to deeply depend on God to meet all his needs. His life is a life lived by faith; no retirement plan, no 401K, and no vacation policy. Elijah stands up to point God's people back to their true King during a dark time in the life of Israel. Study these questions by yourself or with others to grow in your faith! 

Small Group Questions | Following God | 1 Kings 19:15-21

Elijah was a prophet in Israel during the terrifying reign of Ahab and Jezebel. Elijah stood up for God when it seemed like many others were bowing to the idols of the day.  In 1 Kings 19 we read how Elijah was disappointed in the spiritual state of Israel. He was exhausted and felt alone. While meeting with God, Elijah is recommissioned to ministry. God gives Elijah clear instructions on his successor. Immediately Elijah goes and invites Elisha to ministry. Elisha is literally willing to burn all his bridges to follow Elijah and this call of God on his life. Study these questions to see where God is calling you to invest in the lives of others for the sake of the Kingdom. 

1) We all have someone who has made a significant impact on our life. This could be a sports coach, an employer, or someone in the church. Looking back, what made this relationship so unique and so impactful in your life?  

2) Read 1 Kings 19:15-18. Elijah was concerned with the spiritual state of Israel and felt alone. We read that God reserved 7000 who had not participated in idol worship. What are some idols that you can easily turn to in your daily life? 

3) We read how God instructed Elijah to anoint Elisha as his successor. The Bible has several stories of leadership transitions (read Deuteronomy 31:7-8, 1 Samuel 10:1, and Acts 1:8). What do these transitions teach us about God’s plan for His people? 

4) Read 1 Kings 19:19-20. Elijah is obedient to find Elisha and invite him to become his successor. Elisha is obedient to follow after Elijah. When thinking about the obedience of these two men, who holds you back from fully obeying God? 

5) The word “kiss” is used only twice in 1 Kings. The people would kiss the idol as their way to associate with idol worship. What is the modern day version of this? For example what do we do to signify our allegiance to God? 

6) Read 1 Kings 19:21. Elisha literally burns all his bridges and invites his neighbors so they will know what he is planning on doing. What are some things that hold you back from following Jesus and how can you get rid of them from your life? 

7) Pastor Neal said that we are a church with Elijah’s and Elisha’s. What one of these people do you resonate with more? How will you take the application of the sermon to invest your life into someone or find someone to disciple you? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

United | John 17

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone. 

Small Group Questions | United  | John 17

Life can sometimes feel like the game of Jenga. Pieces are moving, things are unstable, and who knows what will happen next! In John 13-17, Jesus teaches the disciples in a famous part of Scripture known as the Upper Room Discourse. Today we come to John 17 and finish the Upper Room Discourse. For the last several chapters Jesus has taught on love, serving others, and the Kingdom of God. Today we come to a beautiful passage in Scripture where Jesus prays for the disciples and prays for us. Jesus prays for you. As we study John 17 we will see how Jesus longs for us to be united in this world that so easily causes division.

1) The sermon started with an example from the game of Jenga. Thinking about this example, share about what are some of the most vital parts of your spiritual life. How do you see the unity of the game of Jenga as an example of your spiritual growth? 

2) Read John 16:1-5. Jesus main desire was to bring glory to the Father (Read John 1:1-5). How does the relationship between God and Jesus encourage you to have a healthy relationship with your heavenly Father? 

3) Neal said: “If God answered all your prayers from the last week, would the world be a better place?” How did this make you think of your prayer life? Read these verses to help the discussion: Matthew 5:44, Ephesians 6:18, and Colossians 1:9. 

4) Read John 17:6-19. Jesus prays for the disciples to be protected after He departs back to the Father. What are some of the troubles that the disciples would encounter after Jesus’ ascended back to Heaven? (see Acts 12:2, 14:19-20, and 1 Peter 1:1-2).

5) While on earth Jesus was intentional to invest Himself into the disciples. Who are some of the people who’ve invested in your spiritual life? What did they teach you and how can you follow their lead to invest into others? (see Matthew 28:18-20). 

6) Read John 17:20-26. Jesus prayed for you to stay strong in a hostile world and for unity in the local church. In your group come up with five practical ways that you can help promote unity in the local church. 

7) Thinking of the entirety of John 17, how does this chapter impact your prayer life? Share with your group a handful of ways you want to grow in your prayer life and what will need to change for that to take place. 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Evidence of The Spirit | John 15:26-16:15

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | Evidence of The Spirit  | John 15:26-16:15

All of us have been in a place in our life where we needed help from someone. In our passage today Jesus continues to explain to the disciples His departure and the sending of the Holy Spirit. The upper room discourse is the final teaching of Jesus that we have before He went to the cross. Much of the teaching is focused on loving others and spreading the Gospel. Jesus teaches the disciples about the coming of the Holy Spirit and what that means for their lives. We’re going to see how The Spirit is the spirit of truth, that it’s actually good for us for Jesus to return to heaven, and how we can walk in the truth of God.

1) Thinking about the last couple of months, when have you needed help with something in your life? It might help with a project around the house, something at work, or your taxes. Share how you asked for help in this situation. 

2) Read John 15:26-27. Jesus promised to send the Holy Spirit and that the Spirit would guide us in all truth. Share with your group at least one truth that you have learned from following Jesus that you didn’t live in before trusting Jesus. 

3) Neal took some time to teach us about: Relative and Absolute truth. What is the downside of a culture that continues to push relative truth? How can we, as believers, help people to see the Absolute truth of Jesus? 

4)Read John 16:1-5. Jesus has been extremely repetitive in His teaching. Look back in the previous couple of chapters of John and share with your group what you see in this repetition. Why is this repetition important for our Christian walk? 

5) Jesus promised that His departure would bring the presence of the Holy Spirit (read John 16:7). How do you walk daily in the presence of the Holy Spirit? If you struggle with this, share how you’d like to walk more in the presence of the Holy Spirit for life change. 

6) Jesus said the Holy Spirit would: convict us of sin, teach us about righteous living, and be the rational for judgement. Talk about how this progression leads to life change as you follow Jesus. 

7) Read Acts 2:36-41. After Jesus has ascended back into heaven we read this powerful account of the Holy Spirit at work. Where do you want to see the Holy Spirit move in a powerful way in your life and our church family? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

A Cautionary Tale | John 15:18–25

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | A Cautionary Tale  | John 15:18–25

Growing up many of us were told ‘cautionary tales’. This could have been not to eat watermelon seeds, swallow bubble gum, or to go outside with wet hair. For the last couple of weeks, in the Gospel of John, we’ve seen this reoccurring theme of love. Jesus instructed them to keep His commands as a way to show their love for Jesus. Today we have a turn in our passage. Today Jesus is going to tell them that the world is going to hate them. It’s a cautionary tale but one that will come true. Jesus is preparing for them for what will happen to them for following Him. Jesus wants them to know that those who follow Him will endure persecution and be hated.

1) Think of some of the cautionary tales you were told as a kid. It might have been, about food, facial features, swimming, what happens with food, or something else. Share one of your favorites from your childhood with the group. 

2) Read John 15:18-19. Jesus told the disciples they would be hated by the world for two reasons: They are not of the world and They identify with Jesus. As someone who identifies with Jesus do you feel like the world hates you for following Jesus? 

3) Think historically for this question: Much of Christianity has experienced persecution for following Jesus. Share some things that seem like persecution and then share things that are really examples of persecution. 

4) Have everyone in the group take out their phone and do some quick research on global statistics for persecution and martyrdom against Christians. What does the research data show about persecution that is happening right now? Thinking of these statistics: what surprises you most and what saddens you the most? 

5) Read John 15:20-25. Jesus was hated by the world for His words and His works. What are the works of Jesus that are so off-putting to those in the world? What do we like the least about our sin being brought into the light? 

6) Most of the American church has yet to experience persecution yet. When you think of this passage, what are you most fearful about if persecution does come to the American church? How do you think you will respond when it comes? 

7) Neal used an illustration of a ladder to explain how we try to straddle the things of the world while walking with Jesus. What are some things of the world that you want to let go of so you can cling more to Jesus this year? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Three Choices | John 13:18-38

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | Three Choices  | John 13:18-38

Today we’re moving back into the Gospel of John. In John 1 we’re introduced to Jesus as the Son of God. These are some of the most elevated statements about Jesus in the entire New Testament. Next, in John 2-10 the primary focus is on the miracles, signs, teaching, and controversies surrounding Jesus. We see Jesus turn water into wine, feed the masses, and teach like no one has ever taught. Next, in John 11-12 we read that Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead. Jesus puts Himself in harms way to heal His friends. It’s a selfless act of love. All of this leads us to John 13 where we start the upper room discourse where Jesus gives the disciples a new command to love. 

1) When you heard the story of the elementary boy who made his own T-shirt for the college color day at his school what did you think? Did the story bring up any emotion or thoughts for you about loving others and how to do that better? 

2) In John 13 Jesus gives the disciples a new command to love each other (Read John 13:34-35). This command was given to those who follow Jesus. What makes it easy to love some people and what makes it challenging to love others? 

3) As we think about loving others what are some lessons you’ve learned that have helped you love others? Read these passages and use them as prompt to help you love others (1 Corinthians 13:4, Romans 13:8, Philippians 2:3, and Mathew 5:43-48)  

4) The opposite of love is to betray a person. Judas had already struck a deal with the religious leaders to hand Jesus over (read John 13:18-30). What do you think are the small choices that Judas made to come to this big decision to betray Jesus? 

5) Being betrayed might be one of the most heart wrenching things that can happen to us in life. If you’re willing to share about a time you were betrayed and how you dealt with that. When betrayal happens, how can you turn to Jesus who also knows what it’s like to be betrayed? 

6) Near the end of our passage Jesus predicts Peter’s upcoming denial (read John 13:36-38). Peter is a man who is zealous for Jesus and can’t fathom this happening. What happens in our life that lead to us slowly walking away from Jesus? 

7) When you think about the entirety of this passage what stands out most to you? Do you think you’re in a spot where you would betray Jesus, are you considering denying Jesus? Where can you grow in your love for others this week?  

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

Prepare for the King | John 12:1-19

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | Prepare for the King | John 12:1-19

John 1-11 focus on the life, ministry, and miracles of Jesus. John does a great job at showing us the powerful work of Jesus in Israel. In those chapters we’ve seen: Jesus call the disciples, Jesus feed thousands of people, the blind are healed, the dead have been raised, and the Jewish leaders are not happy. John 12 serves as a transitional chapter from the miracles of Jesus to the final week of Jesus’ life on earth. John focuses our attention on the coming King. We see Jesus anointed by Mary and praised by the crowd. It’s evident that the good news of Jesus is spreading far and wide. Study these questions to see how your understanding of Jesus drives your worship of Jesus. 

1) The Westminster Shorter Catechism says: “Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.” When you think about worshipping God what is your go to? In other words, what is your favorite way to worship God? 

2) Read John 12:1-3. Our passage begins with a story of Mary anointing Jesus. Many scholars think this was in preparation for His upcoming burial. Thinking of her actions, what worldly possession would it be hard for you to give up for Jesus? 

3) Read John 12:4-6. Take some time, as a group, to look at the difference in Mary’s action and Judas desires. Compare the way both people responded to Jesus and what they teach us about worshipping Jesus. 

4) In the Gospel of John we often find Mary at the feet of Jesus (see John 11:32). Her understanding of Jesus drove her worship of Jesus. Neal taught us that the modern equivalent is reading our Bible. Where are you currently reading your Bible and how is that growing your walk with Jesus? 

5) The crowd had an understanding of Jesus that surpassed their expectations, hence they chose to worship Jesus (read John 12:12-16). What would it take for you to be interrupted, change your plans, and focus all your attention on worshipping Jesus? 

6) Read John 12:9-11. We read that many of the Jews began to believe in Jesus because of the miracles that Jesus was accomplishing. Where have you seen Jesus show up and do a miracle in your life? How did that strengthen your faith? 

7) Read John 12:17-19. The crowd continued sharing the good news of Jesus with those around them. Studies show that over half of Christians have never shared their faith. What holds you back from sharing your faith? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus. 

When Confusion Abounds | John 7:25-53

The Gospel of John is a unique and powerful account of the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Written by John, one of Jesus' closest disciples, this gospel presents a deep and thoughtful perspective on the person and work of Jesus. Unlike the other three gospels, which are known as the Synoptic Gospels and focus on Jesus' actions and teachings, John's gospel emphasizes the spiritual and theological significance of Jesus' life and ministry. For this series I will write some of the small group questions that go along with each sermon. It seemed like a waste to leave them in a file on my computer and not share them with everyone.

Small Group Questions | When Confusion Abounds | John 7:25-53

Earlier in John 7 we saw that three different groups of people were confused on who Jesus is. As we continue in John 7 we’re going to see that confusion about Jesus remains. His teaching in the first half of the chapter didn’t clear up the confusion. In our passage today we read that Jesus interacts with three groups of people. Keep your eyes open for the crowd, the guards, and the Pharisees. We’re going to see how each of these groups interact with Jesus and how their confusion actually creates more confusion. In the midst of their confusion there is hope because we find that through Jesus teaching many come to believe in Him as the Messiah. 

1) “It’s all Greek to me!” is a common phrase when we don’t understand something. Share about at time in your life when you had a hard time comprehending something you needed to learn. How did this situation play out? 

2) Read John 7:25-31. The crowd asks three different questions concerning Jesus. The questions show us the crowd has a desire to learn about Jesus. What one of these questions do you most resonate with? 

3) In John 7:31 we read a great result of Jesus’ teaching. There are several times in Scripture when many believe (read Acts 2:41 and 9:31). What would it look like to see those you’ve been praying for come to Jesus this week? 

4) The Pharisees were intent on arresting Jesus (read John 7:32-36). Jesus came to tilt our chins towards heaven and keep us focused on spiritual matters. Share a time in your life where you got fixated on the physical world and missed the spiritual.    

5) Read John 7:37-39. During the Festival of Tabernacles water was an important part. For Jesus to say that He would offer rivers of living water would be massive! Where have you been drinking of the world and need to drink from the rivers of Jesus? 

6) Jesus promised an outpouring of the Holy Spirit. In the Old Testament the Spirit would come on people for a time, event, or occasion. But Jesus promised the Holy Spirit to us (read John 14:16, 26, 15:26-27, and 16:7). What do these passages teach us about the Holy Spirit? 

7) Near the end of the chapter we see Nicodemus is a voice of reason (read John 7:50-51). Who is a voice of reason in your life? A person who constantly keeps you focused on the truth of God in a confusing world? 

Close your time in prayer. Pray for strength to invite a friend to meet Jesus.