Small Group Questions | Trust in God Alone | Isaiah 36-37

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Trust in God Alone | Isaiah 36-37

In Isaiah 36–37, we see God’s people facing intense pressure, fear, and uncertainty. A powerful enemy stands before them, using intimidation and lies to shake their confidence in God. In many ways, this mirrors our own lives where voices of fear, doubt, and uncertainty can feel loud and overwhelming. King Hezekiah had a choice: trust in his own strength or run to God. Instead of giving in to fear, he brought his concerns directly to the Lord in prayer. This passage reminds us that when life feels unstable, God invites us to come to Him; not with polished words, but with honest dependence. Study this passage as a group and talk about what it looks like to trust God fully. 

1) When you think back to your childhood, did you ever encounter someone who tried to intimidate or pressure others (like a “bully”)? How did people typically respond?

2) Read Isaiah 36:1-10. The Assyrian Field Commander, Rabshakeh, tries to install fear into the lives of God’s people. When you read this passage what tactics did he use to intimate God’s people? (see Genesis 3:1-5 and John 8:44

3) What are some voices in your life that try to install fear into your life? When do you find those voices to be the loudest and how have you been able to hear the voice of the Lord over those intimating voices? 

4) Read Isaiah 37:1–7. What stands out to you about how Hezekiah responds when faced with fear? How is his response different from how we typically react under pressure? (see Joshua 1:9, Psalm 34:4, and Philippians 4:6-7). 

5) Hezekiah not only goes to the temple but also seeks out Isaiah. Why is it important to involve others when we’re struggling? Who are the people in your life you can go to when things feel overwhelming? (see Hebrews 10:24-25 and Galatians 6:2). 

6) Read Isaiah 37:14-20. Hezekiah prays in three parts: recognizing God’s greatness, sharing his problem, and asking for help. How might your prayer life change if you followed this pattern of prayer? (see Psalm 5:3, 20:7, and 62:8)

7) God ultimately delivers His people in Isaiah 37. What is one area of your life right now where you need to stop trying to control the situation and instead run to God? What would that look like practically this week?

Close your time in prayer asking God to show you how to live an obedient life. 

Small Group Questions | The Coming King | Isaiah 7-11

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Coming King | Isaiah 7-11

In Isaiah 7–11 we see a fearful nation, a king who fails to trust God, and a powerful promise from God to send a better King. Through these chapters, Isaiah points God’s people beyond political fear, spiritual darkness, and human weakness to the coming Messiah. Jesus would be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace. This passage reminds us that when earthly leaders fail and life feels uncertain, our hope is found in Jesus alone. As you discuss the questions below, share honestly on where you are tempted to place your trust, how Christ meets you in your fears, and what it means to live each day under the True King.

1) Neal started the sermon by sharing a gardening experience that surprised him when a plant came back, something he thought was dead was really still alive. Share a time in your life where God surprised you in your faith journey. 

2) Read Isaiah 7:1-4. King Ahaz trusted political alliances instead of trusting in God which resulted in a fearful nation. What are some modern equivalents to trusting in the king instead of trusting in God? (Joshua 1:9, Psalm 20:7 and Jeremiah 17:5–8).

3) Read Isaiah 7:14 and Matthew 1:22–23. The prophecy of the Virgin Birth points us to Jesus the: “Immanuel—God with us”. How does this truth change the way we view God and go about our daily lives? (see John 1:14 and Hebrews 4:14–16)

4) Read Isaiah 9:2. Isaiah describes a people who were walking in darkness and saw a great light. What kind of darkness do people, in the church and outside the church, experience today? (see John 8:12, Ephesians 5:8–9, and 1 Peter 2:9)

5) Read Isaiah 9:6. Isaiah gives four titles for the Coming King. Which title of Jesus do you most need right now: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, or Prince of Peace? Why? (see Colossians 2:3, John 14:27, and Hebrews 13:8)

6) Read Isaiah 11:1. The “stump of Jesse” shows that God brings life from what looks dead. Share with your group where you see Jesus doing a new thing in your life right now and how that spiritual formation is taking place (see Isaiah 43:19). 

7) Read Isaiah 11:2-3. Isaiah describes the Spirit resting on the coming King. How did Jesus demonstrate these qualities: wisdom, counsel, knowledge, and the fear of the Lord during His ministry? Find verses in the New Testament to support your claim. 

Close your time in prayer asking God show you how to trust Him fully. 

Small Group Questions | Holy, Holy, Holy | Isaiah 6:1-13

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Holy, Holy, Holy | Isaiah 6:1-13

In Isaiah 6 we see a powerful moment in the life of Isaiah. When he encounters the holiness of God, while serving in the Temple, everything changes. Isaiah becomes aware of his own sin, receives cleansing from the Lord, and then willingly offers himself to serve God’s mission. This passage reminds us that our view of God shapes the way we see ourselves and the way we live our lives. When we see God rightly, we offer ourselves fully. As you discuss the questions below, take time to reflect on how Isaiah’s experience connects with your own journey of faith. Ask God to help you see Him more clearly and to respond with humility, gratitude, and willingness to serve.

1) Neal shared a story about volunteering to help coach his son’s baseball team that led to years of coaching baseball. Share about a time you volunteered to help with your kids, community, or church. How did that serving role go for you? 

2) Read Isaiah 6:1-4. Isaiah’s encounter with God begins in a moment of uncertainty for Israel. How do times of uncertainty or transition in life sometimes make us more aware of our need for God? (read Psalm 46:1–3 and Hebrews 12:28)

3) Isaiah had a unique encounter with the Lord. What stands out to you about Isaiah’s description of God’s throne room, the song singing “Holy, Holy, Holy” and the shaking of the temple? (read Exodus 15:11, Psalm 99:1–3, and Revelation 4:8)

4) Read Isaiah 6:5. Isaiah’s immediate reaction to the holiness of God is, “Woe is me!”. Why do you think encountering God’s holiness makes Isaiah aware of his sin and how have you seen this to be true in your life? (Luke 5:8–11 and Job 42:5–6)

5) Isaiah confesses that he has “unclean lips” and lives among people with unclean lips. Why is confession an important part of our relationship with God? Did this sermon prompt you to confess something hidden in your life to God? 

6) Read Isaiah 6:6-8. Notice that God takes the initiative to cleanse Isaiah and prepare him for ministry. What does this teach us about God’s grace and forgiveness that we see in our lives? (see Hebrews 9:13–14, Ephesians 1:7 and Titus 3:5–7)

7) Read Isaiah 6:9-11. God invites Isaiah to ministry and he volunteered for the role. In the sermon we talked about how God calls people to serve Him in everyday places: our neighborhoods, workplaces, and communities. Where has God placed you right now to be a witness for Him?

Close your time in prayer asking God show you how to serve Him. 

Small Group Questions | The Heart of God | Isaiah 1:1-20

This Spring Coastline Bible Church started preaching through the Old Testament book of Isaiah. The book of Isaiah is known as one of the three major prophets. The book starts with confrontation but ends with comfort. God is not impressed with Israel’s religious practices because their hearts are far from God. Israel has rebelled against God, forsaken Him, and turned their backs. Today we will see God confront their rebellion and invite them back into relationship with Him. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Heart of God | Isaiah 1:1-20

The book starts by highlight the rebellion of Israel. We know this book was written by Isaiah because his name is right there in the first sentence. Isaiah means: salvation of the Lord. And this is a key theme in the book of Isaiah. Israel has spurred the ‘Holy One of Israel.’ This is Isaiah’s favor title for God in the book. Isaiah was called to ministry in 739 B.C. the year King Uzziah died. We’ll see that spelled out next week in Chapter 6. He ministered through the reign of several different kings. He preached during the rise of the Assyrian Empire while God’s people continued to drift away from Him. Isaiah had a ministry that spanned a 50 year time period before he died.

1) Neal shared a story about a couple who was married and everything looked great on the outside but internally the marriage was loveless. Share about a time in your walk with Christ when things looked good on the outside but the inside was empty. 

2) Read Isaiah 1:2-4. God calls Israel His “children” but they have abandoned their father. What does this teach us about our relationship with God and how sin impacts that relationship? (see Luke 15:11–24 and Ephesians 4:30)

3) Read Isaiah 1:5-9. Israel experienced the consequences of their sin in the result of pain in their bodies and desolation in their country. What are some of the effects of sin that we see play out in our daily lives? 

4) Read Isaiah 1:10-15. God is sick and tired of heartless worship and longs for His people to return to worship Him. Discuss the difference between religious activity and relational obedience. (read Matthew 15:8-9 and 1 Samuel 15:22).

5) Where is it easiest for you to “go through the motions” spiritually? (see Revelation 2:4–5, Psalm 51:16–17 and John 4:23–24). What helps you move from going through the motions to a heart dedicated to the Lord? 

6)Read Isaiah 1:16-17. God gives very practical commands (defend the oppressed, care for the fatherless, plead for the widow.). Why do you think justice and worship are connected? How can our small group live this passage out in the next month? 

7) Read Isaiah 1:18-20. God says: “If you are willing…” What does willingness look like in your life right now? Is there any area of your life that looks religious on the outside but distant on the inside?

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you have a heart for Him. 

Small Group Questions | The Giving Life | Malachi 3:6-12

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Giving Life | Malachi 3:6-12

The good life is not something we stumble into by accident, it is formed as we learn to grow into the disciples Jesus has invited us to be. In the Old Testament God’s people had robbed Him of the tithes and offerings. The Temple was rebuilt in Israel but it paled in comparison to its former glory. The priesthood was corrupt, tithing was neglected, and widespread social injustice plagued Israel. Malachi speaks on behalf of God, inviting God’s people to worship Him again. Malachi invited God’s people to think about God’s faithfulness in their lives. This same invitation is extended to us today as we study these questions and remember God’s faithfulness in our lives even when we fail God. 

1) Every one of us has bills to pay and financial obligations to meet. Paying bills might be one of the most stressful things some people have to do. What emotions come up for you when you think about spending or giving money?  

2) Read Malachi 3:6–7. God reminds the Nation of Israel of His unchanging character. Why is God’s unchanging character important when we talk about generosity? (see Lamentations 3:22–23, Hebrews 13:8, and James 1:17). 

3) God invites His people to return to Him and in return He will return to them. There are many circumstances why someone would walk away from the Lord, what are the main reasons we see people come back to the Lord? 

4) Read Malachi 3:8-9. Malachi says that God’s people were robbing God. Read Haggai 1:4–9, Matthew 23:23, and Luke 21:1-4. What do you think God was really confronting in the hearts of His people and in our hearts as well? 

5) In the sermon we learned that the practice of tithing has four benefits to our walk with the Lord: Tithing forms me into a disciple who trusts and obeys Jesus, Tithing protects my heart from turning money into an idol, Tithing strengthens my relationship with God as Provider, Tithing partners us with God’s mission through the local church. What one was most impactful to you and why? 

6) Read Malachi 3:10-12. God told His people to test Him with their tithes & offerings. What does that reveal about His heart? (Read Psalm 34:8, Isaiah 55:8–9, and 2 Corinthians 9:6-8. 

7) Neal shared how tithing changed his family. They stopped seeing money as security and saw the Lord as their provider. How has tithing changed you? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you honor Him with your finances. 

Backpacking Gear List from the John Muir Trail

 

In 2024 I embarked on an epic adventure on the John Muir Trail. I wish I could say that I completed that journey but I didn't. I ended up bailing on the trail about half way through because I missed my family too much. Here is a list of the gear I brought on on that hike: 

Here are the items that I brought on the John Muir Trail 
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Small Group Questions | The Fulfilled Life | Various Proverbs

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Fulfilled Life | Various Proverbs

The good life is not something we stumble into by accident, it is formed as we learn to live into what God teaches us about our hearts and our treasure. Money is never just a financial issue; it is deeply connected to our priorities, our fears, and where we place our trust. Scripture invites us to slow down and examine not only what we spend, but what our spending reveals about what we value most. The wisdom found in Proverbs helps us see how everyday financial decisions shape our character, our freedom, and the legacy we leave behind. These questions are not designed to produce guilt, shame, or pressure, but to create space for reflection, honesty, and growth.

1) Neal opened the sermon by sharing about a financial lesson he learned in college; the lesson of getting into debt with a credit card. When you think about your life, what is a financial lesson that has stayed with you over time? 

2) For the following questions we will look at the five lessons we learned from Proverbs: 

Hard work pays off: Read Proverbs 10:4–5. How did you first learn the value of work? Who shaped that view for you, and how has it influenced how you approach your work today? (see: Proverbs 14:23 and Colossians 3:23–24). 

3) Live within your limits: Read Proverbs 22:7. We live in a  culture that promotes using debt to accomplish our dreams, Where are you most tempted to live beyond your financial means? (Proverbs 21:20 and Luke 14:28). 

4) Set your heart in the right place: Read Proverbs 8:10–11. What are some subtle ways money can begin to shape our desires, decisions, or sense of security without us realizing it? (see: Matthew 6:21 and 1 Timothy 6:6–10) 

5) Leave a Godly legacy: Read Proverbs 13:22. We can easily mistake a legacy for a financial gift, but Scripture paints a broader picture. When you think about the legacy you want to leave behind, what do you hope people remember most about your faith, values, or character? (see Psalm 78:1-8 and Deuteronomy 6:6–9) 

6) Use money as a tool to lift others up: Read Proverbs 22:22–23. In what ways have you seen generosity, either given or received, change your life or someone else’s  life? (see Proverbs 19:17 and 2 Corinthians 9:6–8) 

7) Which of the five principles challenged or impacted you the most? What do you plan on doing differently with your finances because of what you learned from God’s word in this sermon? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you honor Him with your finances. 

Small Group Questions | The Generous Life | Matthew 6:19-24

As we move into February we typically think of this month as a month of Love. It's a month we think of hearts, Valentine's Day, and expressing our love. In the New Testament Jesus asked His listeners to think about where they placed their affection. It is easy for us to place our affection in the wrong place; we have misplaced affection for money. Of His thirty-eight parables, about half of them deal with money and possessions. In the Gospels, one in every ten verses deal with money. Why so much talk about money? Because our attitude to money reveals a lot about us. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | The Generous Life | Matthew 6:19-24

The good life is not just wishful thinking but living into what Jesus teaches us about our heart and our treasure. Money is not simply a financial issue it is connected to our heart, priorities, and sense of security. Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 6 invites us to slow down and examine what we truly treasure. In this passage, Jesus challenges us to think about where we invest our lives and what those investments are shaping us into. These questions are not meant to produce guilt or pressure, but reflection and honesty. Each of us comes from different backgrounds and experiences with money, which means this conversation may look different for everyone. Move slow and practice kindness. 

1) Neal shared a story about a greedy uncle who wanted his wife to bury him with all of his money. This story makes us think about the contrast between greed and generosity. What makes the love of money and desire to have it so compelling? 

2) Which of the four areas of confusion about money (money is evil, you have to tithe, money equals God’s blessing, or “it’s mine”) do you see most often in yourself or in our culture? What other confusion on money would you add to this list? 

3) Read Matthew 6:19-21. Jesus contrasts storing up treasure on earth with storing up treasure in heaven. What are some practical ways people today “store up treasure on earth” without even realizing it? (see Colossians 3:2 and 1 John 2:15–17)

4) In the sermon we learned there are only four things we can do with our money: save it, spend it, give it away, or invest it. Read 1 Timothy 6:10, Luke 21:1-4, and 2 Corinthians 9:6-8. What does the Bible teach us about money? 

5) Read Matthew 6:22–23 Jesus uses the image of the eye being the lamp of the body. In your own words, what do you think Jesus is teaching with this picture? (see Psalm 119:37, Proverbs 4:25–27, and Hebrews 12:1–2). 

6) Read Matthew 6:24 When Jesus says we cannot serve both God and money, why do you think this is so challenging in everyday life living in Southern California? Where do you see that tension most clearly in your life? 

7) The story from 2 Chronicles 31 about God’s people returning back to Him shows generosity as a response to God’s work, not a requirement to earn His favor. How does that perspective change the way you think about giving or generosity?

Close your time in prayer asking God to give you a persistent prayer life.

Small Group Questions | Persistent Prayer | Luke 18:1-8

As we kick off the New Year, Coastline chose to preach on Bold Prayers. Throughout God's Word we see God's people cry out to Him. This might look like a cry of gratitude or a cry for help. In the New Testament the one thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them was how to pray. They saw the dedication Jesus had and something in His prayer life drew them to want to model what He was doing. We too can learn from the example of Jesus in our prayer life. Not only can we learn from Jesus but we can learn from a humble king, a hurting widow, and many more in the Bible who called out to God. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Persistent Prayer | Luke 18:1-8

We’re dedicating the entire month to studying prayer. The month of January can be a time where many people seek to make changes in their life and what better change can we make then spending more time communicating with God. Not only are we looking at what Scripture teaches on prayer but in Luke 18, Jesus teaches us about praying and never giving up. Studies show that only about 9% of people who set New Year’s resolutions actually stick with them through the year. In addition to that, 23% of resolution-makers quit within the first week, and 43% quit by the end of January. Instead of quitting, let’s study about prayer and learn to grow in spiritual maturity. 

1) Neal shared a story about how he and his son prayed for God to give them a house with an avocado tree. God answered that prayer for them. What is a prayer you  prayed, big or small, that God answered recently in your life? 

2) Read Luke 18:1-3. Jesus taught the disciples to not give up in their prayer life. As you reflect on your Christian walk is there a prayer you gave up on? What caused you to stop praying for this certain thing? 

3) Jesus taught the disciples to engage in continual prayer, not continuous prayer. Read: 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Romans 12:12, and Ephesians 6:18. How do these verses invite us to be persistent in prayer in a way that’s realistic for everyday life?

4) Read Luke 18:4-5. The widow was so persistent in her request that the judge thought she would wear him out. Share with your group a prayer that you really want to see God answer and you are trusting the outcome to Him. 

5) Read Luke 11:1-4. The disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray. Notice that Jesus said: “When you pray” not “if you pray.” How has this sermon series impacted your understanding and has it changed anything about how you pray? 

6) Read Luke 18:6-8. God doesn’t ignore the requests of His people but will come to the aid of His people. Read 1 Samuel 1:9–20, Jonah 2:1–10 and Acts 12:5–17. When you read these instances of God working, how does that increase your faith?  

7) At the end of our passage Jesus didn’t ask if we would be religious but if He would find faith when He returns. Read Hebrews 11:6, Romans 10:17, and Mark 11:24. What do these verses teach us about how faith grows as we continue to pray, even when answers don’t come in our desired timeframe? 

Close your time in prayer asking God to give you a persistent prayer life.

As we kick off the New Year, Coastline chose to preach on Bold Prayers. Throughout God's Word we see God's people cry out to Him. This might look like a cry of gratitude or a cry for help. In the New Testament the one thing the disciples asked Jesus to teach them was how to pray. They saw the dedication Jesus had and something in His prayer life drew them to want to model what He was doing. We too can learn from the example of Jesus in our prayer life. Not only can we learn from Jesus but we can learn from a humble king, a hurting widow, and many more in the Bible who called out to God. Each week, we’ve created small group questions designed to help people reflect deeply, apply personally, and grow spiritually. I’m sharing those questions here so others can benefit; whether you’re leading a small group, studying on your own, or learning to pray these questions are for you. 

Small Group Questions | Selfless Prayer | 1 Kings 3:1-15

We’re starting the year by looking at what God’s word says about prayer. The month of January can usually be a reset in our life and a time to evaluate how we use our time. Prayer is simply communication with God. It takes time, intentionality, and focus. Sometimes we’re distracted in our prayer life and sometimes we’re extremely focused. In 1 King’s 3:1-15 we learn that Solomon had a divided heart. He loved the Lord but also struggled with the worldly practices around him. He goes to the most important place to worship and has a meaningful interaction with God that really changes his life. Through a humble prayer God gives Solomon what he asked for and even more! 

1) We live in a world with such abundance which makes us think we don’t need to ask God for our daily provision. When you think about everything you have at your fingertips, how does that impact how you choose to pray? 

2) Read 1 Kings 3:1-3. When we read this passage we learn that Solomon had a divided heart. Read Matthew 6:24, Jeremiah 31:33, and James 1:22. What does God’s word teach us about having a divided heart? 

3) Having a divided heart is an age old issue humanity has struggled with for centuries. Share with your group about a time you recognized your heart was divided in choosing the world over choosing the ways of the Lord. 

4) Read 1 Kings 3:4-6. Solomon’s first response to God was thankfulness. Take some time to share what you are thankful for and where you see God’s provision in your life. (see Philippians 4:6, 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Psalm 100:4, and Psalm 107:1).

5) Read 1 Kings 3:7-9. When you read the entirety of Solomon’s response to God, does it follow the pattern of the ACTS prayer model we learned last Sunday? How does the humility of Solomon impact you? (see James 4:6 and Proverbs 22:4).  

6) Neal offered us three ways to remain focused, and not distracted in our prayer life: Put your phone away, create space for times of prayer, and viewing prayer a text thread with God. What one(s) do you plan to implement this week? 

7) Read 1 Kings 3:10-15. God responded to Solomon with abundance. Read Ephesians 3:20, John 10:10, and Psalm 103:8. Share with your group how you’ve seen God’s provision and abundance in your life. 

Close your time in prayer asking God to help you grow in spiritual maturity.