Author: Terry Wardle
Favorite Quote: God wants to meet the caregiver at the place of his own deepest pain.
This is the final book that was a required reading for my spring course at Tozer Seminary called: Suffering and Healing. This book has some great wisdom found it in about spiritual healing that the believer needs to engage in.
I would consider this book the most helpful, in my opinion, of the required texts I read. I am not saying that the other books are unworthy but I am saying that this book tends to speak my language. I enjoy having a plan and being able to think through steps to achieve that plan. Wardle lays out some steps for healing that he has used in his ministry so you know the plan is something that has been tried and tested.
If you have some wounds in your past, like we all do, Warlde lays out the coping model that helps to see how we handle pain in our life. Here is a quick snapshot of it:
Core Needs- Safety, Worth, Uniqueness, Love, Nurture, Appreciation and God
Pain Layer- Our personal reaction to stolen pain
Protection Layer- Strategies we employ to keep our pain in check
Provision Layer- Trying to meet the unmet need in a new way
Punishment Layer- Pain often births an anger that drives a person to strike back at the one who has perpetuated the injury
This model took me a while to understand but has helped me as I am dealing with unmet core needs from my childhood. If you are seeking healing from the pain and suffering in your life then I would recommend this book!