When change happens in our life we tend to examine things around us. I began to examine my leadership in student ministry and really started thinking about how I would change if I had a change to do it again. I also started to think about what I would do more of and take more time and energy to invest in. One thing that keeps sticking out to me is that: "More is Caught then Taught" in ministry. I say this because I constantly hear young adults in our church, that graduated from our high school ministry, say things like: "Neal I remember when you said this to me or took the time to talk to me about this."
Last night I was talking with one of these young men and he told me about a conversation that we had and how I was encouraging him in relationships. Yesterday afternoon I spent some time with one of the guys who was in my small group and now is a junior in high school. We have kids, students and people in our church that are watching what I do. You have kids, students and adults in your church that are watching how you act.
I believe that more is caught in ministry than taught. I believe that people forget most of the messages that we speak from stage but remember what they see us doing in our community, office, trucks, backyard and soccer field. People are watching what we do and that is why this verse is so important as we live our lives.
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35 (NIV)I think that people are going to remember the time we invest into their lives more than our actions on a stage, or leadership position, the degrees on my wall and the things the world thinks are important.